Don't let her orgasm ?
Warrior15
When I have sex with a girl, I enjoy it more when she is enjoying it also. I know a lot of girls fake it, but that still adds to the enjoyment. I love doing DATY when the girl really gets into it. Maybe this is why I have sugar babies that want to come back around to me often. But I had something happen to me twice in the past week with two different girls that makes me think I shouldn't worry about them. I've learned my body over the years. If I have sex totally sober, I have to watch how fast we get into the act. I don't want the train to leave the station too early if you know what I mean. But if I have just one or two drinks of alcohol, then I am in total control. I can really get into the session and not worry about cuming too quickly.
So here is the issue. Two different dates with two different girls. The sex gets real hot and heavy. Sessions last quite a while. Lots of oral both ways, lots of different positions, then the girl has her orgasm before me. She wants to stop. WTF ?!? She says that after her orgasm , then she is too sensitive to continue. Happened with both girls. They were really into it. Session went on for a while. Then the earthquake happens. BAM. I can't touch them down there anymore. AAARRRGGGHHHH!!!!!!! One of the girls did finish me off with a pretty enthusiastic blow job/hand job. The other girl wanted to sit around and talk for several minutes before we continued. So in the end, I got what I wanted also.
But maybe I shouldn't worry about the girl. Maybe I should go into each session totally sober and not worry about the train leaving the station. I'm the one paying, right ?!?
So here is the issue. Two different dates with two different girls. The sex gets real hot and heavy. Sessions last quite a while. Lots of oral both ways, lots of different positions, then the girl has her orgasm before me. She wants to stop. WTF ?!? She says that after her orgasm , then she is too sensitive to continue. Happened with both girls. They were really into it. Session went on for a while. Then the earthquake happens. BAM. I can't touch them down there anymore. AAARRRGGGHHHH!!!!!!! One of the girls did finish me off with a pretty enthusiastic blow job/hand job. The other girl wanted to sit around and talk for several minutes before we continued. So in the end, I got what I wanted also.
But maybe I shouldn't worry about the girl. Maybe I should go into each session totally sober and not worry about the train leaving the station. I'm the one paying, right ?!?
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last commentIt's P4P. So, to a certain degree, you should get the service you pay for. At the same time, if that's a legit complaint of theirs, then you just need to talk to them about it. Something along the lines of "Last week was fun, but I'd been hoping for [X]." And then figure out how you get back on the same page. My gut instinct is that they probably want the pay more than the orgasm, and they will probably choose accordingly.
If the O was real, then Shadowcat’s suggestion seems the way to go. Either way, have you talked with them about multiple shots on goal? You could fire one off right away and then keep playing if they are agreeable.
When op says "When I have sex with a girl, I enjoy it more when she is enjoying it also. "
Then cim saying "you should get the service you pay for."
It's sad af and sounds rapy.
Pausers are fine.
Truth or lie, real or fake, the OP was thrown an unexpected curve ball that should've been disclosed beforehand.
File this under lesson learned and another thing to be addressed/adjusted for pre-game with new/subsequent OTCs.
The cuddling would probably work. But I was ready to go THEN.
I try to make my sessions ( sugar baby and OTC ) be as far away from business like as possible. But I guess there does need to be some level of "expectation" involved.
Why is it that every time that Icey responses to a thread, that thread quickly dissolves into arguing with Icey ? We need the two-way Ignore.
Maybe think about what you post instead of attacking anyone for stating the obvious.
This is up there with Cashman liking shit on his dick. Sjgs prostate massages and subraman sucking dick
Apparently, 25 gained ten pounds...
Even if they had said they were finished, I wasn't going anywhere without the jaws of life.
Good times.
They do enjoy themselves but every girl is different plus for all I know they could be faking it. Think of all the partners they potentially have including bf / hubby. So if there is a disconnect in me getting a happy ending that girl may be dropped from the roster. I do inform them of what I expect.
I like for forplay them modeling bik, nude plus lap dances, feeling up, hj foreplay. One has her routine the other follows per my direction. Both real good. I like take photos of them (bik, nude) for my archive. I do strippers and gals off SA. Been rotating 2 the best of the best ones had x stripper and one off SA. I like ones that ride me good.
I give them generous contribution PPM (pay per meeting).
When I pay to park, I don’t move my car while there’s still 15 minutes left on the meter!
I will play along and answer your questions.
Don't let her orgasm ?
In my humble opinion and limited experience, I prefer them and myself to experience multiple orgasms.
In our sexually repressed and contradictory American society/culture women are told they ought to be modest and suppress and feel ashamed of their sexual desires and sexuality in general.
So they are “too sensitive” to continue, however when women really are experiencing good sex their body parts naturally get wet/lubricated and become more sensitive.
What has worked for me with my ATF Stripper Ally, who was a baby stripper when we meet, very sweet and nice, was to make her feel safe, in a clean comfortable environment (nice hotel room) secure and desired so the sex got better and better because she was more comfortable and felt safe relaxed and was able to let herself go and enjoy it, I enjoyed it too, she would experience multiple orgasms and was very shy and sweet about it.
Ally and I developed a Sugar Baby type of relationship we had OTC almost every week for more than two years.
She was worth every penny and every second I spent with her.
Similarly when I meet mi ATF woman and I had one of the best sexual experiences in my life. I wrote an article about it:
“How I found my All Time Favorite woman.”
https://tuscl.net/article.php?…
In any “business relationship” there are people that are nice, professional, offer friendly service and “it is a pleasure doing business with them”.
Thank you for sharing your experience and making me remember the good times I had.
One of my former SBs would get so sensitive when she had a daty orgasm she would slap me up the side of the head and push me away. She would typically follow that by saying it was okay to fuck her but not to lick it. Worked for me.
I might be old but I ain't elderly I can still kick Iceefags ass anytime he shows up.
SJG