Why does it seem dancer’s SO’s are often poor? Did they meet the poor SO first, and then get into stripping as a result? Or were they dancing first, and could only find poorer SO’s to date as a result of the dancing for some reason. Are wealthier guys less willing to marry or date escorts or dancers
Dancers, for the most part, are from poor backgrounds and poor neighborhoods. Their fathers, brothers and boyfriends have low-paying jobs and little education. To strippers, a poor boyfriend seems natural. When they're not at work, the kind of men they meet in their neighborhoods do not have a lot of prospects.
Jack, do they try to marry the richer men at their work? Are they not able to find wealthier men for relationships and marriage? How come wealthier women don’t get into dancing. The money can be very fast and easy, even higher than a doctors hourly rate.
Dancers seem to prefer men from their own social class as boyfriends or husbands. They have less in common with the better educated and more successful. Sometimes a dancer will marry a customer but it usually does not turn out well for the customer.
My experience is primarily with Latin women in Nj/NY. A lot date the “bad boys” in thier late teens get stuck with
A kid, or 2, or 3. The father then gets bored and leaves. She is then pretty much untouchable to any guy making six figures and I wouldn’t be surprised if some guys who make mid five figures scorn her. I’m a perfect world older women would mentor the younger girls but it’s a continuous cycle as every girl wants to go though her “bad girl” phase
@big I had to check if you were a woman with a response like that. The answer to your question is in the same realm as “why women prefer tall guys”. There’s always some percentage out there that knows fully well the answer but wants to debate why short guys are just as desirable. Rather than slip down the rabbit hole of debating you’d I’d recommend googling “dating a single mother” on YouTube
IMO their BF choices are largely a by-product of social circles and lifestyle choices.
Many of these girls come from difficult backgrounds. I know we talk a lot about Daddy issues, but many of their mothers probably weren't exactly Betty Crocker or Sally Homemaker either. A lot of the people they grow up and socialize with are in a similar boat. They learn to view life through a certain lens and become more comfortable with certain types of people.
From there nature takes its course. They leave high school at 18 or younger and enter the working world. They are young, horny and desire companionship, which leads them to dating within their natural social circles.
The ones who choose to dance experience additional dating pool compression because of course a lot of guys are not OK with that. Unfortunately the remaining eligible dating pool skews to certain types of guys who are OK with it for one reason or another.
Now that is not to say that they couldn't do better, but on whole college educated people tend to date other college educated people and share similar priorities, especially in the younger years. But that cuts both ways. The types of girls who stick with dancing for some number of years generally don't want the soccer Mom and corporate employee lifestyle anyway - it's not familiar to them and often looks very boring/confining.
<strong>So when some knucklehead comes on here and wonders why she's dating a loser BF instead of a wonderful income producer like himself, it's because she doesn't want what you're selling. She'd rather hustle at the club and then go home to the more attractive BF than to have to crawl in bed with your ugly ass, become financially dependent on you in the process and then get trapped in an unfamiliar lifestyle that she doesn't remotely want.</strong>
===> "Rick what if the customer is both wealthier, taller, more attractive than their BF."
Then everything else I said above still applies.
Though regarding the bolded text above, I'm pretty confident that it's not guys like that who are usually pissing and moaning about strippers choosing loser BFs over them. I strongly suspect that in most cases it's guys who make decent (but not phenomenal) money but who can't land a decent woman in their natural social circles because of physical or personality limitations. So they erroneously assume that their income will make them look more attractive to a different demographic and increase their odds of success.
Of course when it doesn't play out that way, the pissing and moaning begins. Kinda' like with incel types who whine how great they are and how the best girls always want to date jerks. The simple truth is that nature wires us to avoid breeding with unattractive and/or mentally defective people and neither a modest white collar salary nor a "great personality" are going to overcome that.
@big I hate to answer a question with a question? But don’t you really want the reasons or are you hoping I fall for the bait post reasons and you desperately try to refute each reason. If it’s the former than just put “dating a single mother” in YouTube. If it’s the latter I don’t have the time for that debate. Life’s short if you are a single mother you just have to accept that you aren’t as desirable for marriage in a similar way to girls wanting to marry a guy who is five foot six
But Rick their income may make them attractive for sex. A rich woman is less likely to date for money or have sex for it.
Arent there some dancers or escorts who will want to marry/date those rich guys you’re talking about, but its just to use them for money, like long term escorting basically? Marrying someone would give access to 50% of their wealth plus child support income.
Rick, so you think being muscular and attractive encourages breeding behavioral responses?
Are you referring to one of the people on this thread, regarding the moaning about loser BF’s?
But mr Dugan, there are unattractive people breeding, either paying directly for sex, or those very ugly men, marrying super hot women. Look at for example many of those saudi royal family guys, many are pretty strange looking...
^ Dude, I'm trolled out for the moment, lol. This topic was interesting, but this intentional stupidity act is getting a little old. If you really want to keep a conversation alive then be more on point instead of constantly shifting the circumstances around in your follow-up questions.
@big no need to explain yourself, I have to deal with this Lunancy often which is why I had to check your profile to see if you were a woman. There’s people of your ilk up debate with for weeks if not months on YouTube. Go for it. Maybe you should make a video called why pretty single women are the best as well
^ Money has its limits. Sure a girl may be able to suppress her natural instincts long enough to relieve a guy of several hundred dollars. But a physically and/or emotionally challenged guy making $125k as a techie (one of the few jobs where weird shut-ins can excel), for example, ain't gonna be swinging far outside of his league just because he can offer a house in suburbia - that she would have to live-in with him - and a nicer car.
The problem with your never-ending fixation on the wealthy unicorn are multiple. First off, that guy is likely going to have an array of other options, notably including plenty of civilian girls who are NOT working as strippers. He is also probably not quite as challenged as the more garden variety shut-in or else he wouldn't be wealthy in the first place.
Of course exceptions to every rule can be found, but they are exceptions for a reason.
Rick those techie creeps yes are rare in that they can be socially weird yet upper middle class. There are also many doctors, maybe some lawyers who are weirdos.
But Rick wouldnt many women still be motivated to date/marry such guys, to use them for their money. After all they could easily cheat. I dont think it means anything if a woman wants to marry or date someone. The only thing that means something, IMO, is if the woman fucks you totally free of charge. But even in that case, she could be doing it to get access to your wealth or get a relationship. There are surveys talking about how womens standards for relationships/dating go down drastically compared to their standards for hookups. With men its supposedly the opposite.
NJballa, funny comments!
Njballa i see the concerns with single women but it often seems to come down to financial reasons like people dont want to raise someone else’s kid.
@TBE
I think you said you were a mid twenty year old guy, damn boy when I was your age I was getting pussy by the boatload, and strippers wouldn't have been on my radar, I was just having fun, I had a union trade job that paid well, drove a Corvette, had my own apartment in Queens, N.Y., the only times we ever went to a titty bar was with a bunch of buddies after work on various construction sites. I have difficulty understanding where you're coming from, we went out every week to Disco's in NYC or Queens and Brooklyn, and there were always lots of hot sexy women around, looking to hook up for free.
Twentyfive i dont like going through the process of dating apps like tinder etc and i cant justify spending money on taking girls to dates. I have met a few attractive civvie women but they had other issues like being a single mother or being immigrants. Im looking for different things in hookups vs a relationship. I’m pretty picky with dancers or civvie women, Theres a certain body type I’m looking for. I have some other issues going on so am mostly looking at escorts and dancers now...
^ Whatever floats your boat, I ain't judging just commenting.
BTW we didn't have any dating apps not even cell phones, the one thing I have noticed is this newest generation has no people skills, what's so hard about seeing a pretty girl and in a non creepy, non threatening way, introducing yourself, if you do it right you'll meet tons of hot friendly women, and if you do it wrong you'll get shot down until you learn to do it right, you can be as picky as you like, I always went for the ones I thought were that hottest thats up to you.
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What does a stripper do with her asshole before she goes to work?
She drops him off at rehearsal.
Ta Da!!!!!!
A kid, or 2, or 3. The father then gets bored and leaves. She is then pretty much untouchable to any guy making six figures and I wouldn’t be surprised if some guys who make mid five figures scorn her. I’m a perfect world older women would mentor the younger girls but it’s a continuous cycle as every girl wants to go though her “bad girl” phase
Mid five figures so like 50k+! Wow
Arent there six figure guys desperate to marry hot women? They wont marry hot strippers?
Many of these girls come from difficult backgrounds. I know we talk a lot about Daddy issues, but many of their mothers probably weren't exactly Betty Crocker or Sally Homemaker either. A lot of the people they grow up and socialize with are in a similar boat. They learn to view life through a certain lens and become more comfortable with certain types of people.
From there nature takes its course. They leave high school at 18 or younger and enter the working world. They are young, horny and desire companionship, which leads them to dating within their natural social circles.
The ones who choose to dance experience additional dating pool compression because of course a lot of guys are not OK with that. Unfortunately the remaining eligible dating pool skews to certain types of guys who are OK with it for one reason or another.
Now that is not to say that they couldn't do better, but on whole college educated people tend to date other college educated people and share similar priorities, especially in the younger years. But that cuts both ways. The types of girls who stick with dancing for some number of years generally don't want the soccer Mom and corporate employee lifestyle anyway - it's not familiar to them and often looks very boring/confining.
<strong>So when some knucklehead comes on here and wonders why she's dating a loser BF instead of a wonderful income producer like himself, it's because she doesn't want what you're selling. She'd rather hustle at the club and then go home to the more attractive BF than to have to crawl in bed with your ugly ass, become financially dependent on you in the process and then get trapped in an unfamiliar lifestyle that she doesn't remotely want.</strong>
You're welcome. 😉
Also did you read the earlier post. Is it true dancers want to date someone inferior to themselves because of self esteem issues?
Rick, so dancers do date guys they find attractive? You earlier mentioned the attractive SOs as being a rarity!
NjBalla and Rick, what are the issues with dating a single mother?
Where did I say that?
Then everything else I said above still applies.
Though regarding the bolded text above, I'm pretty confident that it's not guys like that who are usually pissing and moaning about strippers choosing loser BFs over them. I strongly suspect that in most cases it's guys who make decent (but not phenomenal) money but who can't land a decent woman in their natural social circles because of physical or personality limitations. So they erroneously assume that their income will make them look more attractive to a different demographic and increase their odds of success.
Of course when it doesn't play out that way, the pissing and moaning begins. Kinda' like with incel types who whine how great they are and how the best girls always want to date jerks. The simple truth is that nature wires us to avoid breeding with unattractive and/or mentally defective people and neither a modest white collar salary nor a "great personality" are going to overcome that.
I didn't say that he didn't exist, merely that I wouldn't want to be him for all the tea in China.
Arent there some dancers or escorts who will want to marry/date those rich guys you’re talking about, but its just to use them for money, like long term escorting basically? Marrying someone would give access to 50% of their wealth plus child support income.
Rick, so you think being muscular and attractive encourages breeding behavioral responses?
Are you referring to one of the people on this thread, regarding the moaning about loser BF’s?
But mr Dugan, there are unattractive people breeding, either paying directly for sex, or those very ugly men, marrying super hot women. Look at for example many of those saudi royal family guys, many are pretty strange looking...
I have some ideas on th single mother thing
But idk
Mr Dugan there are some escorts who offer “exclusivity”. But you have to pay them like 500k a year or 300k depends on her price in general.
Theres debate over whether being muscular helps with women. And a lot of bias involved, once muscular or non muscular guys start chiming in.
The problem with your never-ending fixation on the wealthy unicorn are multiple. First off, that guy is likely going to have an array of other options, notably including plenty of civilian girls who are NOT working as strippers. He is also probably not quite as challenged as the more garden variety shut-in or else he wouldn't be wealthy in the first place.
Of course exceptions to every rule can be found, but they are exceptions for a reason.
But Rick wouldnt many women still be motivated to date/marry such guys, to use them for their money. After all they could easily cheat. I dont think it means anything if a woman wants to marry or date someone. The only thing that means something, IMO, is if the woman fucks you totally free of charge. But even in that case, she could be doing it to get access to your wealth or get a relationship. There are surveys talking about how womens standards for relationships/dating go down drastically compared to their standards for hookups. With men its supposedly the opposite.
Njballa i see the concerns with single women but it often seems to come down to financial reasons like people dont want to raise someone else’s kid.
I think you said you were a mid twenty year old guy, damn boy when I was your age I was getting pussy by the boatload, and strippers wouldn't have been on my radar, I was just having fun, I had a union trade job that paid well, drove a Corvette, had my own apartment in Queens, N.Y., the only times we ever went to a titty bar was with a bunch of buddies after work on various construction sites. I have difficulty understanding where you're coming from, we went out every week to Disco's in NYC or Queens and Brooklyn, and there were always lots of hot sexy women around, looking to hook up for free.
BTW we didn't have any dating apps not even cell phones, the one thing I have noticed is this newest generation has no people skills, what's so hard about seeing a pretty girl and in a non creepy, non threatening way, introducing yourself, if you do it right you'll meet tons of hot friendly women, and if you do it wrong you'll get shot down until you learn to do it right, you can be as picky as you like, I always went for the ones I thought were that hottest thats up to you.
PRACTICE MAN
Money is nice to have but if you can't give a woman the things Money can't buy you won't get far.