Dancers asking about favorites, who else you got dances from
Why do they ask who’s your favorite? If you say they are, the next question is always who’s your second favorite. Happened multiple times. Are they just trying to see their competition?
Do dancers get jealous or angry if you refuse a dance with them, but get it with another dancer.
Or what if you for instance get one dance with each dancer, instead of spending a larger amount on one singular dancer.
Do dancers get jealous or angry if you refuse a dance with them, but get it with another dancer.
Or what if you for instance get one dance with each dancer, instead of spending a larger amount on one singular dancer.
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SJG
I am used to telling the truth and rarely lie unless necessary.
I told the dancer her and one other dancer was my favorite... do you think thats bad and if so why
And why should you not go along with jt
Whats the reason they ask that anyway?
SJG
Whats the reason these dancers ask this question anyway...?
SJG
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How does me truthfully answering my favorites, allow them to do that
You only let her see you with another when that has expired with her.
SJG
Does jt always work that way? If you only give your attention to one dancer and not others, does it help get to her more?
SJG
If they know your face and remember who you are, they'll probably already know if you have a favorite.
"Are they just trying to see their competition?"
They're probably just trying to see if they can run a sympathy game on you. Or maybe be the "second favorite" like Shyohio was saying.
"Do dancers get jealous or angry if you refuse a dance with them, but get it with another dancer."
Yes, but it's not personal most of the time. It's usually dancers in their feelings about money they feel entitled to. But I've had stuff go sideways in the club over legit jealousy and it was just as fun as you'd think it would be. Wouldn't recommend it.
"Or what if you for instance get one dance with each dancer, instead of spending a larger amount on one singular dancer."
Don't bother. If they're paying attention the one who thinks she got paid less will still be bitter about it.
If I'm a new face I'll usually get the "have I been there before" question before the favorite question. If it's no, then it's the "see any girls I like" or offer to tell me about the club. Or if the girl is less experienced she just keeps asking more questions about me and I change the subject. If the answer is yes, then the next question I usually get is whether there are any girls I'm there to see.
"Favorite" is pretty specific, so when I hear the word it's usually got something else coming behind it. When I have favorite dancers, the girls who are already know and don't have to ask unless they're questioning their standing. Then it's back to the previous sentence, so fav is a word I'll use on a message board but would rather not get into with real live dancers.
The first dancer who asked that, i did ask her why, and she said she was just wondering. These dancers werent trying to set me up with some other dancer either. There was a bunch of stuff discussed in the conversation , no shortage of topics and it was asked with a serious face. Actually they first asked who else i have gotten dances with. I told them, then they asked my favorite. In both cases when I told the dancer they themselves are my favorite, the next question was whos your second favorite. One dancer asked the third favorite!
When i was asked about my second favorite, in scenario 1 I just said i dont know, in scenario 2 I said actually you and dancer X are both my favorite.
Then she was asking some details of that dancer cause she hadn’t seen her before.
I dont know if this was acceptable or not, but my other ATF is rarely there so i told the dancer asking to give my number to that other dancer if she sees her. She laughed and said she’ll try. Idk if it was a genuine laugh or not.
But in this context it certainly wasnt due to making conversation or them looking to help out another dancer. It had to be something else like curiosity, nosiness, something else
Now that first dancer was extra nosy, when i asked her about otc another time she didnt answer the question and instead asked if ive done that with anyone else from the club. Lol!
These questions were asked in the middle of vip whilst getting lapdances from those dancers and playing with their boobs. It wasn’t asked in the front room
This a good way to not get your dick sucked. What you gonna do complain to management if she doesn't, yeah um sir your girl here refused to suck my dick after I told her to shut up and do it.
Huh? You mean, you pay <em>before</em> you get your nut? Loser.
Hell, she'd be lucky I didn't take <em>her</em> money for being so fucking nosy.
Yes jt is nosy