Slow or fast?
I was reading casualguy's post about his speedy dancer and how he was thinking of asking her to slow down. I like my dances super slow, but it seems like the typical customer likes it fast.
Some of my favorites could really slow it down to a snail's pace. :) Of course, with other customers I'd see them at warp speed . . .
Some of my favorites could really slow it down to a snail's pace. :) Of course, with other customers I'd see them at warp speed . . .
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Some guys try and get me to move way to fast right off the bat, I just can't do it, I like to work up to it.
Sometimes I get lucky and a dancer like yourself prefers slow and sensual. :) In fact, one slow sensual dancer after I'd known her a while slowed it down even more, which surprised me that there was an even slower speed and I surprised her in that I thought it was fantastic. She says most customers seem to want speed and more speed. She added speed was better only in that it was a lot less personal.
She was also nice in that should could ignore the music. :) Seems like most dancers have to be in tune with whatever is played.
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Hold her head indeed. :) Hunger is a bigger problem for me. A happy customer is NOT a happy meal.
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I hadn't thought newness had anything to do with it, but then I learned that yes for some customers and dancers start out seeking speed and then get old. :) I always liked it very slow. One very young dancer explained she was going fast to save me money. She was happy to go slow and did a good job, but she thought it was a waste of my money. She was explaining that she could get me off in one song her way. :) (I think unfortunately she was probably correct.)
Personal pet peeve: I ask her to goddammit slow down, she doesn't. Or she does for TWO HUMPS total and then goes right back to her original speed. If it gets bad, I tell her I won't pay and try to get up and leave. That generally causes her to actually pay attention.
Guys sometimes don't realize that as a dancer, damn does that twat bone get sore when someone trying to get you to ram it into them
Evilcyn, I think some girls are intentionally reluctant to get too sensual, they don't want to get that intimate with customers, they prefer to keep it as impersonal as possible. Which probably costs them a lot of money.