I think there are a few underlying themes in those interviews.
There are many folks with student loan debt. This seems like an avoidable type of debt. It can be paid off gradually, but it remains over you until you do. I have college age kids, and what I do is I make them take a hard look at the colleges they want to attend, and then we examine how much the average student earns from that school, and we examine the employment percentage of graduates, and the placement assistance offered. Then we compare that to average tuitions from comparable schools, and that gives us a worthwhile baseline.
Medical debt is dependent on the type of debt incurred. It can also be negotiated down. The amounts the hospitals charge individuals are usually higher than the negotiated rates that insurance companies get, so there’s good wiggle room there. They also know they get nothing if you file bankruptcy, so it’s worth it for them to negotiate the amount down. When they sell off the shitty debt, they get a few pennies for the dollar, so it’s best for them to collect ten cents on the dollar that you owe them.
The credit card debt for folks who simply don’t control their spending, is the most stupid form of debt. There are folks who don’t pay attention to their credit card debt, and it gets out of hand easily. It’s usually spent on clothing or frivolous items, that don’t provide long term durability. The credit cards allow you to make tiny monthly payments, which are not based on an installment method, just a balance multiplied by a rate. So, you could be paying off something you bought 10 years ago.
Banks like to loan you money based on previous high credit amounts approved. You get a decent student loan amount, and a credit card company will see that and offer you a decent credit limit. It’s dangerous, but there are lots of unscrupulous lenders. They rarely hold any debt, as they will syndicate or securitize their instruments in order to get more cash. They know the likelihood of the consumers paying the balances off is low, but they can group the crap into tranches and get cash by selling it off at a discounted price.
It’s best to avoid the trap of debt and credit card debt by paying balances off as quickly as they are created. Use a credit card for convenience, and for the consumer protection programs it offers, but not as a loan.