What would you do if newly single and had a very high income?
TxVegas
Still looking for an ATF
First: This is not one of those asking for a friend things when I am really asking for myself. This is definitely not my situation.
I just had dinner tonight with a newly divorced friend. He is in his early 50s and his kids are in college. He owns his own business and makes over a million dollars a year. He will not be paying spousal support as she has her own career and did not need the money. They spit what they had basically in half. He and his ex had been having difficulties for the last three or four years so he has not had a great time recently with regard to women. They had been married for 27 years. His ex was very attractive and he will be popular on the “friends trying to fix you up circuit.”
He asked me what I would do in his situation. I gave some vague answers but what I was really thinking was he should just go to all the high milage strip clubs across this great land and play for a few years. If he finds someone he
Is really into, he should take high end vacations with her to places where a bikini or less is appropriate attire.
What would you mongers do in his situation?
I just had dinner tonight with a newly divorced friend. He is in his early 50s and his kids are in college. He owns his own business and makes over a million dollars a year. He will not be paying spousal support as she has her own career and did not need the money. They spit what they had basically in half. He and his ex had been having difficulties for the last three or four years so he has not had a great time recently with regard to women. They had been married for 27 years. His ex was very attractive and he will be popular on the “friends trying to fix you up circuit.”
He asked me what I would do in his situation. I gave some vague answers but what I was really thinking was he should just go to all the high milage strip clubs across this great land and play for a few years. If he finds someone he
Is really into, he should take high end vacations with her to places where a bikini or less is appropriate attire.
What would you mongers do in his situation?
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Q: What would you do if newly single and had a very high income?
A: If I was in your friend’s situation would make up for loss time regarding women and sex...
Sexual interactions in various forms is nothing new in western culture...
I would refer him to Demosthenes (384 – 12 October 322 BC)
Greek statesman and orator of ancient Athens.
1. We have courtesans for the sake of pleasure.
2. Concubines for the daily health of our bodies, and
3. Wives to bear us lawful offspring and be the faithful guardians of our homes
In this list is the Greek view of woman in the classic age.
And in all ages and times.
All men want that, but only some can afford it...
In today’s world the rich can say:
1. We have high end escorts, centerfolds, actresses, models, etc that provide PSE/GFE for the sake of pleasure.
2. Mistresses/Sugar Babies/Strippers ITC OTC; etc, for the daily needs of our bodies.
3. Trophy Wives (with an ironclad prenup) to bear us lawful offspring, and be the faithful guardians of our homes.
4. Realistic Sex Dolls/Gynoids/Fembot, and Internet Porn and Instagram/Onlyfans “Models”, for kicks-and-giggles”
Also I would ask him;
Have you considered going to the Nevada brothels, like the Moonlite BunnyRanch, Chicken Ranch, etc.?
How about traveling to the Happiest Place on Earth (according to Krusty) TJ?
https://tuscl.net/photo.php?id=1401
Or the German Freikörperkultur (FKK) clubs.
Just something to think about...
That's what I did when I retired 3 years ago, with a nice stack of disposable cash at hand.
This is his time to indulge all of his hedonistic desires. So sure, add the trips to German FKK's, Thailand GoGo Clubs, etc. Tell him to pass on the Nevada brothels - they suck and not in a good way. And TJ is ok, but the Euro and Asian locations are much better with a moderate to large budget.
One should also assume that P4P (SCs etc) is not for everyone and a lot of people don't have any interest in it and prefer to be in relationships.
I can offer experiences on "living large" for folks on a budget.
I wish I had his problem but first and foremost would be protecting my wealth.
If he's been making over a million a year for a while, I assume he has lots of cash and other assets like real estate, insurance policies, etc. He should transfer a big chunk of it into an irrevocable trust with a corporate trustee, so it will be protected from any future bad decisions he might make.
Then he can go off to rediscover his youth with large current earnings still at his disposal.
I did a lot of P4P in Cali when I was semi-retired, living alone, and had about $100k of funds to live off while I was looking into other job opportunities. However, money doesn't last long in Cali.
When I moved to Iowa, Backpage got destroyed and PFP wasn't really an option. Plus, my income took a -60% hit so I couldn't really afford it even if I could find it. I also put on another 20-25 pounds so standard dating became problematic.
Now that I'm in Michigan with a new job, my income has more than doubled and I have some disposable income to play with. So, now what?
A part of me thinks I should just dive into the online dating scene and try to drop 30-40 pounds to make it worthwhile. Another part of me thinks it'd be fun to sample some extras clubs and maybe find a "regular OTC" option.
Honestly, if I had millions, I'd probably go the dating route vs. PFP. There's plenty of attractive women that would have sex with him for free (other than costs of dating) if he's bringing in that kind of dough. And, you can afford a personal trainer and top of the line exercise gear...so it's harder to use the excuse that "real women" wouldn't be interested.
Some girls will try to get a guy hooked on drugs so they don't have to perform and take all their money until they have no more. Million or not. I used to hear stories from OTC girls about these types of scenarios. They had no problem telling me what they did and I even saw them do it to a couple guys. I visited more than one hotel where I was fucking and having a great time while some idiot is there handing out cocaine to the girls all night for little in return.
Maybe your friend needs a guy to guide him to the first few adventures and watch his back.
If I were old and wanted to spend it on hookers I'd do exotic shit like strip clubs in Nepal or getting blowjobs on the Mongolian steppes.