The gaslight parade
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Last week I texted with my CF to meet at the club. I arrive at the appointed time and she wasn’t there yet, ok not a big deal I can hang out and chill. Or so I thought. What happened over the next 15-20 minutes was no less than 6 different dancers trying to convince me 1+1=3. Some of my favorite lines were :
“ oh I know CF she my friend , we are from the same country and I know she’s not coming in today”
“Oh CF , I know she doesn’t work Wednesdays so you are better off with me”
“CF? I don’t know that girl are you sure she works here?”
“Oh her? I do way more than her and are you are sure you she is really coming in. You don’t want to miss out on me”
Now I was expecting a hard sell because it was a Wednesday day shift, but these ladies almost had me questioning my own reality. I had to check than once that yes I got confirmation from my CF that this was the the day she was coming in but I gotta hand it to them the stripper shit was strong that day.
“ oh I know CF she my friend , we are from the same country and I know she’s not coming in today”
“Oh CF , I know she doesn’t work Wednesdays so you are better off with me”
“CF? I don’t know that girl are you sure she works here?”
“Oh her? I do way more than her and are you are sure you she is really coming in. You don’t want to miss out on me”
Now I was expecting a hard sell because it was a Wednesday day shift, but these ladies almost had me questioning my own reality. I had to check than once that yes I got confirmation from my CF that this was the the day she was coming in but I gotta hand it to them the stripper shit was strong that day.
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Those girls can be ruthless.
I absolutely believe these stories on here but…why??
They also try this shit with you if you have the biggest spender even if he a rando.
Way I see it if lose the custy cuz I'm not dirty enough then it wasn't meant to be.
I've never lost my regs or big spenders for any other reason.
In the rare event I cut throat a cunt... I always look better and/ or got more game or am funnier or whatever.
Maybe the desperate vultures could stand to work on their appearance/hustle/intelligence/ inner self.
It’s crazy how some dancers will spew such lies in a strip club! It’s almost as believable as when they tell me how well endowed I am!
It is never a good idea to rely on dancers for information about other dancers.
@blah - I'm surprised your success rate is so high. I'm pretty sure I've never been convinced by a girl who has tried to convince me to ditch the girl I came in to see by trying to tell me she wasn't around or whatever. There's been a few who've nonchalantly have said something like I'll catch you next time or something that I've caught up with later. But the ones with the hard pitch are universally the desperate girls that I wouldn't want anyway.
@ilbbaicnl I've never had my spenders fooled by bs. I will lose one now and then because they figure out that maybe they can get more out of some girl they normally wouldn't choose over me. That is fine. It sucks. But life isn't fair so, whatever, the show goes on.
@cashman I think it is dumb to talk about other dancers at the club to customers. I mean of course occasionally it will happen. But I think it is important to try and keep it to a minimum, and then if you do talk try and keep it positive. If there is negative just keep it short. I feel like girls who talk a LOT of mad shit about another dancer actually often get a guy to spend money on said other dancer, so this backfires even if the shit talking is true, but often it is lies LOL.
@dolfan I don't cut throat by telling dudes their girl isn't there or telling lies. I pretty much swoop and turn my charm up high and steal the sale. It helps to look better than whichever girl I do this to. I never really do this type of shit unless it is a girl who keeps trying to mess my sales up. Like ok if one time a girl goes up to a customer about as soon as I leave I give them a free pass cuz maybe the girl was not paying attention and anyway I come back and other bitch fucks off because the guy won't give her money. If a certain girl keeps pulling this shit on me, I'm sorry bitch but I will ruin your money tonight hahahaha.
And unfortunately its been very cut throat in clubs as a result.
I'm actually on the verge to find a new place to work at cause of such attitudes. I don't know if maybe its me or what but the club I am at now it feels like everyone's been in a foul mood. (I haven't been the most perky because of slow business either so I get it. But I try.)
Girls have moved in on customers like vultures the moment you get on stage at my club you can basically kiss your customer good bye. (at least right now) Now other places I have worked at I have had no problem coming back to that customer after getting off stage and if there was a girl there we would either all chit chat together or if I felt my time was expired and the customer no longer wanted to converse with me and wanted to solo chat I would excuse myself. If the girl was not wishing me there (even though I was there originally and likely had been chatting with that customer all night or for sometime. I like to enjoy conversation with someone and will always return if I was enjoying my time with them.) I will excuse myself and wait for the customer to either call for me when I walk by or for them to come to me. I don't fight over customers and I always tell whomever I am chatting with that I take no offense if they would like to get a dance with someone else. Variety is the spice of life after all. I have even many times asked customers if anyone had caught there fancy and that I would be more then willing to find them and send them their way. (this usually makes a good time for both the customers and the dancer that it helps.)
I think things are more enjoyable for everyone when you scratch each others backs rather than be catty towards one another. So I generally try to avoid conflict and try to be nice towards everyone even if they are not towards me.
I can remember a few times when the walk up then went and found the girl I was looking for. 🤷
@drew you’re right it’s a Seattle club I’m talking about and by and large first thing I’m asked is if I’m here for someone.
I had an ATF who I came in to see and only did VIP rooms with her. I got there early one night before she was a ready and a baby stripper came up and sat at my table without asking. It wasn’t long before one of my ATF’s friends came up to the girl and whispered something in her ear. And she sprinted back to the dressing room faster than Usain Bolt.
Later that night I asked my ATF what her friend told the newbie. She said she told the new girl I was waiting on someone and if she doesn’t want to end up in the river she better back down. Lol
Not sure if the friend was just kindly mentoring the baby stripper or trying to gain favor with my ATF.
This was startling news to the customer, because his CF was dancing on stage.
I also don't tolerate some of the other behavior discussed, like girls pressing for my attention when I'm with someone else. "Thanks and you seem [sweet/nice/fun] but I'm occupied right now" with a smile and a direct look usually fixes that.
Not only does my companion on that night appreciate the discretion and firmness in sending away other sharks, but IME other girls notice too. I like having a rep for being a guy who isn't so easy to land, but who keeps his mouth shut and his commitments once he's hooked. This has helped me a lot in some of the small local clubs I've frequented over the years, where you see the same faces over and over.
I'm often asked "who are you waiting for" when I say I'm waiting for someone; my response is usually something on the order of "she knows I'm here." And *only* if I really mean it do I use any variant of "maybe later". In fact, I'm hardly ever that vague about it. It either something like "come see me when you see me free" or nothing at all.