VIP DFK in Washington
I haven’t been to a strip club in decades.
I was curious if dancers offer dfk in VIP rooms. One of my fantasies has always been an intense lap dance session with kissing. If this is too specific or is a banned topic and gets deleted I understand. I just joined today. Obviously message me if you aren’t comfortable sharing publicly.
I was curious if dancers offer dfk in VIP rooms. One of my fantasies has always been an intense lap dance session with kissing. If this is too specific or is a banned topic and gets deleted I understand. I just joined today. Obviously message me if you aren’t comfortable sharing publicly.
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How common?
Regional perhaps?
There’re some who specialize in DFK.
At least you’re guaranteed DFK when dealing with an escort that offers one compared to a stripper.
If I were you, I would save up money & go see an escort that specializes in DFK.
I'm not sure what the criteria for uncommon is but I don't think its too too uncommon. Make sure you shower right before the club and put on A LITTLE cologne. Then tell the dancer exactly what you want. I always tip if I get exactly what I came in for that day but I also go to a club that customers outnumber dancers 10 to 1.
It took my ATF almost a year before she was comfortable with it.
1. Ask. I have had girls tell me they don't kiss and I leave it at that. Or it is Ok and I try a PG kiss. If she kisses back, just keep going. Most time I find a tongue in my mouth within seconds.
2. Give a pack on the cheek or neck. See the reaction. Then try a peck on the lips. If a dancer does not want to kiss she will just pull back a bit. leave it at that. If she lets you, see where it goes.
3. I have had dancers take that initiative and start kissing me.
For me it is not as rare as people are making it out to be.
Yeah. That’s why I like to get to the club early.
I'm sure it's only a matter of time until our resident authority on the subject will explain Front Room Makeout Sessions and how VIP is for chumps.
Accompanied of course by half dozen links to bondage pics
Unfortunately, she got a little heavy for my taste and it ended.
Gotta admit, I usually regret getting carried away and kissing these women. If they kiss and/or blow me, they’ll kiss and or blow every disgusting PL they’re with. That’ll catch up to you.
A steaming pot of fetid trolling…
Also, if the girl extends herself that way, it is probably because she is anticipating a relationship with you.
So it works on first visit, but not when you come back in a couple of moons later. So pick the girl you want to be seeing regularly.
And then why in the VIP room? With charm and generosity, start you DFKing session with her in the front room. Save the back rooms until you really need it, like when your pants are to come down.
SJG
Remember, you have selected her, and this is how she pays her rent. So I would suggest $20 at a time. You could go up to the full per song dance rate per song. Maybe $20, maybe $40, maybe in some places $60. And there should be no house cut to this.
I would always do it with a little speech, "let me take care of you". And if she offers dances, "let me take care of you here while we save the back room until we are ready for it.
The idea is not to economize, it is to get her into following your lead.
For myself, having the girl in high heels is important, I want her to always dress like that for me. And, her shoes cost her money. So compliment her on the shoes and say, "I know that to dance here here you have expenses, let me take care of you."
That way it doesn't sound like you are trying to buy anything. And the money shows that you have good intentions, that you respect her, and that dealing with you she will not come up empty handed.
Remember, if things work, you will be pumping loads into her night after night. You won't need to do this in a strip club very often.
SJG
Paying her for sex is also buying something.
Sex workers are no more motivated by money, material gain, and social status, than are GFs and Wives.
If you don't like the women who work in US strip clubs, or if you consider them tainted, then just stay away from them, stay out of the clubs.
SJG
Sabrina
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SJG
Sex workers interviewed always say that what they want is total discretion, and to handle the preliminaries themselves, from the very start.
Strip clubs are an American invention. Most countries don't really enforce the prostitution law. But in the US we do. But our courts have decided that the 1st Amendment protects the right to dance nude.
So we have strip clubs. But I think it is a big move forward that they are coming full circle, getting to be like other countries, straight up prostitution.
SJG
This country has generally made such stuff hard. Over all, and especially in strip clubs, this is starting to change. So the strip club of fantasies are starting to become real.
If you don't like the women who work in these places, just stay away from them.
SJG
Godess Nova
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If strip clubs were just buying dances and LDKing, and maybe alcohol and marijuana, I wouldn't even be willing to think about them.
But here, I learned from the Beloved Latina Escorts, front room high volume FS, and lots of kissing and everything, plus awesome home session. They are sublime!
Our advertised no touching clubs, they serve some good, a sexual aesthetic, and you can often get to know girls and easily see them outside. Without without money.
But it is such a huge move forward that our strip clubs are becoming FS. And Deja Vu, while not strictly preventing that, it still totally fucks it up with their clip joint modality.
SJG
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Now of course, if you object to giving them money, you should not go to P4P venues. But I have found that women who do P4P are more straight up than civvies.
SJG