Advice on how to get strippers to talk to me
I'm sort of a shy guy. I've been having trouble in strip clubs getting women to talk to me. I'll usually go up near a dancer with my friend and whisper to him and giggle hoping she'll notice me but many times not. Other times I'll try to stare and smile from the corner of the room with little success. How do you guys get the job done?
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When she's on stage, tip her and tell her you'd like a dance when she has time. If I think she probably remembers me, I usually just throw the tip on the stage, or put it near her purse/bag. Many dancers like to show off their pole skills, they appreciate not being interrupted.
If you don't know if you want to try a dance without talking some first, come when the club is slow. But, at many clubs, dancers have flexibility about when they work, and avoid being there when the club is slow.
Or you could just take the normal approach and say hi to her, it usually helps to start a conversation if you actually speak to her instead of whispering to your friend and laughing or gawking at her from the corner. Are you a middle schooler going to his 1st boy/girl dance?
You have to walk in thinking about what you can do for them, which is mostly paying attention to them, and of course giving them money.
SJG
Start by not being creepy. Because what you're describing isn't shyness, it's just being creepy.
In my case, I don't find that many dancers want to talk to me. I wanna dance them if they don't wanna dance me. After that, most are done with me, except maybe to wanna more dance me. A few over the years have come back to chat a bit, let me buy them a drink. If I they were willing to talk to me a while before going for a dance, I would not see that as very good evidence they actually wanted to talk to me.
Good advice.
By the way troll, is this what your life has come to? Finding some nth degree interest group website, creating an account, and trying to wind up people you will never meet? Why don’t you take up tennis or super Mario brothers?
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Other people with a real issue may benefit from the advice
Little girls giggle and act coy - but men in strip clubs talk to the dancers. It’s the easiest place to chat with girls. Guess what? They are all available! They want $$$ - and are honest and upfront about it!