This one phrase will get rid of some stripper or escort calling you to come to club or meetup that she misses you, etc. if she misses you why do you have to pay money meet her?
Perhaps you have reached a point of been there done that and want spend the $200-$300 a session your giving her somewhere (a months food) else. Or your finally getting where you can kick the addiction. Or the aging process has finally won. What say ye?
You write this as if these things are new concepts for any of us here:
-- That dancer's don't actually miss us as much as the money we give them.
-- That telling a dancer you don't have money is a good way to make sure she stops contacting you.
-- That customers lose interest in dancers for a number of reasons and move on to other dancers (or other clubs).
So, having laid out wide and cultivated field of pure obvious, I'm not sure what you're hoping for here in terms of a debate. Also, I can't decide if you're on the spectrum or if you are the spectrum.
He’s trying to reinforce this thing where he wants us to acknowledge we are engaging in prostitution, like it’s something bad? I dunno. Prostitution is awesome, as are hookers
"Also wouldn’t a statement made anonymously more accurately reflect my real opinion?"
If you are normal that would be true, but the alias that posed the original question is known, to be abnormal, and completely unreliable, as a matter of fact, posts things that we all know to be untrue and doubles down when called to account for lying.
^ That's your typical MO, projecting your behavior on to anyone that calls you to account, pull a single post where I am initiating a convo about hookers or even extras you are a liar and we know it you are also a troll and we know that as well.
^ you are a waste of my energy, you friendless bigot, with a big mouth, I guarantee you would never say any of this to my face, because we know you are a weak pussy who is only brave behind a keyboard.
I would say the same to you, I didn't address you first on this thread that was you calling me names and here you go again making up lies and projecting,
Sorta getting back on topic, I've found "no thanks, I'm not interested" usually works quite well. Why lie or make up excuses. She & I both know I'm not broke and that a couple hundred bucks isn't going to make me miss my mortgage, car payment, or not be able to buy food or something. It's also a temporary excuse. If I don't want to see her, I tell her that. If I specifically don't want to go to her club or meet OTC, I'll tell her which of those. The only time I have girls asking repeatedly is why I've given them temporary answers like "no, I can't today." A simple, "Its been great, but I don't want to meet up with you again" ends it.
I'm sure I've gotten a few "fuck you" or "why not" responses, but not many. Responding to the why not's is discretionary, if there is any way to take your potential response as an insult that's what will happen. So I'd suggest avoiding stuff like "I've found a hotter/younger/sluttier/cheaper/whateverer option" but if you've got a reason that's truly about you and you want to share it, you could. I'd say use your judgement, but OP's judgement is obviously suspect. For others reading the thread, it might be possible. It really depends on your relationship with this person. The more transactional it is, the less reason there is for the end to be anything else. If there are more personal elements, it's kinda a dick move to just move on with zero explanation.
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last comment-- That dancer's don't actually miss us as much as the money we give them.
-- That telling a dancer you don't have money is a good way to make sure she stops contacting you.
-- That customers lose interest in dancers for a number of reasons and move on to other dancers (or other clubs).
So, having laid out wide and cultivated field of pure obvious, I'm not sure what you're hoping for here in terms of a debate. Also, I can't decide if you're on the spectrum or if you are the spectrum.
If you are normal that would be true, but the alias that posed the original question is known, to be abnormal, and completely unreliable, as a matter of fact, posts things that we all know to be untrue and doubles down when called to account for lying.
I'm sure I've gotten a few "fuck you" or "why not" responses, but not many. Responding to the why not's is discretionary, if there is any way to take your potential response as an insult that's what will happen. So I'd suggest avoiding stuff like "I've found a hotter/younger/sluttier/cheaper/whateverer option" but if you've got a reason that's truly about you and you want to share it, you could. I'd say use your judgement, but OP's judgement is obviously suspect. For others reading the thread, it might be possible. It really depends on your relationship with this person. The more transactional it is, the less reason there is for the end to be anything else. If there are more personal elements, it's kinda a dick move to just move on with zero explanation.