OTC with a ITC FS gal
rickdugan
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As I always say I will never criticize how another grown man spends his time and money, but I won't generally do this. If she works in a glorified brothel or is otherwise known to fuck ITC, then for me it doesn't matter how hot she is or how skilled she is at a BJ or whatever. I want nothing to do with being X of Y served on a given day.
Anyone else feel the same way? Conversely, feel free to tell me that I am being too fussy, a hypocrite, etc., etc., lol.
Anyone else feel the same way? Conversely, feel free to tell me that I am being too fussy, a hypocrite, etc., etc., lol.
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And to steal nice's phrase I would say I'm more into low volume girls. But I do want to hear some volume, I don't want to waste time with a girl on mute.
Look at the end of the day, the girl is an adult she can do what she does it's not my business but for the love of God I just don't want to be messing with dried up splooge. (And in some of these clubs, not even dry yet) Is that too much to ask? THANK YOU!
Which means 🤔
You are being too fussy, a hypocrite...
“My brother once told me that nothing someone says before the word "but" really counts.”
~ Benjen Stark
Technically, if you don't want sloppy seconds... then you'll never have sex, unless you have sex with a virgin
Some men (you included) may have a homophobic reaction to sexual engagement with a woman directly after another man
You are a blind subscriber to the old Madonna-Whore complex, the sadly ignorant belief that all women should be pure as freshly driven snow ... until they're with you
As long as you both are OTC and get clean (shower and douche if necessary) and use protection and have safer sex you should be able to get over your ignorant adolescent way of thinking
Yeah, all that, but mostly delusional because you actually believe the “I only do this with you” line.
What do you mean “line”? Please don’t tell me that a girl whose real name I probably don’t know and only talks to me because I give her money is not being completely honest with me.
High volume ITC girls are generally easy to deal with. They will offer and provide pricing without much attempted small talk. On certain nights, I don’t want a challenge, and I will go with one of those girls.
Sometimes I’m intrigued by the challenge, and I will try to work through it with a dancer who isn’t so obvious. It can be hit or miss, and if it doesn’t work out, I will look for one of the reliable hook up girls.
Regardless of whether the dancer is an easy ITC type - I will still try to get her number. I know some dancers aren’t comfortable going too far ITC.
We’re ricks and we got big dicks...but we ain’t 100% dicks
Of course the dugan doesn’t have sexy penile spines like yours truly. But that’s because he is a hairless ape...the smartest hairless ape on the planet but still an ape. ROAR!!!
That may be a function of where you club, idk, but it means that you're dealing exclusively with higher volume girls. Again no criticism from me, but it's not my normal cup of tea. The clubs I most often visit are a bit more restrictive, so the high volume girls tend to work elsewhere.
Not sure how you got from "I avoid high volume girls" to this. There's a lot of roadway between a girl who jumps on six penises a night and one who selectively sees guys OTC but doesn't fuck and suck ITC. I rarely believe that I'm the only one (and when I do it's because I have good reason to believe so), but when I take a girl from a more restrictive club right to my hotel, I know that I'm the only one that night.
Now I'm nothing close to a catch for a girl half my age, but I 've been fortunate enough not to age too badly and once upon a time I was even able to snag a hot ass wife. Again, I have no delusions about why a young hot stripper goes to a hotel with me and it certainly isn't because she finds me hot. But anyone who doesn't understand that physical attributes - including what imperfections some girls can tolerate and which ones are harder to overcome - influence the potential pool of OTC candidates is kidding himself. I'm just trying to enjoy an expanded pool for as long as possible before I get too old and have to settle exclusively for the high volume girls.
But I harbor no illusions my partners live their life as they see fit as do I and as long as they are as meticulous about their own cleanliness as I am about mine I refuse to speculate about their behavior as it doesn’t apply to me.
To be clear, I'm hardly the Grand Inquisitor. Indeed virtually all of my partners have SOs and I don't give a shit. Many no doubt also see other guys. I just don't want the girl who is on a penis (or two) and hour for several hours at a time.
Funny though wrt the other stuff you posted. The girl that I see most often also works a decent paying vanilla day job and seldom dances nowadays. Another girl who I recently saw for several months, before I got bored with it, also works a vanilla job and devoted a night a week to visiting with me. I'm wondering if this is becoming more of a trend - girls who would prefer to make a few reliable OTC friends to supplement their vanilla income rather than have to go back to the clubs. Anyway...
Many years ago I met a stripper who was working less than a year. I was 32, she was 28, and there was a natural attraction between us. I easily talked her into meeting me OTC which she claimed she had never done before. Price was never discussed and when we met I slipped what I paid for VIP ITC plus another 50 in her purse.
Everything was fine, I met her every few months I was in town and we’d sometimes have dinner before hand. Eventually she talked about how she picked up all these customers inside the club for OTC and now had to work less in the club. Eventually she quit stripping all together and just met former customers OTC. I lost contact with her after that but I somewhat feel like I created a monster out of that one.
If it wasn't you it would eventually have been someone else.
It's funny though watching that transition happen, IME usually over the course of several weeks. At first she finally agrees because she needs the money, but still doesn't think of herself as a prostitute. Then she continues with you because it's easy money and she's available almost whenever you want her.
Then, after a while, telltale signs start cropping up which point to her expanding her universe of OTC partners. Her availability is more limited than it used to be. Guys who are known regulars start coming in specifically to visit her. You might even see her disappear from the club around the same time that a customer who she was sitting with departs.
When those telltale signs start, that's usually my cue to head for the exit. Some girls never completely go down this road, instead continuing to limit their OTC activities to guys who are discreet and with whom they are comfortable. But yes, some girls dramatically expand their OTC activities once they get a taste for the additional easy money.
Now some folks with no horse in the race might have chosen to avoid the discussion instead of wading in, but after that pearl of wisdom that you so artfully shared with us, it's clear that we would have been poorer for your absence. 😉
I’ve always been reasonably careful with hygiene ITC, my CF impressed me when she up’d the hygiene standard during our initial VIP sessions. Now we maintain those standards during our more leisurely OTC sessions. 😁
As others have mentioned, that's actually not uncommon. After all, why would a high volume extras girl want to go through the time and trouble of meeting a single guy OTC for a one-off when she can get paid for doing the same thing ITC? Unless the guy is offering a very significant premium for OTC, it is likely much more efficient, lucrative and safe for her to simply line them up in the comfort of her club.
One striper I was taking to otc from club on way she said “pull over into this dark area (smiling) let me show u what an x street booker can do honey.” It was great. She had a routine during the act (talking sexy dirty) which enhanced things.