This strip club promotion system is fucked up
Muddy
USA
I’m a recent spat of clubs I’ve been to I’ve seen a whole lot of extremely hot door girl, the sexiest waitresses you’ve ever seen and stunner of a bartender but strippers were very average. How does this help me? Can’t be putting the All Stars on the bench. Are these clubs saying you know what you strippers are making all this money! Let’s move you up in the world where you can’t sell VIPs anymore! Let’s take out club from a great club with hot strippers! Down a couple notches to shitty club with fat strippers! That’ll work wonders for us!
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But she makes good money as a bartender there and doesn't mind being in the club. To her, her actual job is not much different than bartending in any other high paced club. If that club manager tried to get her to switch to a stripper, she would quit and go to a different job.
She said she'd love to make the extra money, but then she'd overhears dancers talking about the guy who always tries to stick a finger in their butthole, or the guy who always twists their nipples and always looks "surprised" that it hurts them, or the guy who grabs on to their throat a little too tightly and won't let go, etc., and so on.
And she also knew that those guys weren't every guy in the club, but the reality is that she knew she wasn't built to deal with those guys even one time. She was fine getting a slice of strip club money from those guys while having a bar as a solid barrier between them. And that was her sweet spot on the spectrum of money versus dealing with the pervy public.
I can understand that. I may not like it, but I get it. Anyway, she's not a bartender there anymore. She moved on during Covid.
There's a club here where the bartenders are always smoking hot 18-19 year old women. Management pays awful and treats them mediocre. But these are college girls who are fine taking tips for looking cute in a strip club but don't want to get naked much less grind on random dicks.
It's kind of how lingerie models are always a step hotter than porn girls.
What personality does one have to meet to be a stripper? She's already a sex worker.
Are all sex workers cut from exactly the same cloth? My impression is that, while the behavioral denominator is "willing to exchange money for sex", that doesn't mean that every sex worker will do well in a strip club environment, where the expectation is that a stripper winnows through a field of guys to pick out the ones she wants to deal with. As opposed to escorting, or even sugaring, where the woman can control the pace and volume to a greater degree.
I'll claim ignorance right off the bat. This is obviously a choice I've never had to make...
But I know different people who work in the same field, but some love a large, bustling office, while others prefer working in smaller, less frantic environments.
My baseline is that if the money (or "gifts", "allowance", or "support") stops, and that leads to the sex stopping, then that's sex work.
On the other hand, I think some strippers prefer using a different approach than fawning over customers to make money. Cubanas are an easy example 😁
This girl is HOT. She works as a bartender in a strip club. She won't strip. But this club has no problems hiring attractive dancers though.
Urban Dictionary defines as:
“The idea that there is a subset of women who are actually too good looking to ever appear in pornography. It arises because even if these particular women did want to make a living off their looks/body they would have many more and better options than porn, for example acting or modelling.”
But I can see how a woman could squint really hard and see it a different way.
She couldn't really handle being a stripper. She liked me and was always friendly to me but told me a lot of the customers were disrespectful and pervy. Many of the customers tried to go beyond just a lap dance while they were with her without asking her if it was ok first. Her worst experience was a customer who wanted her to pretend she was his 14 year old daughter while giving him lap dances. Some girls can handle being a stripper but some can't. So it's not surprising to see the prettiest girl in the club being the waitress or bartender.
At least that's what I've come to understand from looking at starlets NYC