Do you really enjoy eating pussy ?
Warrior15
Anywhere there are Titties.
I've been going out with the same sugar baby for almost a year and a half. Our weekends together used to be outrageously spectacular. Our sex life now is almost becoming like an old married couple. She is starting to tell me things that she won't do. She actually likes for me to eat her out BUT she won't kiss me afterwards. Says it's like she's kissing her own pussy then. I guess I can sort of relate. I don't want to kiss a girl after I have CIM. But as long as the BJ is just foreplay, I don't mind at all.
So I stopped doing it. At first I thought, " this gets me off the hook" . But now I"m thinking I actually miss it. I have been told I have a talented tongue and kinda got off by seeing the girl get off. I can still do it with my current girl, but then when we start having sex, then I can't kiss her. Takes a lot of the intimacy out of the sex. And she's just fine with me fingering her to do the foreplay.
How about you ? How important is cunninglingus to you ? Would it matter if your girl said No to this ? Is it time I found a new girl ?
So I stopped doing it. At first I thought, " this gets me off the hook" . But now I"m thinking I actually miss it. I have been told I have a talented tongue and kinda got off by seeing the girl get off. I can still do it with my current girl, but then when we start having sex, then I can't kiss her. Takes a lot of the intimacy out of the sex. And she's just fine with me fingering her to do the foreplay.
How about you ? How important is cunninglingus to you ? Would it matter if your girl said No to this ? Is it time I found a new girl ?
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Seriously, it's an easy cancer to cure if you catch it early.
Everything comes with a cost. If she wants to define more rules, then the things she’s no longer willing to do - become cash subtracted from her allowance.
You kissed her before - after eating her pussy - and now it’s too much for her to taste herself. So you decide how much you enjoy kissing her (a lot - maybe $300 a month) and eating her out (it’s good - maybe $200 a month). You can do one or the other - so you choose the one you enjoy most - and decrease her monthly allowance by the amount of the other.
Never had a girl have a problem with kissing afterwards.
As far as the actual question: "do you really enjoy eating pussy"? I guess I enjoy it as much as much as most women enjoy sucking dick. Doesn't do anything for me, but I don't find it that onerous either.
I can understand a girl not wanting to kiss after being eaten-out – different people have different hang-ups as it’s been demonstrated in this thread – IMO it’s ok to take into account one’s partner’s wishes/hang-ups even if it’s a P4P-relationship as long as it doesn’t become excessive – perhaps a happy-median can be achieved – some sessions you eat pussy but don’t kiss; and vice-versa – would brushing your teeth well and using Listerine post “the meal” work w/ her; maybe not since it may be a mental-block for her but perhaps it can be a workaround – also 69-ing might be away for you to get additional enjoyment if not being able to kiss.
As far as SB they are sex workers like strippers if they are getting money from me. I expect them give it to me how I want. No drama or that relationship crap. I also like have them model for me, photos.
A SB ROB will try get u think like that relationship stuff / so she get more money.
I will play along and answer your questions:
Q: Do you really enjoy eating pussy? How important is cunninglingus to you?
A: Yes, with women I find really attractive, when it is clean and well “prepared” it is a delicious healthy “dish”, and it is important to me to enjoy her enjoyment.
Q: Would it matter if your girl said No to this?
A: Yes it would matter, I would not want her to do something she is not sexually mature enough to do.
As we mature sexually, some behavior we, as children, thought was “disgusting” became making love behavior, Cunnilingus, is a good example of this.
I would help your sugar Baby to mature sexually and help her get rid of her hang up and anxiety regarding”eating/kissing her own pussy.
As long a you two are clean before making love you should be safe. If she feels safe and appreciates she should be able to mature and realize that “kissing” her own pussy is an actual self love behavior.
Q: Is it time I found a new girl?
A: it is up to you, I would follow my three strikes and you are out rule, give her three opportunities, or enough time to mature, but if she doesn’t you can start your quest to find a new girl.
Please let us know what you decide about your Sugar Baby and remember:
Pics and Vids or it didn’t happen.
:D
If it smells like piss, that takes all the enjoyment out of it! But I have done it anyway!!
I think pussy tastes better if she has ha a few gin and tonics or a few beers!
Cheers!