DATY / DATO
DougS
Florida
I've never been offered the opportunity to partake in either of these activities ITC. The closest that I've come to that ITC, is a dancer inserting her finger, then offering the coated finger to me. OTC, it has happened several times.
My question is, do you got offered either of these ITC, and if so, do you do so without any worries of STDs, etc? OTC? The last time I engaged in this OTC, I was paranoid for weeks that I had been exposed to something. Every little itch or tingle on my lips or tongue sent waves of panic throughout my body. THAT was with a dancer that I felt VERY sure that she wasn't giving it up to everyone and that she wasn't carrying anything - and she smelled so clean and fresh and PERFECT down there.
I would think one would be more susceptible to diseases when engaging in DATY / DATO than actual penile penetration, unless you have open sores on your member. Is that true?
What precautions can one take besides not engaging in those activities? The ONLY precaution that I've ever heard of is the use of a dental dam, but that surely removes the excitement and pleasure for me, and is probably pretty damned insulting to the girl, as well. At that point, she'd probably stop all proceedings and leave.
My question is, do you got offered either of these ITC, and if so, do you do so without any worries of STDs, etc? OTC? The last time I engaged in this OTC, I was paranoid for weeks that I had been exposed to something. Every little itch or tingle on my lips or tongue sent waves of panic throughout my body. THAT was with a dancer that I felt VERY sure that she wasn't giving it up to everyone and that she wasn't carrying anything - and she smelled so clean and fresh and PERFECT down there.
I would think one would be more susceptible to diseases when engaging in DATY / DATO than actual penile penetration, unless you have open sores on your member. Is that true?
What precautions can one take besides not engaging in those activities? The ONLY precaution that I've ever heard of is the use of a dental dam, but that surely removes the excitement and pleasure for me, and is probably pretty damned insulting to the girl, as well. At that point, she'd probably stop all proceedings and leave.
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Secondly, if you read up on it, you'll find that for the most part DATY is much less likely to give you something REALLY bad (like HIV) than actual fucking, though it can be a means of transmitting herpes, which would (no pun intended) suck.
I'll agree a dental dam is about as unsexy as it gets (at least as unsexy as those horrible clogs liberal women wear, or whatever the Hell those clompy shoes are called), and I'd rather eschew DATY than munch on a piece of latex. A good alternative is to finger the girl - in VIP I'll have her laying back on my lap, legs spread wide open while I play with her clit and lips and finger-fuck her to a few orgasms. If she licks her juice from my fingers, that's always a plus too.
Yes, I've eaten my fair share of pussy in VIP rooms (and OTC) but let's face it, that pussy is public property. And frankly eating a girl out in VIP - which practically guarantees that you're in some weird position - is a good way to injure your neck ;) Fingers are just easier.
Obviously with a dancer you're in a good position to judge at least the apparent health of her pussy (it's shaved and spread inches from you, after all) and if there's the slightest smell or any sores, steer clear of that thang!
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At the time, besides me, I don't think she (referring to my prev-ATF) was giving it up to anyone other than her on-again-off-again BF. Of course I can never be sure, but everything indicates that I was her first OTC partner and I believe it was I that corrupted her.
After having reacquainted myself with her last fall, after about a year's absence, I'm pretty sure that her situation and practices have changed enough so that I wouldn't stick my tongue - or any other part of my anatomy inside her again. I'm fairly sure she's doing meth, and walking on the wild side, now. Such a shame.
Until reading this thread, I never even thought about the possibility of catching something from her, nor am I worried about it now. I figure that if it took 1 1/2 years for me to get that far, she probably isn't opening the restaurant for everyone. On the other hand, I'm not as aggressive as some men are, and it may that one can suck on that cooch simply by being a little more forward than I am inclined to be. I have done OTC with a couple of strippers, and have eaten them out with no concern--and, so far, no resulting problems.
Odds are high she was in this "in heat" ovulation zone when she got "carried away"- so you might now know her clock within a margin of 5 days, which could be useful going forward
Catching herpes for a married guy - then it might as well be AIDS
If I were dancing a girl for the first time and she was already sticking her mound within tongue shot, red flags would be waving in my mind telling me "don't do that.. it's not a good idea!" I'd like to think that I'd listen to that inner voice and stay safe, but in my most recent club escapade, after prolonged heavy contact and extensive DFKing, along with promises of OTC later to come that night, had the dancer offered that treat to me, I probably would've obliged.
Interestingly, everyone touched upon the DATY aspect of the question... no one mentioned the "other". DATO, also known as "rim job, "Dining At The O" or analingus, is something that I've never performed on anyone, but (no pun intended) I HAVE been on the receiving end (no pun intended), and let me say that it's quite pleasurable.
I'm not even sure that I could bring myself to try. Let me tell you, I'd have to be totally sure that it was... well... clean enough to eat off of. It'd have to appear extremely clean both by visual inspection and by fresh smell. However, the girl that performed it on me didn't hesitate, though I DO take care to make sure I am clean EVERYWHERE, including there... and I DO actually shave that whole region, crack and all. It was a memorable experience, and I'd like to give that experience to a certain ATF at some time in the future.
Thanks for that last post. Although I knew what DATY is, I didn't know what DATO stands for. I needed the enlightenment. BTY, I've never had any desire to try DATO. I recently got to briefly lick a dancers pussy in a private dance but it was only very brief and on the second song. I only paid for two songs but, thinking back on it, I should have paid for more to see if anything more might develop. I have a feeling it might have. This was in a remote area of Wisconsin and the dancer was from the Twin Cities. She said it was too bad I didn't visit her there because she did FS there. SS? Probably, but it wouldn't have cost me a bundle to find out more. Live and learn. There might have been OTC possibilities but I didn't want to stay til closing. Had to get up early the next morning.