Based on the OP’s post, it sounds as though the two dancers you know (who were married to cops), may have met at the gym.
Maybe this is a coincidence related to your preferences in dancers?
There are a number of muscle head cops here in Northeast NJ - and they usually want hard body hotties as their girlfriends. They can wear their tight spandex to the gym - or wear their tiny bikinis to the beach at the Jersey Shore - and the muscle heads go wild! There can be a lot of roid rage - so I don’t recommend staring at those hotties!
I had a buddy with one of those high power speed boats - that he kept at the Jersey Shore - in Belmar. I went out on the water once with him. He had a horrible coke addiction. He loved coke - whores - and boats. We went out on his boat one night. There were a bunch of Jersey hotties aboard for the powder. The girls got naked when we got out on the water - and then one girl went into the cabin and guys started taking turns on her. Oddly enough - her boyfriend was there - and he was a muscle head state trooper. It was bizarre to say the least.