Why do you think a lot of incels are obssesed with "emotional connections"?
I remember I had friends from other countries who will go to a brothel and have sex, then don't think about it that much.
Meanwhile, I've met a lot of guys in America who are obsessed with trying to improve themselves to appeal to women so that they will eventually become monogamous with them...etc.
Meanwhile, I've met a lot of guys in America who are obsessed with trying to improve themselves to appeal to women so that they will eventually become monogamous with them...etc.
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IOW: You don't understand the concept of 'incel'
guys who seeks to self improve themselves should only do so for themselves, not for the sole purpose of attracting girls.
Some men frequent hookers just to get off and thats it.
And some men seek long term relationships and try to be the best version of themselves so they can attract a better woman.
Its actually defined as having sex once a month or less but wanting to have it more often. In fact, a large percentage of the involuntarily celibate are married men who's wives refuse regular sexual relations with them. Of course it also includes singles who are romatically strugling.
Males in today's society are considered expendable, unimportant, and their basic human needs unnecessary. The fact that men won't stand in solitary with their brothers on basic issues like the need for human intimacy is troubling. Ultimately if this problem continues to get worse it may even effect some of the arrogant men who think it "would never happen to me."
Due to structural and cultural impediments the problem of lack of sex is probably only going to worse and more widespread as time goes on.
If women were being rejected by men in even a fraction of the percentages that men are increasingly rejected by women, all hell would break loose. It would be a major political issue. No one can honestly deny that.
Instead of running down the 40 percent of married men who have sex once a month or less or the 28 percent of young men age 18 to 30 who haven't had sex in a year or more, people could show some compassion and demand politicians do something to help. Perhaps public advertising campaigns encouraging women to have sex with average men more often would be a good first step.
A women can not only get sex anytime she wants, so long as she isn't butt ugly or too old she can even charge for it.
Even the most attractive or popular straight man is going to be rejected more often than successful. Yet we are told straight men are "privileged" and have "all the advantages in life." Something does seem to add up here.
Men need to stand in solidarity with each other more.
And it's easy to get laid.
More like I wish my friends were like some of you guys and go to strip clubs or even brothels when abroad etc. I wish they - saw sex as simply as purely physical. Therefore, they could chill and have more sexual experiences.
Instead, they are obsessed with self-improvement and spending time, money, and effort to build emotional connections with women who are not interested in that. Many of these girls are interested in partying and hooking up with tons of guys. Meanwhile, my friends are trying to build monogamous relationships with them, a recipe for disaster.
If you believe you are entitled to sex, despite no one wanting to have sex with you, you are a rapist.
nah those men are still struggling. lots of girls in those mens' league are aiming higher, and succeeding. as a result those guys are fucked.