Good advice on lap dances
gammanu95
You can unfriend me, unfollow me, and unlike me; but you cannot unlick my butthole
If you don't know Diamond Dolls, it is a lap dance factory with UHM and all girls are extras girls. Lap dances and table dances are all previews. If you're not buying, then you will have a very lonely evening.
There have been a few discussions in the past about how to keep the company coming, without getting boxed into something you're not up for (or down with).
I love mileage, but I'm not much for extras; unless the girl is all-natural and 9+. When asked, my usual answer is "It's early, maybe later." Which is partially true, I don't want to finish with the club before I finish my beer. I think the poster I quoted made one small change, which can keep up the enthusiasm of the company. "Yes." You can still put it off to later and until you've seen other options.
What is your favorite way to keep things going, without committing too early in your visit? When you were a rookie, did you make the mistake of saying you were tapped (money-wise) and then wonder why you were being ignored?
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Some will bail on you before you finish the sentence. Some will politely say goodbye. But, some are fine with dances. A few actually prefer not to suck and fuck and would rather do dances. Hell, some dig just doing the $10 dances when they're available again.
Specifically at that place there was too much fakeness with those bodies, it was a little over the top I gotta admit. They were pretty but at that time I wasn’t feeling the whole rock hard tits ass thing. Too much of that going on there, even if VIP is gonna be a free for all, you know what sometimes I don’t feel like spending for it.
Most clubs I'll say either "no thanks" (if I'm not at all interested) or "I'm interested but want to chill a bit" (if I'll revisit). No need to lie, I'm sure guys turn them down all the time. I also won't pay for conversation.
I've been to some extras factories with no single dance options. But these aren't "chill out" places. Find your girl and head to the back, or you might not get another chance.
I'm not a heavy-extras PL in the sense that is not my primary mission when I hit a club (although it is sometimes but not most times) - I go w/ the flow and if things align (i.e. really turned-on by a particular dancer and I click w/ her) then decent chance I pull the trigger - but when it comes to this club I go in w/ the mindset of extras b/c o/w it hasn't been worth it for me in the past - this club is known for extras and that's the reason to visit - going to this club for lap-dances is like going to a seafood restaurant for spaghetti.
I think the $10 floor-dances @ Diamond Dolls are a better value - the girls seem to put extra effort to get you revved up for extras but will usually move if they can't convince you on extras in short order (why they don't put the same effort into the $25 LDs IDK).