A question for the guys
I have been a dancer, stripper, entertainer (whatever you pick) for a while now. And the weirdest thing happened to me recently. This past Mon night while I was working I received a phone call in our dressing room (never happens because all of my regulars have my phone #). Anywho, the guy on the other end was recapping his visit with me @ the club to make me remember him (I am bad with names but great with remembering faces). Well after a brief recollection, I let him know I remembered him. Then he proceeds to let me know that while I was dancing for him (and yeah where I work we do air dances, its the law) he blew his load in his pants, and has been thinking about me ever since. I knew his visit was a while back because Mon night was my first night back @ work in over a month (yeah I took a break to chill out for a while). He then asks if I were working this Fri, I told him I was, and he said that he couldnt wait to see me. Although it was flattering to know that I had that affect on him, it kinda creeped me out. I have done several dances for my personal regulars and the regulars who hang out in the club, and I have never had anyone tell me this before. Let alone track down the # to our clubs dressing room (which is not posted in a phone book)to get in touch with me to tell me this. Yeah in the back of my mind I wonder if maybe a guy has been aroused but not to the point of "blowing their load".So guys, has this ever happened to you: "blowing your load" while you were getting a dance? If it has, would you tell the entertainer or keep it to yourself? If it hasnt, theoretically would you tell her? Should I be nervous if he comes in Fri?
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I personally, do NOT like to achieve a "wet spot" in the club. It is not my goal to get off during a dance. In fact the last time I was in the club, my dancer of choice really tried to make it happen, and believe me, she really had me going, but I chose not to let it happen (in the club).
Would I tell the dancer? Well, if I were about to jizz, I would certainly warn her first; she has a right to know, and "take cover" if she prefers. It's not fair to soak her ass, if she doesn't have a chance to get out of the way. Even if I didn't warn her, believe me, she will know if it happened or not. No need to tell her. If during an air dance, would I tell her.. if she didn't see it or feel it exploding against her ass, I'm not going to tell her. I'd be TOTALLY embarrassed to tell her that I shot my load without any contact? Geesh!!
This is just a guess, and excuse me for creeping you out even more, but I bet the truth is he's been blowing his load WHILE thinking about you ever since. Perhaps while he was taking the very odd step of calling you at the club to tell you about it. (Sorry.)
BG: I dont mind turning guys on, I'm pretty sure I do that most of the time when I am working. Hence, why I have my regulars or repeat customers (who dont come in as much as my regulars do but they do come back). It's just that it has never happened to that point, to my knowledge. I guess I would have expected it to come from one of my regulars or someone else who frequents the club whom I am familiar with because they have seen me in action week in and week out over time.
Chandler: I agree 100% although you didnt creep me out more. Just now knowing and I really cant remember exactly what he looks like although I do remember the encounter, hell even the table we were sitting @ in the club, is what's probably the source of my reaction. I guess its a comfort zone issue.
Moreover, I figured if a guy were turned on and decided to tell me, he wouldn't go so far in depth as to how much he was turned on. Maybe its knowing that a few girls who still work, or have worked, with me have had stalkers and people follow them when they leave the club, and it started with something similar that they thought was just flattery or BS.
True.. you can never be too careful where stalkers are concerned. It seems that every dancer that I've talked to has her story about "the time when a guy followed her, when she left the club".
If I were a girl, that'd be pretty scary-ass stuff. I worry about my ATF (and faves), and tell her all the time that she should trust NO one ('cept for me [wink]).
I've never blown a load due to a lap dance in a strip club. I may have had precum come out which is a clear fluid that may leak out when a guy is excited but that is not the same thing as blowing a load. It's easy for a guy to know when he blows a load because he feels a big release.
I haven't worried about any dancers following me or threatening me in that way that I remember. I did meet one dancer who seemed to be eerily infatuated with me and told me she knew me. It almost seemed like she could be stalking me but I kind of enjoyed it. She knew things about me from several years ago that I didn't even know. One of those was that she remembered the first time she ever saw me and that was 14 years ago at the time. She actually remembered me leaving a strip club and told me she was 16 at the time. I don't remember any dancer remembering details like that about me 14 years later.
And if somehow I was able to blast a load, I wouldn't necessarily bluntly tell her, "I just came" If for some reason she couldn't tell I had an orgasm then I may say "wow..you sure made me feel great."
And I definitely would not be calling a dancer up and telling her this, especially with the scenario you mentioned. Unpublished number.
One guy mentioned it here. I think as well that the guy was probably janking while telling you his story. Make him tip you next time for phone sex.
Air dancing and orgasming? Can't happen. I don't think even when I was 12 that that couldve happened. You must be touched in some kind of way...even if its underwear or pants rubbing.
Would never happen to me, but I'd be a sorry ass wanker for telling that to a girl.