Using a regular to clean up mistakes

Don’t feel bad. You’re not the only one to do this. I speak from experience!

You did not spend money to feel better about spending money. You spent time with a woman to feel better about making a mistake. Whats the problem?

It's called being "catfished" .
INFORMAL•US
lure (someone) into a relationship by means of a fictional online persona.
"he was being catfished by a cruel prankster"

I prefer to look at getting burned as a learning experience, a time to reflect and reexamine what I should do the next time.

The one time I tried to make up getting burned by finding some else, it just compounded the mistake and taught me there is nothing wrong with just calling it a night.

I’m sure as time goes on, your “okay, I gotta bail now” instincts will be refined.

Now you can reflect and think up future excuses you can have:

“I have diarrhea”
“There a new episode of General Hospital going on right now!”
“My boyfriend is calling me”
“Gotta time travel back home now”
“The Illuminati is sending me on an assassin mission”
“My apartment is on fire”

Etc

Well like I said it wasn’t awful. She was pretty but not quite the awesomeness I expected that’s all. At the time with limited options now it was hard to say no

^^^You need me to come dump a load in her basement?

===> "I’m sure as time goes on, your “okay, I gotta bail now” instincts will be refined."

This Muddy. I read your response to this comment, but it kinda' rang hollow, especially when you had another option waiting in the wings. I suspect that the more you do this, the better you will become at walking away when things aren't as you expected.

I would not give any gal off a SD site more than $200 per session. Have a sensible budget. Many of these gals look worse than the photos. If you fall into sex addiction with this you will go broke.

After some crummy sd experiences went back to stripper otc gal just saw her.

Well look I haven't got burned that much on Seeking to be honest so perhaps it is lack of experience. I come out of the SC's so a lot times I know what i'm getting. I'm not into the escort thing. I have a lot of success on there, enough so that I haven't been to a strip club since November. It's probably one of the best sugar scenes maybe along with LA and I just tire of these highly regulated clubs so I see a 50/50 mix now for the future maybe even 60/40. I don't have the Red Parrot in backyard anymore and I just have to adjust fire. For the record she was probably 7 and I thought I was getting a 9. Pictures must've been like 7 or 8 years old. Like I said wasn't bad but I needed to hit up my main SB to get me back in the groove.

@Player honestly man in my market 200 ain't doin too much. Maybe get some 6's to be interested. But yeah I agree outside the major markets I felt like 2 was the standard for ppm on there. RN I'm not hitting up average girls on there, you got be fucking crazy hot (or apparently just look that way in your pics since I'm a fucking idiot) for me to be interested on there. A lot of options, why not be picky? And I'll be honest sometimes the girls DO look like their pictures and when it works you feel like your getting the best deal on the planet at least when you compare to the Manhattan SC scene.

Yeah, sometimes when you have too many good experiences in one particular area, then you slack off of watching out for things when you normally would.

I think many of us have done that, in one way for another. Nothing to be ashamed of, just a learning lesson.

Find one girl your happy with for otc SB and stick with her. The most important quality is happy ending every time whether sex, HJ, or BJ. Budget your spending you never know when your career will end. Avoid debt.

Some gals off SB sites real good some bad. A 37 yr HR clerk blonde good looking blonde big tits needed $600 mo we agreed on 3 sessions at $200 at her place. She would meet in sexy mini skirt which I would undress her out of no rush feeling her. She was real good CG and really enjoyed it.

Player11: "Watch your spending, guys."

...5 minutes later...

Player11: "Lemme tell you about this blonde with big knockers I banged for $600."

I have meet nice girls on SA and live in small market. Only 1 that played games. My current has become ATF. She never has told me no about anything, all see tells me is I am yours do what you please with me.

When clubs were open Id see the same 2 or 3 girls for 3 months, get the itch to try something new and then as you say "knock the fly". Then id rush back to my same 2 or 3 girls. Trying something new always made me appreciate the regulars more. Sometimes you might find the diamond in the rough when trying something new but you often find you have regulars for a reason

"Sometimes you might find the diamond in the rough when trying something new but you often find you have regulars for a reason"

That's truth. But it's nice to have backups just in case the whole country gets shut down (or whatever the fuck happened).

Why didn't you just reject her if sje didn't match her pics?

Trying something new always made me appreciate the regulars more. makes sense. Tomorrow is my 30th anniversay. Wonderful day planned.

I don't really have a favorite, but something similar to that is after a really bad experience (I've had some, like everybdoy I'm sure) is going out of my way to have a good experience. Maybe I'll be a little more direct in what I'm looking for ... maybe overpay a little ... pay a little more attention to pictures etc.