You need to build your self esteem. Everyone has a type they attract. The problem is too many men aren't happy with that type so they end up having problems with women.
In all seriousness, the type of women that are attracted to me are professional women (nurses, pharmacists, doctors, strippers), young and old. College students. Bar flies. Black, white, Asian. Not so much Latino. Not sure I understand the Latinos.
Woman with a slim figure, curvaceous figure and a decently attractive face. Women with melanin hold a particular sway to me, but I still wont exclude lighter skinned women
Just read the second post of OP. Oh, almost all young women, especially the vain ones who put height over everything. Girlfriend apparently has stare downs with other women behind my back when we go to crowded sceneries.
Fun fact, when I'm by myself women do crazy things to get your attention; like pinching your butt and going "oops"
I like a variety, but mostly not really young. I prefer mid 30's with a lower minimum of at least 25. I also prefer a 7 to a 10. Just seems that they work harder and appreciate the customer more.
I haven't dated in about 6 or 7 years, and have not had a GF in about 10 (by choice) - but in then past the girls that would go for me were typically the ones that weren't-into or didn't like bad-boys.
"It's really interesting to me to see the kind of women guys have vs the kind of dancers they like."
The woman I've had the longest relationship with IRL has a pretty face, long hair, big natural tits, and an hourglass shape just like the strippers I prefer. She was also a total slut when she wanted to be and batshit crazy, much like the strippers I prefer. My current favorite seems decidely grounded, though, so things can change. Maybe.
Interesting question. I come across irl as a stable, decent, family oriented, divorced father. I think several women (who I know) are attracted to my perceived stability.
If they knew more about my filthy desires, I'm sure their attraction would end abruptly.
@Iceyloo "It's really interesting to me to see the kind of women guys have vs the kind of dancers they like."
Usually because people who dont based their romance on money take the personality of a woman in serious consideration in comparison to just looks.
I know my cousin would pull in some FINE ass tail on the regular. Never long term dating either. Hes a handsome black brother and very in shape.
Yet hes currently long term dating a woman that can be considered a 7, and very different body shape from what he's used to. But they are happy so...
Personality is the main thing. It can make a woman very ugly or beautiful very quickly. You have to have a connection with someone. Our biggest sex organs are our brains. Even if its just physical there has to be some connection. Thats why I could never do p4p
LMAO IceyDodo has admitted to being a sugar daddy. Here are past quotes from the delusional trick LMFAO...
"I don't mind spending money in the club."
"If I fuck a stripper...... "
"I offer to pay the house fee, tip out and fine for leaving early) and smoke some weed."
"I don't mind doing normal things like giving her weed, alcohol if she can't buy it, or some money to get her eyebrows or nails done... a bill here and there..."
"Yeah, Im fine with the sugar daddy aspect. Im not naive to think she'd be with me if I were broke."
"Don't care where I met her and have no problem spending the money, its not an issue."
"And I agree, its really weird that she would cut off the $$$. You'd think she'd want to push it. And at this stage while I know itll hurt in the long run, Id be down with it. She knows I'll spend it on her.It was pretty much like we were living in a hip hop video...materialistically, it was there for her. Designer shoes, bags, clothes, the best weed, expensive restaurants. She grew up poor and likes fast money..."
"Im hoping if nothing else, she misses the money. She won't find this elsewhere...it was a lot. A few hundred a day, some days over a thousand."
"... I'd even be fine with it just being about money if she just stays and acts normal."
SirLapdancealot 45 min agoexpand_more
LMAO IceyDodo has admitted to being a sugar daddy. Here are past quotes from the delusional trick LMFAO...
"I don't mind spending money in the club."
"If I fuck a stripper...... "
"I offer to pay the house fee, tip out and fine for leaving early) and smoke some weed."
"I don't mind doing normal things like giving her weed, alcohol if she can't buy it, or some money to get her eyebrows or nails done... a bill here and there..."
"Yeah, Im fine with the sugar daddy aspect. Im not naive to think she'd be with me if I were broke."
"Don't care where I met her and have no problem spending the money, its not an issue."
"And I agree, its really weird that she would cut off the $$$. You'd think she'd want to push it. And at this stage while I know itll hurt in the long run, Id be down with it. She knows I'll spend it on her.It was pretty much like we were living in a hip hop video...materialistically, it was there for her. Designer shoes, bags, clothes, the best weed, expensive restaurants. She grew up poor and likes fast money..."
"Im hoping if nothing else, she misses the money. She won't find this elsewhere...it was a lot. A few hundred a day, some days over a thousand."
"... I'd even be fine with it just being about money if she just stays and acts normal."
SirLapdancealot 39 min ago expand_more
LMAO in other words, IceyDodo is ALWAYS doing P4P, but is in denial about it. 😂😂😂
There is a type most likely to be attracted to me. Not sure how to describe it. Intelligent, playful, somewhat reserved. Not intimidated by intelligence.
A wide variety. I get asked if I am going to ask this one 20-something lady I work with out once. I wouldn't mind, but something about her personality is just off. There's also a 50-something lady at work who I know is interested, but she is also the mother of someone else I work with and I don't want to deal with that situation.
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Lmfaorofl! heaving for the win!!!
shit. there’s actually no understanding of most any woman .
Fun fact, when I'm by myself women do crazy things to get your attention; like pinching your butt and going "oops"
I learned q long time ago to be happy with the type that likes me. I guess theyre my type too
The woman I've had the longest relationship with IRL has a pretty face, long hair, big natural tits, and an hourglass shape just like the strippers I prefer. She was also a total slut when she wanted to be and batshit crazy, much like the strippers I prefer. My current favorite seems decidely grounded, though, so things can change. Maybe.
You wrote:
“I learned q long time ago to be happy with the type that likes me. I guess theyre my type too”
Do you settle for not so pretty partners/lovers just to find a “cure” from loneliness?
Girls typically “date” upwards or across never down...
Maybe you should accept aloneness now, and work on yourself to be able to attract better/more beautiful partners/lovers, something better later.
https://tuscl.net/photos/5cce4848b15e4
If they knew more about my filthy desires, I'm sure their attraction would end abruptly.
Of course you will be "attractive" to someone you PAY. 😂😂😂
Usually because people who dont based their romance on money take the personality of a woman in serious consideration in comparison to just looks.
I know my cousin would pull in some FINE ass tail on the regular. Never long term dating either. Hes a handsome black brother and very in shape.
Yet hes currently long term dating a woman that can be considered a 7, and very different body shape from what he's used to. But they are happy so...
"I don't mind spending money in the club."
"If I fuck a stripper...... "
"I offer to pay the house fee, tip out and fine for leaving early) and smoke some weed."
"I don't mind doing normal things like giving her weed, alcohol if she can't buy it, or some money to get her eyebrows or nails done... a bill here and there..."
"Yeah, Im fine with the sugar daddy aspect. Im not naive to think she'd be with me if I were broke."
"Don't care where I met her and have no problem spending the money, its not an issue."
"And I agree, its really weird that she would cut off the $$$. You'd think she'd want to push it. And at this stage while I know itll hurt in the long run, Id be down with it. She knows I'll spend it on her.It was pretty much like we were living in a hip hop video...materialistically, it was there for her. Designer shoes, bags, clothes, the best weed, expensive restaurants. She grew up poor and likes fast money..."
"Im hoping if nothing else, she misses the money. She won't find this elsewhere...it was a lot. A few hundred a day, some days over a thousand."
"... I'd even be fine with it just being about money if she just stays and acts normal."
LMAO IceyDodo has admitted to being a sugar daddy. Here are past quotes from the delusional trick LMFAO...
"I don't mind spending money in the club."
"If I fuck a stripper...... "
"I offer to pay the house fee, tip out and fine for leaving early) and smoke some weed."
"I don't mind doing normal things like giving her weed, alcohol if she can't buy it, or some money to get her eyebrows or nails done... a bill here and there..."
"Yeah, Im fine with the sugar daddy aspect. Im not naive to think she'd be with me if I were broke."
"Don't care where I met her and have no problem spending the money, its not an issue."
"And I agree, its really weird that she would cut off the $$$. You'd think she'd want to push it. And at this stage while I know itll hurt in the long run, Id be down with it. She knows I'll spend it on her.It was pretty much like we were living in a hip hop video...materialistically, it was there for her. Designer shoes, bags, clothes, the best weed, expensive restaurants. She grew up poor and likes fast money..."
"Im hoping if nothing else, she misses the money. She won't find this elsewhere...it was a lot. A few hundred a day, some days over a thousand."
"... I'd even be fine with it just being about money if she just stays and acts normal."
SirLapdancealot 39 min ago expand_more
LMAO in other words, IceyDodo is ALWAYS doing P4P, but is in denial about it. 😂😂😂
SJG
What is the difference between:
What kind of women are attracted to me?
versus
What kind of women do I find attractive?