Changing things up paying off

boomer79
Georgia
Usually I go to the club looking for someone to take to VIP. Frequently it’s with the same girls and I see dances as kind of an audition. I always thought that being seen as reliable and safe money for a dancer was the way to go. I had very mixed success having a good time.

However recently I went to one of my regular clubs on a slow night. My favorite wasn’t there but I knew two girls who were hanging out with me. I was kind of in hanging out mode which was different for me. I was buying drinks for a couple of girls and got dances from several. By the end of the night I had multiple good OTC options I didn’t try to get some phone numbers and a lot of useful gossip which for me was more like information. It’s interesting because I’ve never had nearly that much luck when I was trying for that. It did kind of get me thinking that maybe there is something to be said for just going to the club and hanging out and seeing where things go rather than trying to force something or convince someone you like that you’d objectively be a great customer.

6 comments

  • san_jose_guy
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    5 years ago
    Best to be seeing your women outside.

    SJG
  • boomer79
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    5 years ago
    That’s frequently what I’ve tried for. I just kind of thought of ITC as a gateway to that. What surprised me was getting more and better offers buying 10 dollar dances and drinks when I wasn’t really trying that hard.
  • wallanon
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    5 years ago
    I had a dancer follow me out of a club the other night and ask me on a date. This is someone who I'd rarely spoken to, but looking back at how she was acting when she'd drop by and chat it made as much sense as anything else that happens in the club.
  • doctorevil
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    5 years ago
    Your “change up” sounds like what I typically do. I don’t make appointments and I don’t go to clubs looking for anyone in particular. I just go and see what happens. I’m pretty liberal getting test drive dances and buying drinks, and then see where things go from there.
  • wallanon
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    5 years ago
    "I’m pretty liberal getting test drive dances and buying drinks, and then see where things go from there."

    If you've got the time and resources to do that, you get plenty of pitches that way.
  • Hank Moody
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    5 years ago
    I used to do the test drive dances but things in MD have changed and the clubs that had both dances and reasonable VIP have fallen off, specifically, Players Club. Wall knows. Gold Club has decent $30 dances but expensive VIP. Penthouse and Millstream have expensive VIP but there’s value there with the right girl, unfortunately the $30 lappers are weak and not a good test drive. We Marylanders are mostly restricted to relying on intuition, asking bluntly or just flipping a coin before going for VIP. Sucks to be us.
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