After their stripping days are over

Did she ask you about seeing her post dancing days, or did you just 'bring it up'?

How'd the rest of the conversation go? Or was that it?

I have friends who stopped stripping who remained cool with patrons. Believe it or not you become a type of like family to some strippers.

My ATF and I had a "relationship" for over six years after she quit dancing, until her untimely death earlier this year. I think it would have lasted for the rest of my life in some form. She's not the only one with whom I've retained some level of contact.

Do I consider us typical? Hell no. I can't imagine that it's all that unusual for dancers and customers to at least maintain contact for a while.

I find it odd - if a dancer wants to have a relationship after we’ve done some non extras in the club. I’m not that interested in having a real relationship otc with most dancers.

I’ve currently got two former dancers that I’m in touch with 4 or 5 times a week primarily by text. One uses Snapchat and I’m not that comfortable with SnapChat. Both “relationships” involve money but I’m 40 years older than the 34 year old a d 47 years older than the 27 year old. The 34 year old lives with her BF 1200 miles away and I’m breaking things off. Her BF is a typical stripper BF -can’t keep a job, smokes weed, is a former prisoner and is an addict in recovery (sometimes). She also bounces from job to job and hasn’t had steady income. They have produced a great deal of porn and they talk about doing stuff but never get it done.
The 27 year old has 2 very young kids, has a job at $13 an hour with potential to get up to $17.00. I used to do OTC regularly with her 3 or 4 years ago but she tracked me down recently and while I like her and fully understand she tracked me down looking for money it’s not blatant, however I’m in the process of learning about a couple of other older gents who she’s getting $ from and an age appropriate BF who she’s fucking, so I hav3 no idea if I’ll keep sniffing around her or not.
My age difference with both is more substantial than yours and as a result it’s clear they’re seeing me for money.

Yes I have kept in touch as friends with a few.

I am still a Facebook friend with a few retired dancers.