Undressing your dancer

Not much these days - when I was younger it was something I liked doing but doesn't do as much for me these days - these days I prefer to sit back and look at her as she undresses and bares her goodies

What do you take off first? The bit and bridle or the saddle?

Doesn’t matter to me, as long as she gets out of it. I’ll help her if she asks for it. Some do. I’m not sure if it’s because they really need the help or if they are trying to make it part of the show.

You bet, what's not to like?

By the time we're sitting down in lap dance room, I've already practiced it mentally, so if it's part of the flow, of course.
I like a slow disrobe. Assisting slowly suggests that.

I absolutely love helping them undress!

My favorite comment came from a dancer at Fantasies Nightclub in Baltimore. She asked if I wanted to undo her bra. Yes please!

She was straddling me, facing me. I reached around with my left hand and unfastened the strap in under there second. She said, "One handed? Really? My mother warned me about men like you!"

Noted.

My, what a useful board 😁

Actually these days I get more turned- on when they undress me - love it when a woman takes the initiative and slowly undoes your zipper to get to the leaning tower of pisa

One of my many favorite memories occurred at a SC that required dancers to have their nipples painted with latex to meet the county’s required of covered nipples. I got semi private room with a dancer I had known for a while near the end of her shift. I proceeded to gently peel the latex off of her nipples only with my teeth, made somewhat more challenging when she was laughing in delight.

Totally love undressing a dancer. The one handed release thing only works if the girl is wearing a bra with traditional hooks that you can release with a fabric squeeze. If she's wearing a bra that's got thin traps, they have this "S" hook thing where one side of the S is sewn into one side, and the other side of the S is open so you have to insert it into a loop of fabric. I only learned about this when a dancer asked me to help put her back together, and I could figure out the loop thing. She ended up having to put her bra on backwards, insert the S opening into the loop, and then rotate the bra back-to-front. Now I know.

Typo - I COULDN'T figure out the loop thing...

I have helped a dancer out of her bra before, but it's not something I have done regularly or asked to do. Generally I just sit back and enjoy the show.

I have enough bad memories trying to reliably get those damn things open back when I was younger! These days, If I'm paying I don't want to do the work

@ATACdawg and @Fun_Loving_Fella, LOL, I've used the one handed squeeze (and the left hand *is* key) on more than one occasion with someone sitting on my lap. The last time, she was like "What the fuck? I can't even do it that fast."

i try to help😁...

Depending on the dancer’s outfit, sometimes I ask them to leave it on for most of the first song so I can feel them up over their outfit, and eventually explore under the fabric with my hands. With a nice bikini top with nice cleavage, I love to stroke and squeeze the cleavage and side boob, before finally untying the back and letting the puppies out completely. To me this is a very sexy GFE type activity that heightens my arousal in anticipation of what comes next.

I do like to do this, but it's not nearly as fun with a bra as it is with something tied in a bow, usually around the back of her neck. A long, slow pull to gradually release the bow is a good way to signal you like things playful and flirty.

Eh. It feels like I'm undressing a barbie doll. Less excitement of unwrapping a toy. More creepy for excitedly wanting to perv on a toy. It totally ruins the fantasy of her being into me (I chose a stripper for a reason).

....bras don't count.

I Wanna See Mi Dancer In Black Silky Shapewear Full Cut Panties I Bought For Her. A Great Stimulation! Those Definitely Cummin' 👄👄👄
OTC!!!

"Eh. It feels like I'm undressing a barbie doll. Less excitement of unwrapping a toy. More creepy for excitedly wanting to perv on a toy."

There was a lot going on in this post lol. For me it depends on how complicated the outfit is. Sometimes I enjoy taking an outfit off if it looks really hot or if I bought it for her. I'll sometimes pick up something crotchless just so I don't have to bother lol. An awkward moment is discovering a girl has never worn nice lingerie and has no idea how to put it on properly.

One particularly annoying time was when I gave an outfit to a girl who had a hot body (crazy hot) that I'd already shown to another girl but she didn't wear that day. Not only did I hear about it for weeks at least, but the girl who got it put it on wrong and I was trying to stay in the moment while cringing on the inside. The alternative was "sorry let's start over because it's taking too long to get your tits out"...

I like it when they stand before me and i can help pull down their thong because that puts my nose with tongue distance of home plate. Bra clasps: Thumb and forefinger 1.5 inches a part; make the ok sign. Bra is off.