Best comment on "make it rain" behavior
gammanu95
My casual drinking is your alcohol poisoning.
From an outside thread: "Yes, the 'make it rain' assholes piss me off. If I had I that kind of cash, I'd be up there copping feels all night long, one dollar at time."
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Those are the guys that really irritate me—the ones that monopolize the stage by spreading a few bucks worth of tips out over a song while standing at the stage.
What does the size of the club have to do with it? I’m talking about when some douche goes to the stage and doles our a dollar or two at a time (usually one at a time) trying to take up all of her time. Fun Loving Fella gets it it. But it doesn’t matter if it’s a a fave or not. Just tip and then sit the fuck down.
Bingo. I had this same thought when I first read this last night, but got diverted before I got around to posting it. Those weird fucks who stand there for 5-10 minutes, slowly teasing out one dollar at a time, are not the ones who I'm competing against for barside attention or after hours fun. They seem to creep most girls out with that behavior.
When some PL does go to the rail, they usually fall into three categories:
1. Minimal tips but expecting maximum mileage. These are the guys who expect to get bare pussy close ups or even pussies slammed into their face. Or they try to shove the tip money into cleavage, ass cheeks, or worse with the "bonus" of putting hands all over the dancer's most exclusive parts. They make dancers (and bouncers) very nervous and ultimately are trying to get HM for half the cost of a LD.
2. "Make it Rain" PL's who think by throwing $100 in 1's all over the stage they are Ballers who deserve props (read "free bjs') from the dancer in the VIP. But most dancers I've heard from on this think these guys are also annoying: they have to spend time chasing bills all over the stage and then feel pressured to go sit with a PL they think is an asshole.
3. Tippers who SIT at the rail, make eye contact more then staring at pussies, and leave some bills in the stage in front of them. More than once I've heard a dancer tell me they are much more impressed, and will react much more favorably if a guy places one or more bills in a neat stack on stage in front of their position at the rail and makes some friendly eye contact. A dancer will know if the bill you dropped is a $1, $5, $10 or $20+ denomination. It's like stripper brail. They can smell the difference between a $1 and $20 from across the stage.
I think on some level, these examples demonstrate the difference between tipping to show your appreciation and interest (#3), and tipping to treat a dancer like a purchasable commodity (#1 and #2).
Finally, many dancers tell me that they may only make 5-10% of their daily funds from stage time, or even less in a LDF club.
For me, I rarely tip at the rail. I prefer to spend time chatting a dancer trying to decide if I want a dance. The few exceptions are when I want to get the attention of a dancer who hasn't already spoken to me (and then I will tip bigger than the average - up to a limit) and when I'm sitting with a dancer and we are both watching and favorably discussing another dancer on stage. When that happens, I will usually give the dancer sitting with me a few dollars and ask her to bring it to the rail.
There are dudes who have very limited funds - and who have minimal interaction with women - who try and get more from a dollar than they should. They can be harmless, as they get attention from the dancer and return to their seat (hopefully before splooging in their pants).
The dudes who are most annoying are the ones who think they own the dancer because they tip a dollar. They expect front room FS for that dollar - and they expect the dancer to worship them as though they are a king. There was a term for this - but I forget what those types were called.
I'm interested in everyone's thoughts regarding stage rain clubs?
Never seen an NFL player level rainstorm but have seen PLs making it rain a handful of times, each time was in the $100 to $200 range of $1s, and each time it was a hey look at me thing. So dumb.
Question for dancers: occasionally I'll see one dancer throw 25+ $1s during another dancer's stage show. Does that tend to be a friendly altruistic thing done by the money throwing dancer for her stage dancing friend, or does has the stage dancer likely given the money throwing dancer that money in advance to throw on stage as a marketing thing?
I actually find guys who stand there forever teasing out every freaking dollar to be bigger assholes than the guys who make it rain. At least I don't have a human door standing there for 15 minutes blocking my view, pathetically entranced like he's never seen a tit or pussy before. The make it rain guy does his thing and drops the proverbial mic. leaving her free to keep working the crowd.
People who club mostly in smaller markets generally don't see true make it rain tips very often - if at all. But in big city markets like NYC and L.A. it's much more common. In many of the bigger clubs in Queens it is a rare night where you won't see some guy throw a Benji or more in ones on a girl onstage. The economics are just different in places like this.
Like I always say, I'll never criticize how another grown man spends his money. Also, as we all should know by now, the law of the jungle is preeminent doctrine in strip clubs - the biggest spenders eat first and the smaller animals have to be content with the leftovers. If a guy wants to throw hundreds at a girl onstage just to capture her attention and I don't, then he wins.
A guy could stand at the machine and feed it 20's or 100's then press a button.
A stream of $1's would then be shot out of a dispenser over the stage, making it "rain" on the dancer.
I rarely saw it used, and eventually it was removed. Probably stopped working from extended non-use. Also, I doubt the club made any money from this, as I believe it was a 1 for 1 deal - 20 in and 20 out. So all the funds went to the dancer, yet the club had to buy the machine, resupply the 1's, and service the device at their expense.
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Nothing gets dancers moist like an offer of a mustache ride and a stack of shingles!
If I sit at the stage, I'll wait for her to approach and give her either a $10 or $20 bill (sometimes more; never less) and ask if she wants to sit with me after her set, chat a bit, and talk about more dances. Unless she already has another guy on deck, she'll come straight to me 90% of the time. After that talk, I get up and leave the stage.
this technique is what i do in hk. i never have made it rain there.
"Those are the guys that really irritate me—the ones that monopolize the stage by spreading a few bucks worth of tips out over a song while standing at the stage."
and: "Just tip and then sit the fuck down."