Wet pants
rmoney23
Alright, so let's get some true and honest responses to this one. How often do you guys actually bust in your pants while getting a few good friction dances? And secondly, are you embarrased by it and what do you say if the dancer notices? I mean after all, isn't getting off kind of why you want a dance in the first place?
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Rarely will I bust a nut in a SC. If I do, I carry a handkerchief for that sole purpose, to keep my clothes clean. Use your imagination about placing the handkerchief. Other times, I haven't had to worry, for the dancer kept the "NUT" from spreading so to speak.
My main problem in the club while getting a dance is that Mr Happy tends to continuously "leak", creating "DAMP" areas on the trousers. That's why I wear black trousers. The dancers often feel the dampness on their bare skin (ask Cyn) but there's not much they can do until after the dance.
You mentioned: "I mean after all, isn't getting off kind of why you want a dance in the first place?" - - - In my opinion, that is not true. There may be a few who have this concept, but I believe the majority of us go to SCs for the fun and excitement of seeing or being with beautiful dancers.
But no, I've never come in my pants. If I had had a lapdance when I was about 16 I might have lost it, but I learned early on that stamina is better than shooting your load prematurely. At a strip club, I like to keep the rush going.
As far as messy pants goes. That does not bother me. I always were black nylon shorts and a T-shirt not tucked in. When I go to my favorite club I always want to make a night of it. Not bust a nut on the first lap dance. I have stayed ITC for up to 12 hours nonstop but my usual stay now is around 6 hours. I cannot remember the last time I busted a nut simply from grinding. But I am sure that I have and I know that I have come close a lot of times. Sometimes I have to ask a dancer to chill a little as I don't want to leave soon. When I am ready to call it a night, I like to find one of my favorites that I know for sure will give me that HJ or better. Some times I screw up and wait to long and all of my favorites have left. Then it is back to the hotel room and booze.
Not Once In A While - Every time. I take precautions to make sure it doesn't mess up my clothes. I'm there to get off, not get Blue-Balls. I can't imagine leaving one of these places with a stiff dick after spending upwards of $100 - What was the point of being there?
Condoms are the best protection against wetness but I just usually line the inside of the shorts with paper towels to catch it. Why am I doing this? Because there are virtually no hookers left in New York City. Herr Rudolph Giuliani drove them all out by 2001 - Only HE was allowed to have a picece of trim on the side. That particular trim is currently his third wife (and counting).
But I'm just wondering - To all of those guys who have a beautiful girl rubbing her tits all over you, not wearing any clothes, grinding you right on top of your Johnson, and often grabbing your shaft and working it right through your clothes - Why DIDN'T you come? What's wrong with you? ;)
When and if you fuck a girl, do you come after four minutes?
Now, if she's the sort of girl who would indeed open that zipper, then I'm going to be choosing entirely different tactics in order to take advantage of the situation ...
Every single time it happens the girl at the very least plays it cool. My most memorable lap dances are the ones where she responds to my pud by kissing me on the cheek. :) I'm only ashamed if the club is bright enough for other people to notice my accident. I really don't care about the stain in my pants, but I don't want the other customers, especially the guys, staring and pointing and laughing.
99Intrepid - Why DIDN'T you come? What's wrong with you? - - - some of us "older foggies" have developed stamina!
Book Guy - "Heck, I'ma gunna go fer it" - - - Christ! I'm finally glad to see BG loosening up with the lingo! :-)
Now, how about the reverse? How many times has your "pants go wet" from the dancer, grinding her nice wet 'snatch' over Mr Happy or over your leg? Her 'juices' usually aren't apparent until you walk outside (during the day) or into a lighted area (at night). This has happened numerous times to me. No spouse or g/f to worry about, so I just wash them up & get ready for the next visit.
Freakiest thing I ever did in a club...got a BBHJ from a girl who offered a BBBJ (I declined) and she licked my stomach clean.
The truth is - I think To Cum Forth or Not to Cum Forth is a decision each of us makes as an individual. Since inexpensive trim is no longer available in NYC SCs the next-best thing. For me personally, to drop $80 - $150 per night and go home with a painful hard-on is unthinkable.
I think I;m doing the right thing by advising them of the situation before it soakes thru. I'll never go back to that place again.
I remember one web-board discussion (not here at TUSCL, I don't think -- but it might have been) about Mons Venus in Tampa, if I remember correctly. Guy A was talking about getting a boner and really liking the grind that Girl B was giving him, when Girl C chimes in "That is so DISGUSTING." About an erection. A regular dancer at the Mons Venus in Tampa wanted her customers to do without erections during lap dances? Geeeeee ZUS H KEEE rist!
since then, every once in a while. dark pants and such.
Really now...those are the real hookers in the room, just looking to squeeze out a few more drops....of extra money. And happily I've rarely come across any of them...