Menstruation

Gawker;

I my humble opinion and limited experience with American women raised in a culture of over sexuality and sexual repression it is not a “pleasant” experience in their point of view (icky, dirty, painful, gross etc etc etc).

Some men have that perception too, but most man are just happy to be able to have sex no matter what is going on.

But every situation is unique, so it looks to me she is leaving it up to you. When I had a similar situation early in my experience with my ATF stripper, I told her we didn’t have to have sex if it was going to be uncomfortable for her.

But since we had planned to meet already, I suggested we meet and go to a nice dinner at a very fancy restaurant and go back to the hotel and cuddle and have a GFE with no intercourse of course.

It was a very good GFE investment in my opinion, because she became more and more comfortable in our encounters, and I enjoyed the whole event, walking around with a beautiful girl in my arm and after the whole GFE.

But in your case seems that she is thinking about you being grossed or uncomfortable with her having her period.

So it is entirely up to you, I f you are going to do it, doing in the shower is better, that way you can massage each other, and there is no mess to clean.

Please let us know what happens.

Thank you

CJKent bravo on a phenomenal response. Totally agree.

gawker short answer: I’d still do it. Life is short.

Just postpone. 50/50 she's actually on her period but whatever throw it down the line. Whatever the case she's not down tonight so fuck it. Wait no don't do that, that's rape.

Just remind her that the amusement park doesn’t close because one of the rides is out of order, if the roller coaster ain’t working just ride the fuck out of the bumper cars.

Postpone for sure

Uh, thanks Muddy, but I think CJ is right only I might go further. She & I have been on the phone and texting and she wants me (and $400) to be there. It’s always a little awkward getting started with her cuz I’m 47 years older than she, but a little weed, some touching, some kissing, an obligatory DFK (for SGJ) and it all flows. She has many different looks (and maybe personalities for all I know) - “Three Faces of Eve”anyone? It beats Sunday night football (I think)

In my opinion, it's up to the two of you.

She sounds like she's only willing to meet if you make it worth her time, but it also sounds like she knows that she might not be able to provide an ideal experience, so she's giving you the option to pass for now.

I'm not sure, from what you've said, if FS is still on the table for her at the moment. It sounds like you're willing to get your red wings, but not every woman likes to do it while that's going on, particularly in the first few days when the flow tends to be heavier.

Like I say, it's up to the two of you. If she's OK with it and you're OK with it, no big deal. If she doesn't want to and you feel like it wouldn't be worth your money without that part of the experience, then she's giving you the chance to back out. If she doesn't want to, but you still think you can get your money's worth doing other things with her, then go for it.

It's up to you.

Here’s an old porn trick: go to the hardware store and get a sea sponge in the paint department. Boil it for about 20 minutes and water and hydrogen peroxide. Cut it round to the size of a racquetball. Go ahead and stuff it in her pussy and you’ll never know the difference.

^that's a common trick among extras girls. I've heard it discussed in Detroit clubs many times. Customers never even know it's there.

If you aren’t barebacking this whore - there’s really no worry. If she’s comfortable getting fucked at this time of the month - go for it.

Is there any sort of red discount? It might be worth negotiating?

I don't mind a little blood.

@Gawker, my ATF and I got to the point where she didn't really mind, especially, as CJK suggests, if we did it in the shower. However, that was years into our relationship. Early on, before things got serious, we'd just limit it to blowjobs. It took her a while to get used to getting her pussy eaten with a tampon in, but when she finally relented, I think she enjoyed it even more than at other times of the month.

Not something I'd do with someone I'd just met, of course, just offering a little perspective.

Her period will not interfere with a blowjob. And in the shower or in her ass are always options too.

Personally I don't think much of fucking in the shower, but to each their own. Otherwise, put down a few towels and get busy.

Sea sponge? Oh wow, learn something new every day.

I avoid women during this period, it can be very dangerous.

I guess I live on the edge...

I had an atf otc she’d enjoy sucking her blood off my cock. Me I didn’t care, I thought it was kind of freaky but hey, I don’t judge and she was gorgeous & Wild.

Well, without going into too much detail, a blowjob with her finger 2 or 3 inches up your wazoo is a real nice option. And about 30 minutes of naked cuddling was real nice for this old man.

Like they say "to each his own". And you can probably add how desperate a person is. Last week I turned down a dancer that had come to my house the previous 3 weeks for afternoon delights. We had already agreed to meet on Thursday. Wednesday night she texted me that she had started bleeding the day before but was still willing to come to my house, cuddle with me and suck my cock, as well as have lunch with me.

I know a lot of guys don't have a problem with getting intimate with girls on their periods but I do. It's one thing to mess up the sheets in a hotel room. It's another to mess up the bed you sleep in. I don't want to Daty or do FS under those conditions. Yeah I'm old school. 77 years but I also have other options.

I visited Follies on Monday with Eastcoaster and then did Sat there with doctorevil. Papi-Chulo and a couple of others TUSCL members and then again yesterday.

She said that she understood and would wait until this week, I am not sure that she totally understands but will find out when I try to make plans with her for this week.

Menstruation, what a Bloody mess!

Is her mouth bleeding? If not I don’t see the problem.

First day of AuntFlo, they usually don't want to fuck. I guess too water swollen. How much time were you planning on spending with her?

If a lot, then it is like a real date. So Okay. Maybe BJ

But if it is just to fuck, then you pretty much have to postpone, unless you just want BJ. That probably will still make a good impression on her.

SJG