I Feel LIke A Stripper
doctorevil
Evil Lair
I recently got a text from a dancer asking for money. I had a good time with her ITC a few times and then she took a break from dancing. We stayed in touch, and I also had a good time OTC. Her text he said she was going to start dancing again and needed money for new shoes and a new outfit. I sent her some money via Venmo, making clear it was an advance to be paid in services next time I saw her. Then I added, “you know I would only do this for you.”
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+10.
SJG
SJG
But my experience, as Muddy and jackslash note, has been getting burned more than I'd like. To be sure, a one-time $100 gift to a stripper won't even be a blip on my budget. But if she asks again before she reciprocates for the last time, I shut her down.
I have one friend that moved to another state but who still comes to see me when she's in my area for fun. I've sent her small amounts of cash so many times ($60 to get her tire fixed, $30 buy her dinner, or $75 to get her dancers' license), that now when she sees me she doesn't even ask for money. Still I usually spiff her a hundy anyway.
But I've certainly been burned as well. There's another dancer I met locally that moved to another state. She has the most perfect banging body I've ever seen and she's demure and sweet. But she has never delivered. Once I got to about $300, I just told her I can't help her anymore until she show's up. If she wants more cash, I'll only give it to her when she gets out of the shower after we've had our fun. Oddly, she still texts me once in a while. Who knows maybe one day...?
I was going to point out that there's a big difference between a birthday gift and a loan, but you'll figure it out for yourself...or you won't. Only here in TUSCL Fantasy Land do girls eagerly jump on guys' laps today for money they received several days earlier. In real life strip clubs, dancers usually have a cash and carry mentality and view yesterday's money as earned and spent. But who knows, perhaps you have an exception. But if you really like her enough to front her cash, then it seems kinda' silly to complicate things by becoming her creditor as that rarely works out well in here in the real world.
I’ve avoided fronting whores money - with the mention that it should be repaid - but I tend to enjoy filthier types. I generally accept some expenditures will not be recouped.
Good luck - and enjoy the repayment in pussy payments!
- You realize that giving a stripper in advance is an incredibly low-percentage play.
- Since you realize that, no whining allowed if you get ripped off. I don't blame anyone for taking a risk that I wouldn't have, since I'm more risk-averse than most; but I blame them if they take knowingly take a risk and then whine about it not working out. You take a huge gamble, you accept the reward or the punishment, however it works out.
I've advanced ATFs -- not casual CFs, not random favorites, and certain not random strippers -- before, and it always worked out and paid dividends for me. But these are girls I knew really really well, and our relationship was more like an arrangement. And I knew even these were risks, if small. Generally, I think that once you give a stripper money, it's hers, and no agreement that you had prior is likely to be honored
You just have to remember what she does this time if she asks again.
If you look anything like your avatar.... I bet you don't
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