I don’t have the ability to insert a chart easily so you will have to use your imagination a bit but here goes.
Think of everything a monger want from a stripper is inside a circle, make it a big circle because we want just about everything. Let’s call this the Monger’s Circle.
Think of everything a stripper is going to give to anyone is another circle. This circle is smaller probably almost completely inside the larger circle. Can you imagine a stripper offering you something and you telling them, nah, I’ll pass. Let’s call this the Stripper’s Circle
There is another circle that describes the stuff the dancer feels she can get away with at that particular club and the law enforcement activity in the local area. This circle will largely overlapping the Strippers Circle. Let’s call this the Legal Circle.
Another Circle is one that describes everything the Stripper will do for you. This will be completely within the Stripper’s Circle. If she likes you it can be as big as the Stripper’s Circle. If you are an Asshole it will be smaller maybe considerably smaller. Let’s call this the Relationship Circle.
The Milage you get will be whatever is contained in the smallest of the circles. Let’s call this the Milage Received Circle. Now how can we enlarge the smallest circle. First be a nice guy, treat the dancer well, compliment her, tip her, buy her a drink, etc. If you respect her circle over time it may grow as you gain her trust.
I am open to other suggestions on how to grow our Milage Received Circle.
Try doing it as a graph with intersecting lines, where the lines converge that will give you your means to chart it.