For whom are you trying to look hot and pretty and sexy
The desire to look good does not result in wanting to do it for a person. It results from an occasion, and that occasion alone is sufficient to answer the question. For instance , the Oscars is an event that results In many men, including those who are happily married, looking "sexy"- they fix their hair and wear handsome tuxedos. By your logic, this would men that men such as George Clooney who are happily married and even bring their wives to these events are trying to attract other women to approach and talk to them just because they dress up.obviously, that is not the case..what results in them wanting to look handsome is the nature of the occasion itself
Similarly, while going out is not an Oscars event, going out on a Friday or Saturday night is still considered to be a celebratory event . as a result, the nature of the event makes entices not only women , but also men to look nice on such occasions .
Again, this post was never meant to imply that women who dress "hot" do not do it to attract men .rather,it was meant to remind everyone of basic common sense- which is that men do not constitute the only reason why women dress "hot", and therefore that a peeson cannot assume that because a woman dresses "hot", that it was for a man...........