When you establish a recurring OTC relationship, do you still spend on her ITC?

herbtcat
Cool Cat in the Valley
Was just reading through recent posts and this question popped into head:

Once you have established an ongoing (though not necessarily regular) OTC relationship with a favorite, does your spending on her when visiting the club change? I've always leaned towards spending less, with the rationale that:

1. OTC for her means she doesn't need to tip out, wont get fired, wont get outed by other dancers, and wont be arrested in a vice sting. So less risk and more take home funds for her without me increasing my spend.

2. OTC UHM vs ITC UHM for me means no bouncers, no time constraints, no sitting in the last guy's splooge puddle, and I won't get busted in a vice sting. So better overall experience and less risk for me without increasing my spend.

Thoughts?

10 comments

  • RandomMember
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    5 years ago
    "do you still spend on her ITC?"
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    No.
  • K
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    5 years ago
    I still get lap dances and stage tip. I still enjoy getting dances from her and i found that spending money in her in the club gets me good will and even resduced rates.
  • rickdugan
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    5 years ago
    Yes, I'll still tip her ITC, buy drinks, etc., but usually not as much as before we were doing OTC. But my objective is not just sex. I enjoy the club component of my dealings with her as well. In an ideal world, I'll hook up with her ITC and then continue to party OTC later. I really enjoy seeing her onstage and knowing that I'm the one getting dirty with her in a short while. Idk why, I just do.

    The nice thing for her is that I'm worth more than just the OTC payment. She may be getting a lump sum from me OTC, but she also knows that she'll pick up a little cash ITC beforehand plus drinks/food. I also try not to lock her down ITC before the after party so that she can pick up LD money when she is not sitting with me, but some girls stick to me like glue for fear that someone else will try to get my attention and derail the OTC piece.

    i know that some guys want to take it completely out of the club once the connection evolves and I get that, but it's just not what I am seeking. To each his own.
  • rl27
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    5 years ago
    Same as rick. I'll still tip her, buy dances, but won't spend nearly as much as I did before I started seeing her OTC. There is also the fact that I am about to have a lot more fun with her in an hour or two. My last gal would even whisper in my ear how much fun we would have later.
  • lotsoffun201
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    5 years ago
    I too will buy her drinks, maybe throw a couple dollars, but why spend ITC, when OTC with her is much more satisfying?
  • magicrat
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    5 years ago
    I agree with Rick here...if I like her I still like to hang out ITC. My last regular OTC dancer however would just text me with "time, hotel and room number?" She didn't last long.
  • prevert
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    5 years ago
    I'll let you know when I get to that point. :)

    But I think what would be the point? If she's getting my money, what difference does it make whether she's taking it in the club or in a room someplace?
  • Subraman
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    5 years ago
    I absolutely still spend on her ITC. I'm still going to the SC regardless -- many of my SC trips are with friends, and no matter what I'll be making trips with my buddies for some quality bro time. And as long as I'm at the SC, of course the one I'm spending all my $ on is my CF / OTC girl. I'll be encouraging my buddies to spend their $ on her, too, if they like her.
  • Dolfan
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    5 years ago
    It depends. I've had girls who can't always do OTC for whatever reason, so sometimes I'll see them ITC and sometimes OTC. Spending doesn't change a whole lot ITC when we arrange to see each other there, but my visits to the club decline in number since since some of them are replaced with her visiting me. Other girls are happy to do OTC any chance they get, so I'll rarely see them ITC once I've seen them OTC.

    Like Subra, I'm gonna go to to the SC anyway. So for both types of girls, if I see her there I'll certainly buy her a drink and tip her on stage. It'll likely be less spending, although overall spending will go up.
  • Uprightcitizen
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    5 years ago
    Mixed bag but I generally prefer an OTC relationship to be exclusively just that. I have had both.
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