For those that frequently LDK
For those of you that enjoy a good LDK, is there a particular move or position a stripper does that is almost guaranteed to make you LDK?
For me, nothing turns me on more than having a hot dancer with C - DD size tits (not saggy) grinding on me with her back facing me while I reach around squeezing her tits. I find it incredibly sexy when the dancer looks to the side and kind of looks back at me while she is grinding and I’m squeezing her tits.
Another part of it is mental. As she is grinding on me while looking back at me, it turns me on just thinking about how amazing it is that a woman that I met as few as 15 minutes ago is letting me squeeze her tits and trying to make me cum.
I also like to give each dancer a heads up that I’m about to cum as a courtesy in case they aren’t ok with it. I find that the majority of the time they continue what they are doing or somehow even make it better and act like they really do want me to cum. That’s another big turn on.
For me, nothing turns me on more than having a hot dancer with C - DD size tits (not saggy) grinding on me with her back facing me while I reach around squeezing her tits. I find it incredibly sexy when the dancer looks to the side and kind of looks back at me while she is grinding and I’m squeezing her tits.
Another part of it is mental. As she is grinding on me while looking back at me, it turns me on just thinking about how amazing it is that a woman that I met as few as 15 minutes ago is letting me squeeze her tits and trying to make me cum.
I also like to give each dancer a heads up that I’m about to cum as a courtesy in case they aren’t ok with it. I find that the majority of the time they continue what they are doing or somehow even make it better and act like they really do want me to cum. That’s another big turn on.
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Cowgirl position with her tits rubbing on my bare chest and my hands on her ass as I control the pace and grind the underside of my hard cock on her pussy will get me to LDK the best. LOL unlike NJBalla I wear pants and underwear that contain my jizz.
Basically, the VERY thing you described is also my favorite way to LDK. The best, period.
And Nicole I'll admit this isn't something I'd usually talk about in person with friends or ..... shit, anyone. That WOULD be embarrassing.
However, we're on an anonymous forum, which is the perfect place to air out fetishes like this. It's actually refreshing to know that I'm not the only one who does this type of shit.
This anonymous forum is also why you're not embarrassed to post half naked photos of yourself as your profile pic here. I bet you'd be pretty embarrassed to use your TUSCL profile picture as your Facebook profile picture. Just sayin.....
As far as the act itself, I can certainly see how some strippers would be disgusted by it. But it’s fairly easy to tell when a stripper is trying/wants you to LDK. If they constantly change positions, or adjust when they sense you are starting to really enjoy the grind, it’s obvious they don’t want me to LDK so I don’t force the issue.
But I’ve encountered far more strippers that obviously want me to LDK. Why else would they keep grinding in the same motion when I see how good it feels and that it’s gonna make me cum?
When I do LDK, I leave the club right after that, so it’s not like I’m getting lap dances after that with wet pants.
Only time I’ve done anything close to that was one time I got a HJ from one of my favorites. This had happened within half an hour of me getting to the club. I wasn’t ready to leave yet so I planned on just sitting near the stage to have another beer and then leave. But then another of my favorites approached me and I decided to get some dances from her as the HJ didn’t really make a mess on my clothes. The second dancer ended up making me LDK. So in the span of 30 minutes, one dancer finished me off with a HJ and then a second dancer got me to LDK.
Also I totally get your favorite way. Although it's not mine, my ATF DS has huge and firm all natural tits and so grabbing them from behind and her looking back at me just like you described is highly arousing and I've LDKed like that many times.
A similar good way in that position is when she leans more forward away from me and sticks her ass up so I can clearly see her pussy rubbing right on my hard cock and she can twerk as she rubs it. I'll put my hands on her ass and spread it open for full view as she's twerking and grinding. If positioned just right her pussy lips rub right over my dickhead and there is a bit of almost penetration going on. My backup CF to my ATF DS is a master at this.
For myself, it is kind of a stupid move, bad way to interact with the girl. Strip clubs had not used to be that way, lap dancing had not been that way.
As I can see, most dancers don't really like doing that. And girls seem to respond positively when the see that you are saving your load for them.
I see it as one of the marks of a Pathetic Looser.
Long time ago, a dancer told me of strip clubs, "Don't use them for sexual gratification, that's perverted."
I believe that this is the sort of thing she meant.
If one can't do any better than LDKing in a mileage club, from my perspective and experience, substituting DATYing the girl is always good and it always goes over well and leaves the girl notably softened up and primed for OTC.
LDKing is one of the most controversial ideas talked about on this board.
From my perspective, the alternative to being a PL, LDKing, and seeing girls ITC only, is the opposite. It is to become a Womanizer. And that entails treating the women just the way you would treat any other woman, no different. So of course one will be seeing girls outside. Inside, the best is front room makeout session, DATYing, probably preliminary BJ, and FS, and then seeing her outside regularly. Maybe just walking her out the door with you right then.
DFKing, and in the front room, is the most controversial thing talked about on this board.
Sounds like in TJ it is pretty much standard, and at some of the clubs the women don't even give you any choice in the matter.
For me in AMPs, it has long been standard. Even in our own local strict no touching clubs, once in a while a girl will start DFKing. Seemingly what she wants is immediate OTC. Seems like more boredom motivated than money motivated.
SJG
Scenario 1:
Her: "Did you cum"
Me: "Yea"
Her: *Stares at her ass to see if she needs to clean up* "Well, I guess thats the point"
Scenario 2:
Me: Im all set I just LDK'd
Her: Thats what Im here for
Of course nothing beats the russian girl who made a point of getting me to LDK twice. She was a legend
(After I’ve LDk’d) dancer: Mission Accomplished?
Me: yes
Dancer: That’s what I like to hear
(While a dancer is grinding on me) me: you’re gonna make me cum
Dancer: I want you to cum
SJG
But if you are at a non-extras club sometimes an LDK is your best/only option.
Just for ITC, DATY has worked as a good alternative, and the girl sees that you are saving your load for her. DATY softens girls up real well.
SJG
To me when you can LDK, you can always end a club visit happy.
I think Ive posted this many times, but the youtube link below is a perfect answer to your original question @football. Jim Florentine is a NJ strip club legend, highly recommend you google his Strip Club Stories podcasts
https://youtu.be/rnCiC6uSUIY?t=1638
AMPs usually offer instant FS.
And NDBalla, that's another reason for front room makeout sessions. Once you have a girl DFKing you, she's not going to be that difficult to deal with.
SJG
You can DFK her and DATY and FIV her. What that does is get her extremely ready!
Women go for outsiders, it seems to be an evolutionary learned thing. They will want your load.
But if you can't get what you want, save your time and money.
SJG
Me: *lets out a sigh of pleasure*
Her: "I guess that's my cue that you wanna stop."
Me (directly after my very first LDK): *trying to act like nothing happened*
Her: "did that feel good?"
Me (thinking in my head): How did she know?!
SJG
1. Hygiene You dont want the girl who DFK often, Girls are trying to make money and sometimes might not have the time to freshen up. One of my past favs who loved to DFK always was on antibiotics. Blamed it on her son, but I didnt have the heard to tell her to stop kissing every guy who walked in the club
2. Usually attracts the wrong attention from other customers. Many clubbing customers are voyeurs and enjoy watching customer/dancer interactions to see who to focus thier time on. Guys who notice a girl who is extra frisky will often try to get her attention even if theres tons of other girls to choose from. Its a dick move, but a lot of customers are assholes.
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Hot 60's GoGo Dancer
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gbUWaJcv…
Contact strip clubs had not used to be LDK oriented. Lap Dancing started at MBOT, and it was front room only. Lots of titty massaging, and some FIV and even some FIA, and a good amount of DFKing.
It was after the legal battles were won, the the Mafia came in, followed by DejaVu, and they set up the booths and back rooms. And then since things have really toned down, so they are indeed the modern version of a clip joint.
SJG
I'm going to use this the next time I'm at the club.