Dances on floor v dances in VIP room

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• chandler

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  18 years ago

  FONDL: I would probably like that, too. My longtime regular club was sort of like Brad's in terms of size and atmosphere, except the lap dances were done at your table. Recently, they've been messing with the table dances, trying to push everything into the VIP, which I think is ruining the place.
• FONDL

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  18 years ago

  Chandler, the place where my ATF worked is just one room - juice bar in one corner, a small stage and runway against the far wall, and the rest of the place small tables and chairs. And it's so dark that when you first walk in you have to stand next to the doorway for about 5 minutes before you can see anything except for the stage. Which means that there is a lot of privacy in the corners away from the stage. Dances are done right at your table. I always liked the setup.
• chandler

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  18 years ago

  I love it when girls can come to me at my table and flirt, cuddle, do a lapdance, drink, chat, get a backrub, etc. Not many clubs are set up well for this, especially with good lapdances on the main floor. When they are, it's my favorite way to go. For me, what's important about the cheaper dances is that it makes them more spontaneous, not just that I save money. I also like the vibe that I feel sometimes when everybody around us is getting lapdances, too. Most VIP rooms I know of don't allow you to hang out like you can at your table. So I just don't like having to get up and go to a special room to get a lapdance, and I don't like being in that room while the meter's running. The intimacy that everybody seems to value VIP for strikes me as more contrived than the open superficiality that prevails in the main room.
• FONDL

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  18 years ago

  For me it's a moot point, none of my favorite clubs have a VIP room. But given the choice I'd rather have lower cost than greater privacy, VIP rooms are usually overpriced.
• Mickkeyc

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  18 years ago

  As you qulaified the questio, if there are no overt sexual acts, all other things being equal, I would actually prefer a very busy time. I think it is easier to go un-noticed when there is a lot going on in teh lap dance area - everyone else, dancers and customers, are occupied. I have had some of the most memorable dances while surrounded, as the bouncers are too busy watching everyone else. A private lap dance, even if Mr. Happy does not come out to play, can be rewarding for a different reason - the opportunity to get to know the dancer in a more private environment. I would say only 30% of the dances I get in the private area, is spent dancing.
• Yoda

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  18 years ago

  I do both VIP and floor dances. Depending on the club's set-up and the restrictions on the girls I may do only VIP or only floor dances. Costs being equal, I prefer the more private environment but in some clubs, during the day, the open areas are very private!
• DailyGrind

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  18 years ago

  For the same price, I prefer a comfortable couch and less to distract Her. DG
• DailyGrind

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  18 years ago

  Barring the choice, I'll go as far as she wants on the floor. Shame is counterproductive. DG
• DandyDan

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  18 years ago

  I don't worry about it, at least at my favorite club, because the dancers themselves, at least there, don't worry about it. In fact, a couple of the dancers don't have any inhibitions about anything there.