you can't take it with you

when you see the sexy outfit your cf just bought and posted on social media or txt'd to you, and then 20 minutes later she tells you that her cell phone is going to be turned off tomorrow because she can't afford the payment, do you ever try to rationalize with her? You know, if you didn't buy that dress, and that Victoria's secret matching bra and panties, I bet you could have afforded that phone payment, and by the way thank you for texting me those sexy pictures. Or do you just ignore it and her. I figure, I'll know when here phone gets turned back on, because she'll start texting me about how broke she is again.

it's their money once I give it to them, but I feel like every time I have a little fun in the club, and drop some money, the next day I get to live out their shopping spree only to hear 3 days later how their rent and car payment is due and their totally broke. I know it's all ss, and she's telling 5 other guys the same thing, but I just want to grab her and shake her and say, stop spending ALL your fucking money and you won't be broke all the time.