Found a new “thing” during VIP

Not my thing, but play safe.

The one time I was choked by a dancer I didn't find it fun or sensual, I just wanted it to end.

I thought you were going to say you discovered that you enjoy having a dildo rammed up your ass.

Neither are my thing, but play safe.

Definitely my thing, but be safe.

Make sure when you use the belt like that (and the way you describe it doesn’t sound like it was actually choking her), make sure there’s no possibility that it could continue choking her if you were to let go. The same applies if you ever let anyone do that to you.

Don’t want any accidents.

I think they're probably doing it because they think you want them to do it. It shows up more and more in porn now'days, I've noticed. Erotic asphyxiation can indeed be pleasurable (for either gender) but I can't imagine that it can be accurately accomplished with a partner whom you have just now met. You'd have to have an advanced degree in BDSM to know exactly how much to throttle her for stimulating pleasure but not pain. And frankly, they aren't in the VIP for their own pleasure, not most of them, the idea that this will "improve" their experience of giving you a lap-dance seems a bit off-kilter to me ...

I choked a dancer once. I thought she was going to pass out but she finally gave back my wallet.

All good advice.

There's nothing wrong with choking the chicken.

LOL @Gold

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