Strip Club faux pas as a newbie
steeldog65
I swear, it's just shrinkage due the cold
We all have done something in our lives where our initial reaction is "Aw Shit!" I am thinking there must be a wealth of such moments among us in our strip club interactions.
For me personally I think the biggest as a newbie was essentially allowing the first dancer to approach me and prevent me from approaching the dancers I wanted to see as I was too polite to ask her to move on. Fixed that issue relatively quickly but as a newbie it is an adjustment to change your social interactions to meet what you are doing in a club. It seems wrong, impolite and rude and that was hard for me to overcome initially.
Secondly I was quite naive when it came to the possibility of extras. I hadn't found this site, I was just starting to club after 4 years of enforced solitude after my wife passed and I just wanted to see nekkid women without any other real thought. Thant changed rather quickly as my initial forays were in Washington Park. It literally took the dancer unzipping my pants and starting the show before I really got in my head what was happening. I am a slow study obviously.
For me personally I think the biggest as a newbie was essentially allowing the first dancer to approach me and prevent me from approaching the dancers I wanted to see as I was too polite to ask her to move on. Fixed that issue relatively quickly but as a newbie it is an adjustment to change your social interactions to meet what you are doing in a club. It seems wrong, impolite and rude and that was hard for me to overcome initially.
Secondly I was quite naive when it came to the possibility of extras. I hadn't found this site, I was just starting to club after 4 years of enforced solitude after my wife passed and I just wanted to see nekkid women without any other real thought. Thant changed rather quickly as my initial forays were in Washington Park. It literally took the dancer unzipping my pants and starting the show before I really got in my head what was happening. I am a slow study obviously.
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Not disease (HIV and Herpes were largely unknown at that point, and the rest are a penicillin shot away from fixing) so much as pregnancy. The thought of a little unknown GMD out there had me sweating.
I thought she was just saying it to get me to buy a VIP room, so I passed.
About 5 months later after a great lap dance, the dancer explicitly told me what was available in the VIP room and I apprehensively decided to find out.
I bought the VIP room and then she told me her tip (another newbie faux pas) and I didn't have enough for the extras, so she said she would dance and I could tip her whatever I wanted to.
I thought, yep what a scam, we go into the room she gets undressed, puts a hat on junior and I leave satisfied and a few onces lighter.
What I should have done is left, gone to the pharmacy, bought some condoms, and then come back.
A FS offer turned into an expensive HJ because of the lack of the cover.
I would say letting dancers that I had no interest in get my money. You know a “Pity dance” Ugh God I’ve come a long way.