Most of the strippers in the clubs are half my age and twice as good looking as me. I'm pretty sure they just see me as someone to get money out of. Since they don't see me as a boyfriend or potential boyfriend I really don't see them as a girlfriend or potential girlfriend either. Sometimes, though, one will suddenly act like the angry girlfriend. Is this just a reflexive habit with them or is there something else behind it? Last week a regular asked me what my hobby was. I jokingly replied my hobby was coming to see her. I was surprised when she got an angry look on her face and said "so I'm your hobby, huh?" That is exactly how an angry girlfriend would react if you said that to her but she is not my girlfriend. Things like this have happened before to me. Why would they react like this?
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last comment^It’s not what you say, it’s how you say it ;)
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Tell her you're not gonna treat her like a stripper anymore by not paying her for her time anymore
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I wouldnt call that acting like an angry girlfriend lol. That just a response a female would give. Angry girlfriend is more like a stripper saying "you cheated on me" if you dance with another girl in the club or if they glare at you when you are talking to other girls in the club.
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I would imagine many strippers don't like being considered a toy or sex object but kinda the nature of the job
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Hey doc, I'm guessing you triggered the "I'm not a whore" nerve.
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What's a regular? Most people ask the "What hobbies do you have?" within the first 1 or 2 times spending time with a person.
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Strippers are not entitled -- and are not entitled to loyalty.
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Women. You can't live with them. The end.
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"That just a response a female would give."
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^ +1
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I had a stripper say to me "I know you are seeing other strippers" a few weeks after I talked about going to another club. At some point every regular I have had gets mad at me for something ridiculous. There is alot of drinking/drugs going on, plus they are all 19-22 so not the most mature bunch. I am sure there is some kind of emotional attachment, but its probably cause they are drunk more than anything.
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I have had a few get emotionally attached. A girl I was seeing OTC started refusing money. I see her occasionally in the club. She and my CF are friends. It has created a few uncomfortable moments, but this is P4P and I do it to avoid emotion and drama. My CF has an emotional attachment as well, but does not give me grief over other girls. Smart, because if she did, I would cut her loose.
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I thought this was gonna be a question regarding jealous for you spreading your money around.
She's a weirdo.
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That's a weird response to get.. if she sees you as just her regular and you're spending money on other girls without her permission/knowledge, that can get hairy from what I've seen haha. I would brush it off unless it keeps happening. Stick a bill in-between her boobs and tell her sorry and you'll be good as new. ;)
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