Ok saying something negative directly to someone about their appearance is almost never ok. Guys talking to other guys about some woman this or that is kinda annoying- but if they are the type to spend money I look the other way? If they are not spenders though they shouldn't be talking shit about any woman.
I never understood broke guys that are also cheap and not willing to spend that have insane standards for women or just talk a lot of shit about some aspect of some girl's appearance. Like you aren't even willing to spend money to get attention or sex or whatever from a woman you find attractive then you go attack some woman whose appearance you do not like. Obviously this man has some deep seated insecurity about himself to behave this way.
Those guys are the typical insecure people that try to make themselves feel better by making others feel like shit. They will attack a persons looks or intellect trying to find an area that they other person is insecure about, just so the other person can feel as miserable as they do. Men and women both do it.
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I understand that you are willing to overlook someone being an ass for work. That’s part of the job. But outside of work, you shouldn’t put up that bullshit just because they are willing to spend money. There are plenty of guys who will do that and not put you down.
Ok I meant in the context of getting money. In real life that's silly. But I do have guy friends that talk shit about women in a way that makes me uncomfortable. I mean I talk shit too about women and everyone really, but certain things make even me uncomfortable. These might not be things that even apply to me, but I'm like damn I see why he is single LOL but they are good friends to me so I don't comment
DC I've seen every type of man willing to pay for either a camgirl, strippers, or otc. Young, old, ugly, attractive, scrawny, muscular, every race. Sure there are some guys more typically willing to spend (and guys I find easier to deal with), but they all do in the end. There's plenty of attractive younger guys that are willing to spend money in the club for the fantasy or start pining for otc. A lot of guys act like they won't spend on a stripper or escort etc, but idk if they are drunk/horny/see just exactly what they've been wanting come towards them they start opening that wallet lol!
Phat, what about guys that still spend a fair bit at the club every now and then that look good in the face and obviously lift/workout? They obviously work on themselves, but I'm still getting their money. Granted I don't get paid for sex and all that- I am not sure I can stomach doing all that for money. I am not even casual in my personal life anyways lol.
lol oh my. We've all got issues- anyway shutting up now. I don't really read every last thing on here so can't say anything specific. He doesn't seem like a bad person or serial killer to me. That's just some next level shit there for what seems like a socially awkward (maybe?) younger guy. Which is so common. I'm not exactly a social butterfly so I can't really rag on him for that.
@Nicole - I really don't know how it feels. I know I am a solid 5, 6 on a REALLY good day, so I have no justification to comment on others' looks. If someone doesn't tickle my fancy, then I opt to simply keep my mouth shut. If someone goes appeal to me, then I will tell them assuming it is appropriate to the situation we are in. I was taught growing up to speak wisely and wisely know when to and not to speak. I personally think it is a sign a maturity when you know when to keep your comments to yourself because they have the potential to hurt someone or they are simply inappropriate for the situation you and the other person are in. For me it doesn't matter the age, sex, or race of the other person, it is a simple matter to respect and just because I am not attracted to someone doesn't mean that person isn't attractive to someone else and there is no reason for me to hurt their feelings just to try making myself feel better.
People choose P4P for a number of reasons. Those that Phatboy listed, along with several others. I have, and it was never with anyone that I thought I couldn’t “get” on my own or someone that I thought didn’t want to be there.
For me paying is a professional courtesy. She is not the commodity, sex is. In the end we all “pay” for sex in some way. It is either with time, feelings or money. Sometimes a combination of them.
If I have a friend that is an auto mechanic I don’t expect them to come fix my car when ever it needs something without offering compensation. Sometimes they say don’t worry about it, sometimes they take way less then what it’s worth. That’s my way of letting my friend know that I don’t take his friendship for granted, and he is not just a “free mechanic” to me.
AN: Dis is da nu chap. Iv gt a nu beta cld shadwkng. So der is no reson 2 flam me animor!!111111
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We quickly got through the people who had become preps because of what Voldemort had done. We walked down the road as quickly as we could. We tried to find Vampire’s car, which was parked nearby.
When we got there, it had been destroyed!
“Oh My God!” I yelled sadly, “What are we gonna do?!”
“It looks like we are gonna have to walk home,” Reapa said.
“But that’s miles away, how can we do that?” I asked him.
I looked around & there was a demon. It was wearing black cloaks, & it floated in the sky. It was a dementor. We began to run cause we knew that they sucked the life out of you. But we were too late. It was beginning to suck on Reapa.
“No!” I yelled, as the dementor was sucking the life out of Reapa. “Do something, Vampire!”
Vamire got out his wand & summoned a stag patronus that killed the dementor. We were safe again.
But Reapa wasn’t. He was dying. The sight of him dying made me want to slit my wrist, but I didn’t have the time, as the Death Eaters were coming.
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AN: I hop dat wuz betta? No flamng plez!!1111
Phatboy. I don’t think you get to tell me who my friends are.
I have a friend who also happens to be an escort. We do more things together that do not involve sex or money then that do. We have been there for each other at times of great emotional need, both good and bad. If I never had sex with her again or paid her again we’d still be be friends. We’ve had sex when no money was exchanged, or a token amount just to say we did. So although you are right in some cases, there are many more situations that don’t fit the mold you have in mind.
^Phatboy is most likely another Dougster alias. Don’t worry about his opinion. He’s a gay guy who stalked and trolled this board for at least 14 years.
“Dougster/bobbyl's fixation and harassment game is 7 years old and has resulted in several members leaving the board. The MO is always the same, harass them until they stop posting. Having had a high degree of success with this approach, I'm sure he feels no reason to discontinue. Former board participants who have enjoyed his fixation and harassment treatment include yoda, chandler and MisterGuy, among others.”
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The hypocrisy in the topic subject speaks more about the poster than the attempt by her at projecting a claimed virtue. Why not just simply ask why any guy would talk down to women they think are ugly? It seems like if the guy is handsome, she feels he has a pass for talking down to women he thinks is ugly otherwise she would not say "How does it feel to not be handsome" as the baseline.
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last commentI think it's ok for men to be this way if they got money and willing to spend it. Otherwise they need to sit down and shut up.
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Its not ok to talk down on someone just vuz they ugly period..that is very. Childish
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Ok saying something negative directly to someone about their appearance is almost never ok. Guys talking to other guys about some woman this or that is kinda annoying- but if they are the type to spend money I look the other way? If they are not spenders though they shouldn't be talking shit about any woman.
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I never understood broke guys that are also cheap and not willing to spend that have insane standards for women or just talk a lot of shit about some aspect of some girl's appearance. Like you aren't even willing to spend money to get attention or sex or whatever from a woman you find attractive then you go attack some woman whose appearance you do not like. Obviously this man has some deep seated insecurity about himself to behave this way.
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@Nicole
Those guys are the typical insecure people that try to make themselves feel better by making others feel like shit. They will attack a persons looks or intellect trying to find an area that they other person is insecure about, just so the other person can feel as miserable as they do. Men and women both do it.
@blahblah
I understand that you are willing to overlook someone being an ass for work. That’s part of the job. But outside of work, you shouldn’t put up that bullshit just because they are willing to spend money. There are plenty of guys who will do that and not put you down.
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Ok I meant in the context of getting money. In real life that's silly. But I do have guy friends that talk shit about women in a way that makes me uncomfortable. I mean I talk shit too about women and everyone really, but certain things make even me uncomfortable. These might not be things that even apply to me, but I'm like damn I see why he is single LOL but they are good friends to me so I don't comment
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Anyway Mike, I appreciate your comment. Nice to see some of the Male species is sane haha
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Blah .I don't think a persons wallet had anything to do with if they can talk bad about. People or not..lol.
A guy who is rich has no right to talk shit about appearance in the same way a poor person does
Bc it has nothing do with money.its about character and having an adult mind.
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I'm talking about cheap dudes who don't spend or barely spend on anyone
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I know what you mean though nicole.
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DC I've seen every type of man willing to pay for either a camgirl, strippers, or otc. Young, old, ugly, attractive, scrawny, muscular, every race. Sure there are some guys more typically willing to spend (and guys I find easier to deal with), but they all do in the end. There's plenty of attractive younger guys that are willing to spend money in the club for the fantasy or start pining for otc. A lot of guys act like they won't spend on a stripper or escort etc, but idk if they are drunk/horny/see just exactly what they've been wanting come towards them they start opening that wallet lol!
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Phat, what about guys that still spend a fair bit at the club every now and then that look good in the face and obviously lift/workout? They obviously work on themselves, but I'm still getting their money. Granted I don't get paid for sex and all that- I am not sure I can stomach doing all that for money. I am not even casual in my personal life anyways lol.
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Nicole, I wouldn't know. I have only met ONE gal that I thought was Ugly. That was over 30 years ago. I don't talk sown to anyone.
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lol oh my. We've all got issues- anyway shutting up now. I don't really read every last thing on here so can't say anything specific. He doesn't seem like a bad person or serial killer to me. That's just some next level shit there for what seems like a socially awkward (maybe?) younger guy. Which is so common. I'm not exactly a social butterfly so I can't really rag on him for that.
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@Nicole - I really don't know how it feels. I know I am a solid 5, 6 on a REALLY good day, so I have no justification to comment on others' looks. If someone doesn't tickle my fancy, then I opt to simply keep my mouth shut. If someone goes appeal to me, then I will tell them assuming it is appropriate to the situation we are in. I was taught growing up to speak wisely and wisely know when to and not to speak. I personally think it is a sign a maturity when you know when to keep your comments to yourself because they have the potential to hurt someone or they are simply inappropriate for the situation you and the other person are in. For me it doesn't matter the age, sex, or race of the other person, it is a simple matter to respect and just because I am not attracted to someone doesn't mean that person isn't attractive to someone else and there is no reason for me to hurt their feelings just to try making myself feel better.
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^ i like this attitude- but for some reason many people struggle to be like this
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People choose P4P for a number of reasons. Those that Phatboy listed, along with several others. I have, and it was never with anyone that I thought I couldn’t “get” on my own or someone that I thought didn’t want to be there.
For me paying is a professional courtesy. She is not the commodity, sex is. In the end we all “pay” for sex in some way. It is either with time, feelings or money. Sometimes a combination of them.
If I have a friend that is an auto mechanic I don’t expect them to come fix my car when ever it needs something without offering compensation. Sometimes they say don’t worry about it, sometimes they take way less then what it’s worth. That’s my way of letting my friend know that I don’t take his friendship for granted, and he is not just a “free mechanic” to me.
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AN: Dis is da nu chap. Iv gt a nu beta cld shadwkng. So der is no reson 2 flam me animor!!111111 XXXXXXX666XXXXXX
We quickly got through the people who had become preps because of what Voldemort had done. We walked down the road as quickly as we could. We tried to find Vampire’s car, which was parked nearby. When we got there, it had been destroyed! “Oh My God!” I yelled sadly, “What are we gonna do?!” “It looks like we are gonna have to walk home,” Reapa said. “But that’s miles away, how can we do that?” I asked him. I looked around & there was a demon. It was wearing black cloaks, & it floated in the sky. It was a dementor. We began to run cause we knew that they sucked the life out of you. But we were too late. It was beginning to suck on Reapa. “No!” I yelled, as the dementor was sucking the life out of Reapa. “Do something, Vampire!” Vamire got out his wand & summoned a stag patronus that killed the dementor. We were safe again. But Reapa wasn’t. He was dying. The sight of him dying made me want to slit my wrist, but I didn’t have the time, as the Death Eaters were coming.
XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX AN: I hop dat wuz betta? No flamng plez!!1111
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Phatboy. I don’t think you get to tell me who my friends are.
I have a friend who also happens to be an escort. We do more things together that do not involve sex or money then that do. We have been there for each other at times of great emotional need, both good and bad. If I never had sex with her again or paid her again we’d still be be friends. We’ve had sex when no money was exchanged, or a token amount just to say we did. So although you are right in some cases, there are many more situations that don’t fit the mold you have in mind.
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^Phatboy is most likely another Dougster alias. Don’t worry about his opinion. He’s a gay guy who stalked and trolled this board for at least 14 years.
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How would I know?
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“Dougster/bobbyl's fixation and harassment game is 7 years old and has resulted in several members leaving the board. The MO is always the same, harass them until they stop posting. Having had a high degree of success with this approach, I'm sure he feels no reason to discontinue. Former board participants who have enjoyed his fixation and harassment treatment include yoda, chandler and MisterGuy, among others.” tuscl.net
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Nicole started some real shit this time
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Phatboy I think we’re just going to have to agree to disagree.
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The hypocrisy in the topic subject speaks more about the poster than the attempt by her at projecting a claimed virtue. Why not just simply ask why any guy would talk down to women they think are ugly? It seems like if the guy is handsome, she feels he has a pass for talking down to women he thinks is ugly otherwise she would not say "How does it feel to not be handsome" as the baseline.
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