PL Psychology
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>:( 🧚🏼♀️💃🏼 busy being a "psycho bitch" 🤣
I have noticed a lot of guys seem sad or maybe they are just really great at faking it when you tell them you aren't going to fuck or suck them etc.
Is this some manipulation tactic or is there some genuine void/need there?
Is this some manipulation tactic or is there some genuine void/need there?
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Men are so weird!!!!!! You all are very odd creatures, are we even the same species?
And yeah- the fact that you are trying to psycho analyse it just means that you don't understand us and probably never will.
There’s the everyday me - who is relaxed, busy and getting through the day.
There’s the me who knows he’s getting some pussy - woo hoo, I’m getting some pussy!, Oh yeah!...
Sadly, there’s a third mood, the I thought I was getting some and now I’m not getting any...boo hoo. I hide my disappointment, but I’m not a happy camper when I don’t get the good stuff!
I’m guessing you work in an extras club. So if that’s true - guys might expect extras from all the dancers. So, they might be confused that you say no.
We are simple types, us guys. When we see food - we eat, when we see pussy - we expect to fuck. It’s confusing when things change. When my ex calls me - I know I’m in trouble!
1) horny
2) hungry
3) have to go to the bathroom
4) sleepy
Anything else is beyond our comprehension;)
You cavemen are so silly!!!
Idk the looks on some of their faces I almost feel bad sometimes.
Believe me if I did certain things for pay I'd take some of these guys up on their offers. Some of them are pretty damn good looking, have plenty of money to blow, and can hold an interesting conversation with me.
The one time I let an interaction get to me (when the bouncer stopped me from touching) was when something else was going on in my life and I let it get to me. Normally it should be chin up and work within your boundaries or chin up and find the next dancer.
+1 to twentyfive and pauldrake.
Just know firmly what you will and won’t do, not just mileage/extras wise, but also how far you are willing to go to “lead them on.” Sadly, sometimes it’s a fine line between doing your job correctly and being a ROB.
Your definition of what’s acceptable *for yourself* will be different than others. And that’s okay.
Because you can’t entirely judge what’s right based on the customer’s actions.
One dipshit last week got dramatic and tried to guilt trip me because he had to go to the atm for “hustling” him. I literally asked him for a dance, he said yes, and I had waited until the start of the next song to give him a dance.
Also, I had an ex regular who acted all sad that I never met him OTC. I wondered at the time whether I really was wrong for leading him on. But then (couple months later) he messaged me saying “hello (insert my real name here)”. I never gave him my real name, and I wished I had hustled him harder when I had the chance. Ugh.
That being said, I think going out of your way to steal from customers would also in the long run cause problems as well.