How common is it for strippers to be asked for sex?

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JohnSmith69
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So I'm watching video girl movies. She is a stripper who let me take lots of pictures and movies. So I'm watching one of our porn scenes where she is on the couch slowly undressing while I ask her lots of questions about what its like to be a stripper. I also asked her about her sexual experience (for example: first sex at 13). She's eventually nude, then has her legs spread, then the questions end as I sit next to her and her tongue starts to do its thing on my dick while the camera roles.

While she was topless and right before the panties came off, I asked her this question: "what percentage of the men that you give lap dances to ask you for sex?" By the way, I'd say this girl is somewhere around an 8 if that matters to the question. And obviously she an OTC girl but she doesn't do extras ITC. She said that around 80% of men she dances for ask her for some sort of sex.

I thought this was an interesting question, although her number was higher than I expected. I figured more than 20% of the guys wouldn't want sex because of a SO, or because of STD concerns, or because they are cheap, or because they thought they might get kicked out, or because they are shy little wimps who don't want to insult a woman. Then again, the little head takes over when the pussy comes out.

Anybody have any insights on how common it is for strippers to be asked for sex?

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Eve
6 years ago
For me on a nightly basis, I'd say an even 50% split of custies I dance for ask for more.
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nicespice
6 years ago
^What Eve said. Pretty much every shift.
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Subraman
6 years ago
So, I"ve been on a few other (local) SC forums, and one of the things that's obvious, is that even on a forum full of strip club regulars, most guys don't realize how many strippers do OTC, are nervous about asking because they think they'll get beat up by the bouncers, etc.

So, this 50%+ of customers asking for more ... this is asking for more ITC, or non-serious queries about outside the club? Or, despite my experience on the local forums, are a lot of those requests serious OTC inquiries?
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Eve
6 years ago
The 50% I'm referring to is strictly for ITC requests. If any guy wants OTC, they ask me as we're sitting and talking with no intentions to get dances or they ask after I've finished dancing for them majority of the time.
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jackslash
6 years ago
If they dance for me, it's going to be 100%.
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Papi_Chulo
6 years ago
I don't ask strippers for sex - I tell them I want sex
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goldmongerATL
6 years ago
I think even at extras clubs like Follies the ratio is not that high. Think of it this way. On a crowded day there may be 70-80 customers, but only about 6 can be in VIP at any one time. Most never go.
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shailynn
6 years ago
I wonder...

If 8 out of every 10 guys ask for some sort of sex, I wonder how many would actually take the offer if a stripper said "sure, that'll be $XXX to go in the VIP right now."
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Nidan111
6 years ago
Shailynn.....ME. I would. Hell, I do! If I were certain that VIP would always result in FS or other significant extras, I'm in with extra tips to boot.
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Jascoi
6 years ago
I've been enjoying stripers for seven years now. probably half i have asked for sex. probably half of them say yes.
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pistola
6 years ago
Hmm how often is it that a stripper gets your dick hard and the guy is thinking about sex. Gee.... Idk...

There are two types of PLs the type that say what's the worst that can happen she says no and then all the rest, hint strippers usually date the first type because at least they have some balls.

Clothed mouths don't get fed a quiet binder doesn't get ridden.
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pistola
6 years ago
*boner not binder lol
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Dominic77
6 years ago
8 out of 10 sounds about right. I also agree with shailynn.

John, I think some of the guys with SOs or with STD concerns fall in line with the old Mercedes-Benz commercial, "just knowing you can is enough." I"m not projecting me onto that. It's the gammanu95 rationalization to prove to himself that he's still got game. If she half agrees it feeds his ego and fantasy even if he never really planned to follow through.

Plus there are some guys that don't have the budget for p4p. I definitely fall here, lol. When you starting talking over a hundred dollars for a VIP room or a hotel room or $200-$300 for the FS tip or w/e a BJ costs, these guys rapidly get priced out of the market except a once in a blue moon sort of splurge once total costs are in 3 figures. Some of these guys *might* be down for something like free extras in a $15 dance or $36 olive garden date ($18 is her) or a similar spend a a bar, then a free bang at her place or in his car, like a civvie hookup.

On a local board, the CLE locals seemed to be into trying to find $60 or $90 "take out" which was below market rates.

Once the price is established, like goldmongerATL's example at follies, I don't think there are a lot of takers among the Hoi polloi at established market rates, at least not as a regular thing. That's why he doesn't see the VIP take rate (6 out of 80) as high as the guys asking (8 out of 10). Assuming they're serious, they're really just looking for near free hookup.

I don't ask because I don't have the budget to pay market rates. Why insult her? Plus I'm really satisfied at home.I don't think most guys (8 out of 10?) are in my predicament.
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Dominic77
6 years ago
I think it's common, in convo with a stripper at my table, it'll often come up that I'm the first guy tonight that hasn't asked to fuck her, date her, or have her suck my dick. And she'll word is as, "so why isn't that" or "are you interested?" I mean it's SS, sure, but I don't think it would come up like that if there wasn't a kernel of truth in it. I think they do get asked a lot.
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twentyfive
6 years ago
How the hell is this even a question I mean really why the hell do guys go to a strip club, to drink at double the price of a normal bar ? C’mon guys this is a Nicole question.
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Dominic77
6 years ago
Yep.
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Cashman1234
6 years ago
I think there must be a relatively high percentage of customers who ask - so 80% seems reasonable.

My guess is that there are folks who will ask or make a comment about having sex - but they might not be serious (just horny). The ones who ask - and want a response - regarding either itc sex or otc sex - are the ones who are really interested.
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shailynn
6 years ago
25, the vast majority of guys go to a strip club to see boobies, and they’re willing to pay double on their drinks for such a show.

Most aren’t trying to fuck strippers, although they’d like to, or at least think they’d like to but don’t embark on the chase.
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twentyfive
6 years ago
Shailynn the point was who cares ?
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Lone_Wolf
6 years ago
I think the question needs to be qualified between first time custies getting a dance and pl's a dancer would consider a regular.

An 80% ask rate by first time custies sounds high to me. Might be true for regulars.
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Mate27
6 years ago
I’m tired of strippers, and it’s only civilians (fwb and no p4p) for me with model quality women. That’s 2 bits. Only time I go to the club is to lock down the hottest chick for a couple of hours, while chit chatting.
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