Most PL (in the worst way) thing I've ever read

what's so PLish about this?

The going to jail part govikings.

haha! what club? I'll take his place!

The guy is clueless and a wimp

Pl is something to be proud of! A pl would have had no problem with a bj in vip! He's a wimp!

I'm so ashamed!

In other parts of the world P4P is not a big deal - people are gonna do it anyway so might as well make it legal and safer and people enjoy getting what they need.

In the US b/w the feminists and the puritans might as well not even have a dick.

i.e. in the US one is made to feel like a total scumbag for paying for sex whereas in other parts of the world it's seen as normal.

When i fly back home from tj competely wore out and with sore junk lol i ain't gonna feel a damn bit ashamed lol!

The only scumbags are the pieces of shit who make the dumbass prostitution laws!

The puritanical attitudes towards sex in general and being a sex worker specifically, can do a job on the mind of some people. My ATF has been making a living through P4P for a decade. While going through drug rehab recently she worked with a female counselor who planted the idea in her mind that selling her body was akin to selling her soul and she could never find peace until she stopped seeing customers ( and even civy friends for awhile). Now she and I have been having sex once or twice a week for 9 years and we are very comfortable sharing anything with each other.
Last night she told me that while she understood that she was a sexual animal, she now realized that she had “ abused her sexuality to a point that made her cringe”. Her 12 step program of course requires turning to a “higher power” and in her case I’m afraid it’s a puritanical deity. Well time heals all wounds and wounds all heels, so I’ll just have to let time do some healing.

What's the difference between p4p and taking a civilian out on a date trying to get in her pants. The cost is cheaper just hitting the VIP with less effort.....

He sounds like a customer type who wanted a specific kind of fantasy, and she deprived him of it. She potentially could have had him as a returning customer more than once but she blew it in more ways than one. (Or at least tried to, lol)

But admittedly these kinds of customers are usually higher drama. I know I’ve complained about them before, but I admit that if I was more willing to do extras I’d probably be ignoring them.

> "and then something happened that changed everything, I accepted a sexual favor in the back room with one of the dancers. I couldn't look at myself in the mirror the same way afterward and I realized how low I had sunk."

My thought was that he was a conscientious objector to BJs and had a blowie foisted on him. I hear those can cause PTSD, man. It's like Reefer Madness for dicks!

This isn't what I think of as PL behavior. He sounds like a new-out-of-the-packaging beginner who hasn't figured out the basics of strip clubs.

Everyone goes through the newbie blues.

I had a guy ask me once if it was cheating if he was paying for it. I said fuck no, it was purely a financial transaction, and didn’t mean anything. He felt better.

This must be a case of first time jitters. It’s best to get past that shit quickly. Those right vs wrong emotions can really fuck with a pl’s mind.

Finishing yourself off in a gas station bathroom isn’t a good way to end your club trip.