I like to give oral as much as I like receiving it, but I can only go for about 10 minutes or so before my jaw and neck begin to ache. Am I doing it wrong? Are there certain techniques or exercises I can do so I can go longer when I’m DATY?
Thank you for your responses.
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All you need is some friction and that friction comes from your tongue sliding across her clit. You don't have to move your tongue the entire time; you can keep your tongue still and move your neck.
Whatever you do dont be the guy who changes up the technique every 30 seconds. Best move is to pick a pattern she likes and stick with it for as long as you can. You can always mix in fingering or FS if she allows but dont switch up the oral pattern. Its the same for women. The best head is from a girl who can take 10-12 minutes of one move until you explode. The girls who change it up every 30 seconds are amateurs.
Does suction have as much pleasure for her as for us guys?
@NJBalla - thanks for the tip. I'm that guy who changes every 30 seconds in hopes of offering a full buffet.
Can't believe I'm taking this thread seriously.
Neck pain? you could,
(1) have her sit on your face, although you might suffocate. (2) put a pillow under her hips to reduce stress on your cervical spine (3) kneel on side of bed and have her sit at edge.
If she's bucking to get away from your face, then you're probably doing something wrong; if she's applying more pressure, then you're probably doing something right.
You could always ask her what she likes -- but that would be just too simple.
Guys biggest problem is that they go too hard, too soon. If you start off slow and easy and slowly build up speed and pressure you should easily last way more than 10 minutes without cramping up.
Think of it this way... you’re not sucking on a Totsie Pop. Think of it as licking honey off of a butterfly’s wings. Delicate, soft, slow and precise.
Yeah that’s a bunch of bullshit, I think I read that on some erotica website once.
And since we're on the subject of female pleasuring I've some questions. Why do some women discharge a white milky liquid during sex? I saw it in porn and the first time yesterday in TJ.
And what does it mean when she begs me to cum? Is she tired of my mechanical thrusting?
When she begs you to cum means shes done and wants you to hurry up so she cause stop fucking
If this is just a matter of you getting tired, go into the 69 position and she doesn't have to give full attention to your cock. Put your head on a pillow and your neck will be perfectly relaxed. As far as your jaw, don't open your mouth all the way because you'll put too much stress on your TMJ - make sure your lips cover your teeth and use primarily your tongue. If she likes ass play, you can help her along by putting a finger in her asshole.
If this is about technique, ask her for direction and make sure you stay in tune with her physical responses. Girls like all sorts of different technique - if you find she's not ramping up her movement or telling you to keep doing what you're doing, then change it up and see what works. If you hit on something that works, breathe out of your nose and take very quick moments to swallow if you need to.
I usually push some fingers in it - spit on it - then say “You’re welcome” - it works every time!
I will ask “Did you cum for Daddy? Or do you want more?” - they love hearing that shit!
Lay the tip of your tongue gently on her clit and try to stay motionless for 30 seconds.
a. You can't do it. Your tongue will involuntarily move ever so slightly, driving her crazy.
b. Soon she will start gyrating her hips generating the motion and friction she ultimately desires.
Then. tongue-fuck her hole and let he tip of your nose gently stroke her clit. Great change of pace.
Nice technique pensionking - that’s great.
I may need to alter my technique next time I’m down there - lol!
She should be nice and wet by the time you start getting tired or sore. At that point work your fist in, up to your wrist, and let her grind on that.
@anislee if she's begging you to cum its because she's too tired, you are not giving her any pleasure, or in the case of a strip club she's worried her other fav will end up spending money on another girl. Either way id ask her directly instead of a message board lol.
It's in a brothel, she can't be tired, not at 1pm when I was her 1st. Although her moaning and begging seemed sincere, I banged her 40 mins anyways, love to shake her up by grabbing her shoulders or hair.
Thank you all for your recommendations. Much appreciated.
@ RandomMember
I typically will ask the girl what her preferences are, and try to deliver that. Still working on the delivery, obviously.
@ lopaw
Good point. I can be an impatient person and will Tornado Tongue® the vagina. Any links or videos to highlight your point?
@ Sueprstarslim and pensionking
Thank you for the specific pointers.
@ flagooner
Just tried what you recommended. My lawyer will be talking to you soon.
Always resist any temptation to increase the girl's responses by increasing the pressure. That leads no where good.
Usually girls are very responsive. Hands on her thighs, ass, tits. Go to FIV. If she is already loosened up, introducing your thumb and fingers in her crack will usually send the girl over the top right away.
Exercises? Practice makes perfect. Enjoy!
SJG