question 4 men
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Retired Queen Troll of TUSCL...who will succeed my reign?
say you're in a jacuzzi and you are only heterosexual. guy walks in, and you don't initiate convo with him. then girl walks in, and you initiate convo with her. why initiate convo with the girl but not the dude, knowing that you would not fuck either of them seconds before you the time you initiate the convo?
In other words, even if you know you wouldn't fuck the girl to the same degree you would not fuck the dude, does conversing with the female as opposed to the male make for a "more leisurely time pass" ?
In other words, even if you know you wouldn't fuck the girl to the same degree you would not fuck the dude, does conversing with the female as opposed to the male make for a "more leisurely time pass" ?
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Looking at a hot woman to pass the time is always preferred over looking at a dude or a woman not that attractive. Guys eat up eye candy.
OMG understand time lag. Thx.
OMG I'm just responding exactly as you are.
Repeating oneself and miscommunication is a given over the internet.
And you don't help your cause with your shitty grammar and spelling. OMG you type so sloppy it is obvious you have regular communication issues.
So - I wouldn’t approach the situation in the same way.
If I was 1:1 with a dude I didn't know I would likely not stay long even if we had convo. I'm not into hanging in a hot tub 1:1 wwithan unknown dude long. A woman coming along would actually make it more comfortable for me to stay. Unless the dude is a buddy it's just not my thing to be in a jacuzzi with other dudes.
-@cash OK. seems like everyone would talk to both the guy and girl..but i hope future answers will keep in mind that you are in hot tub with ur other male friend whom u already conversing with , which you (@ cash) . seem to have kept in mind.
makes sense... sir lap.
Also, it could be the kind of thing where nothing would happen with either one of them individually, but the prospect of two guys at once was why she went over... and it would make it awkward if the guys hadn't been talking to each other beforehand. She might even feel the need to come up with hypothetical scenarios with a labyrinthine set of assumptions and clarifications to try to process her feelings about the experience.
I remember two times my wife and I were on vacation in a hotel jacuzzi. One time we were joined by a church group of 16-18 year old high school girls and there was a bus load of them.
At least 10 in the jacuzzi with us and twenty in the pool. They had bikinis, onesies, and shorts+tee shirts on. Needless to say I didn't mind staying at all. My wife let us stay for a while but then she wanted to leave. LOL I did begrudgingly.
The other time it was half a dozen old Japanese men. And we were almost shoulder to shoulder with them. LMAO I said we need to leave in less than a minute.
Ten words in, and you've already excluded 90% of tuscl
LOL if he was hetero he was 99% enjoying that "friendly" convo because of your eye candy. Seriously if you have the body of a stripper and he is hetero he's gonna have some attraction.
But you're kidding yourself if you think a hetero guy isn't "checking you out" in the back of his mind. 99% of hetero guys always check out a potentially hot woman regardless of how the conversation goes.
I'm trying to give you a here's man's perspective. He can have an intellectual and non sexual conversation but still register and appreciate something attractive in a woman.
This isn't contradicting anything you are saying.
And no problem and you're welcome.
Fuck that, I'm definitely boning both of them
@sirL ok, but just so u know, how a male looks will also influence how a girl with fully functioning heterosexual pussy interacts with male as well..almost to same extent. attraction is fundamental to humans , hence influences how we ALL act, and although men may be more biologically primed to have sex, this is a different issue than how attraction influences conversing with opposite sex, for which it can be argued that it (attraction) influences behavior of both sexes towards each other to same, or at least similar, extent.
But then earlier you continued to argue with me by giving various weak reasons why it wasn't anything influenced by your looks.
You can't make both of these arguments without contradicting yourself.
And I never said it was only about your looks but yet you imply that was my train of thought.
And then you accuse me of being the one that is being difficult to converse with.
Your dedication to detail and research is admirable.