question 4 men

let's say that when u see the girl at the pool, you don't think she is hot but you do not think she is ugly...

.omg this has nothing to do with girls u think are hot lol. i said if she u don't think she is hot NOR do you think she is ugly.

bc it is obvious if u think she is hot you will talk to her,so im not asking about that. thx

You've already decided that we aren't talking the guy, why?

dude, stop being a whiny brat. i literally posted "let's say that when u see the girl at the pool, you don't think she is hot but you do not think she is ugly..." right under my post, and hence this was clarified before you commented. you just misread or did not see this.

^in which case i realize that happens sometimes(we all misread etc) so i could have been more patient but i mean my reaction is at least understandable as this is most certainly not the first time i have had to repeat myself.

no you are not. i said omg once, you have said it many times.

i try to be friendly to all and break the ice.

OMG.

and okay sorry for that then ..just now understood what u meant since i was thinking of smthng else when i read ur initial reply

alright so if any one else would like to fulfill the purpose of this post by having it answered with a legitimate response that would be much appreciated. or you can just PM me. thanks :)

and no sir dance lot, although repeating oneself might be expected, it certainly is not to the extent that i have to do on here because my words are either manipulated or consciously ignored. if you don't think that the reason i have repeated myself in the past was due to the irresponsible faults of others, then we will have to irrevocably agree to disagree.

If I know sex isn't going to be an option I'm ignoring everyone equally

@sir dance what if u were in the hot tub with ur male friend and where already talking? although yall chose to welcome the female into convo, would you have chosen to welcome the single dude by himself as well? just asking bc i know when you are with friends and already talking sometimes that alters things.

I would talk to both the guy and the girl. It appears that I don’t know either one - and it’s best to be friendly to everyone.

So - I wouldn’t approach the situation in the same way.

btw i dont think i am hot nor ugly as described above..i feel beautiful every time i look in the mirror...i said what i said in original post just bc i looked like not myself and shit tht day

@ sir dance i have already clarified that was partially due to the fact that i didn't understand what u said first time, and given that such a thing is a frequent and a casual mistake made on internet, it is petty of you to make a big deal out of as you are doing now. it is also petty of you to mimick me saying OMG when such thing was not a legitimate mimick to begin with given that you continuously chose to use the phrase omg whereas i only used it once. that is all i will say about this as that is all that is necessary.

-@cash OK. seems like everyone would talk to both the guy and girl..but i hope future answers will keep in mind that you are in hot tub with ur other male friend whom u already conversing with , which you (@ cash) . seem to have kept in mind.

makes sense.

dang time delay. makes sense... sir lap.

^right..so when i said u are with dude(this is also to clear things up if any one else wants to answer) ...i meant u are already in tub with dude you are friends with. so i was asking if a single guy/girl joins you and ur dude friend. him and I got into debate and he really liked our convo so he stayed 2 hours to talk and finish our debate after his friend left lol. but yeah.

this made me think of that one vine with the “two dudes chillin in a hot tub 5 feet apart cuz they’re not gay”

it makes more sense to say "attractive based on how i looked that day" cuz i am beautiful . but that day i was not lol. ..and idk. i was kind of distracted that day and tried to show that i didn't want to talk more than was necessary. so he never flirted with me .and whenever he was like "we are more alike than different..this is where we agree on" I totally disagreed bc i reminded him our disagreements were greater than our similarities..he didn't flirt with me but he seemed empathetic, he liked speaking to me, and despite having polar opposite views, he tried to understand my reasoning. But this was because he was very dedicated to persuade me because we are both ideologically passionate. so i mean idk.

This is why you're better off just talking to the dude. Otherwise, any girl who later walks up is going to agonize about how you might have only talked to her on the off chance of fucking her even though you didn't really find her attractive.

Also, it could be the kind of thing where nothing would happen with either one of them individually, but the prospect of two guys at once was why she went over... and it would make it awkward if the guys hadn't been talking to each other beforehand. She might even feel the need to come up with hypothetical scenarios with a labyrinthine set of assumptions and clarifications to try to process her feelings about the experience.

^ he just liked talking to me, i guess we could be friends. he did not flirt.

-->"say you're in a jacuzzi and you are only heterosexual"

Ten words in, and you've already excluded 90% of tuscl

@sir dance lot he did not flirt with me at all lol..and i dont felt like he "checked me out" our convo was very much and solely ideologically driven. i think 99 % is a stretch bc i think it is VERY possible to meet someone of the opposite sex with whom you can have a GREAT convo with ..like cmon now that is possible.

I honestly dk If he checked me out or not. he mentioned he had a girlfriend to me.(not that that would imply he did not check me out). and even if he did check me out..idk if that is relevant, because i was moreso asking if the potential attraction was one of many reasons as to why we conversed rather than if he actually did or not.

and uh, he never saw my ass. we were IN the pool the whole time, and he continued to stay IN it and talk to me after his friend left a long time ago..he literally was abt to leave bc he said anyway, all i wanted to do was not necessarily change ur views but make u think abt things which it seems like i did and was abt to leave..then i showed him how this was not the case and totally undermined this point..so he continued to stay for an hour and we could have talked more but i had to go.

plus i wasnt wearing a binkini..i just came from class in t shirt and jeans with my hair open and everywhere

Stupid stupid stupid

hmmm.

^theres no mans perspective here this dumbass post is just trolling.

not that this is big deal but to avoid being misinterpreted, my claims did not imply that i assumed checking out and having convo as mutually exclusive events, i am well aware that they can be mutually inclusive. Rather, i was merely contemplating over whether or not me being female/my looks (or lack thereof that particular day to be honest) made a difference in him continuing to have convo for as long as he did with me, or initiating convo.

Why would sex with her be out of the question. We've all had sex with ladies we don't brag about.

and @sirdancealot thanks for answering these questions...despite how annoying ur approach may SOMETIMES be lol

^^you also did not address my most recent comment/clarification beginning with "not that this is a big deal.." it is ok if you don't have response for this comment of mine, but i just pointed it out (in case u have response 4 it) since it was meant to amicably point out something that you may have overlooked in your comment before that lol

..........................lol ok- i know that not every comment i post merits response, which is precisely why that is the only comment i have ever "ensured " that there was no response to be made/hinting a reply at ONLY IF there was one at all. cool. :)

@Nicole. What is it with your avatar? Why would you edit the pic to put a puppy nose and ears on?

Flagooner you must not follow many strippers on social media lol.. it’s a Snapchat filter. I don’t get it either.

-->"why initiate convo with the girl but not the dude, knowing that you would not fuck either of them seconds before you the time you initiate the convo? "

Fuck that, I'm definitely boning both of them

@zoe u will have to define filter for him since he prob doesnt know what that is ..he was rude to me so i am not responding to him at all sooo if u dont he will b out of luck lol

@sirL ok, but just so u know, how a male looks will also influence how a girl with fully functioning heterosexual pussy interacts with male as well..almost to same extent. attraction is fundamental to humans , hence influences how we ALL act, and although men may be more biologically primed to have sex, this is a different issue than how attraction influences conversing with opposite sex, for which it can be argued that it (attraction) influences behavior of both sexes towards each other to same, or at least similar, extent.

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If Nicole is just a troll she’s doing a great job. Is she isn’t a troll, she the typical stupid stripper.

all i can say is that i am intrigued by nicole. I would like to meet her face to face. then consider the possibilities.

OMG.

that's the thing, i didn't know. although it is a trivial matter, im still just curious bc he was cute and our debate lit me up. i mentioned him staying long to show the substance of our convo, bc i said that to point out one reason why he continued to stay was because he was so dedicated to changing the way i thought to a certain extent. so i mentioned this bc i thought it was something to consider before one would automatically say "it was bc of your looks" , since him staying for reason i just pointed out would hint otherwise. this does not mean that i knew why he stayed as i still don't know what he thinks, but if i want an objective answer, i need to address any variables (proof of staying bc our convo was so engaging) which may result in the alteration of an answer

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Shit talk

You still suck at research.

I'm still thinking about a time long ago when I was sitting in a hot tub overlooking a swimming pool and several females stepped in filling it up and I was the only guy. Then one guy stepped into the swimming pool and a female said if he accidentally took it all off she wouldn't look away. Im usually quiet in hot tubs surrounded by strangers that I'm not expecting anything from.

@ Nicole1994

Your dedication to detail and research is admirable.