Is a thought I've had occur a few times recently.
Each time, a variable number of days go by, my balls fill up, and then I think "well, I can afford to...." and the next thing I know I'm either headed to the club or texting a fav to meet up.
Anyone else think they're done, for whatever reason, then realize later that no, not done.
I have often said I'm done. It lasts as long as a week.
IME, moving your place of residence to a location that is far from the clubs cuts down on club-going, considerably. But I guess most people can’t just up and move.
I guess the old adage "too much of anything is a bad thing", applies to strip clubbing.
Over the years my biggest issue was feeling concerned about the amount of $$$ I was spending and that used to be my main motivation for wanting to quit but the desire to go was stronger - but in the last couple of years I've SCed very regularly and recently had gotten to the point that I was kinda going just to go and it felt like the same-ole same-ole and it wasn't/hasn't-been doing much for me - lately my SCing had been going not so much bc I wanted to or needed to, but going bc I could and it had mostly lost its luster - I'm currently sorta in standby mode and trying not to go unless I really have a strong desire to go vs going just bc I can and maybe don't have anything better to do.
Pussy is life. If you give it up you die.
js69. yes.
I’ve never said “I’m done,” but like others, I’ve taken breaks of varying length for varying reasons. I can’t recall an instance where a break I took was because of disillusionment or something with clubs. They were all because I had something else going on.
I said I was done last year but I realized I was unhappy with the girl not my lifestyle. Fount a new one at Bottoms up under Baltimore street, very pleased with my new broad
I’ve taken breaks over the years for numerous reasons, sometimes thinking I was done. Now I don’t think of breaks in that way I’d an expected permanency or duration. I just take a break when I feel that clubs aren’t doing it for me or I’m yptoo busy with other stuff. Maybe someday after a break, I’ll never go back but I don’t really concern myself with that question because one never knows.
"Even if you ruin an appetite, there's another appetite coming right behind it."
We have an "appetite" that we've learned to satiate with clubbing. You'll never quit until you can find an alternative appetite suppressor.
We are all motivated by something.
I've never said to myself "That's it. I'm done forever." But, when I've taken open-ended breaks for a variety of reasons. Some have lasted weeks; others for months. It's not impossible that I'll take a break that never ends at some point.