I'm done with this

11 comments

• Call.Me.Ishmael

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  6 years ago

  I've never said to myself "That's it. I'm done forever." But, when I've taken open-ended breaks for a variety of reasons. Some have lasted weeks; others for months. It's not impossible that I'll take a break that never ends at some point.
• jackslash

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  6 years ago

  I have often said I'm done. It lasts as long as a week.
• FTS

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  6 years ago

  IME, moving your place of residence to a location that is far from the clubs cuts down on club-going, considerably. But I guess most people can’t just up and move.
• Papi_Chulo

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  6 years ago

  I guess the old adage "too much of anything is a bad thing", applies to strip clubbing. Over the years my biggest issue was feeling concerned about the amount of $$$ I was spending and that used to be my main motivation for wanting to quit but the desire to go was stronger - but in the last couple of years I've SCed very regularly and recently had gotten to the point that I was kinda going just to go and it felt like the same-ole same-ole and it wasn't/hasn't-been doing much for me - lately my SCing had been going not so much bc I wanted to or needed to, but going bc I could and it had mostly lost its luster - I'm currently sorta in standby mode and trying not to go unless I really have a strong desire to go vs going just bc I can and maybe don't have anything better to do.
• JohnSmith69

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  6 years ago

  Pussy is life. If you give it up you die.
• Jascoi

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  6 years ago

  js69. yes.
• georgmicrodong

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  6 years ago

  I’ve never said “I’m done,” but like others, I’ve taken breaks of varying length for varying reasons. I can’t recall an instance where a break I took was because of disillusionment or something with clubs. They were all because I had something else going on.
• ToyChaser

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  6 years ago

  I said I was done last year but I realized I was unhappy with the girl not my lifestyle. Fount a new one at Bottoms up under Baltimore street, very pleased with my new broad
• Huntsman

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  6 years ago

  I’ve taken breaks over the years for numerous reasons, sometimes thinking I was done. Now I don’t think of breaks in that way I’d an expected permanency or duration. I just take a break when I feel that clubs aren’t doing it for me or I’m yptoo busy with other stuff. Maybe someday after a break, I’ll never go back but I don’t really concern myself with that question because one never knows.
• Liwet

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  6 years ago

  "Even if you ruin an appetite, there's another appetite coming right behind it." [view link] We have an "appetite" that we've learned to satiate with clubbing. You'll never quit until you can find an alternative appetite suppressor.
• judyjudy

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  6 years ago

  We are all motivated by something.