Questioning Tijuana stripper motives to OTC or request my phone number
Tits510
California
Hey guys, after exchanging numbers with someone, I felt uncomfortable. In general... Am I being too cynical? Am I missing something? I love the Tijuana scene and will keep going back.
I kept thinking, what’s the angle she’s working? Why does she REALLY want my number?
Though it hasn’t happened yet, lets say I get an OTC request... Why would she want to hang outside the club with someone who’s only a walking ATM?
I’ve read stories about Thailand bar girls stringing dozens of men along, constantly requesting money, making each guy think he’s special. I’ve also read stories about men who got exploited by Nevada’s Mustang Ranch girls. As in being asked to help with moves, etc.
I kept thinking, what’s the angle she’s working? Why does she REALLY want my number?
Though it hasn’t happened yet, lets say I get an OTC request... Why would she want to hang outside the club with someone who’s only a walking ATM?
I’ve read stories about Thailand bar girls stringing dozens of men along, constantly requesting money, making each guy think he’s special. I’ve also read stories about men who got exploited by Nevada’s Mustang Ranch girls. As in being asked to help with moves, etc.
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There is nothing wrong with OTC but, take control of the situation... Did you take control of the VIP, Did you ask for her number. Most girls who give you their numbers will become your "regulars" if you decide to make them that.
That girl and I only exchanged a few text messages and then I dropped it.
Thanks for the info.
On the bad side hopefully she doesn’t send a txt out like Warrior mentioned, at 3am on a Saturday night because I’ve had that too. Luckily now we have nice things like Google numbers that you should give out instead of your real number.
I currently have 0 current phone numbers in my real phone number contact list and the ones that are old have been blocked.
The fact that you phrased this in such a deprecating way means you're probably best not to partake. Your relationship is service provider and customer. Why in the world wouldn't a service provider want to make more money from her customer? Especially in an environment where management doesn't take a cut? And exact what business person in the world doesn't want their customers to have their phone numbers, in order to arrange meetings, do marketing outreach, etc? The only way this is even remotely confusing is if you haven't emotionally made the separation between provider/customer and girlfriend/boyfriend, right?
-->"I’ve read stories about Thailand bar girls stringing dozens of men along, constantly requesting money, making each guy think he’s special. I’ve also read stories about men who got exploited by Nevada’s Mustang Ranch girls. As in being asked to help with moves, etc."
I don't see how any service provider can string me along, given that I'm only giving her money if we have sex. If you know in advance you're vulnerable to this type of manipulation, best to be ultra cautious.
No criticism here, many of us have made these types of mistakes -- once. I certainly have. I figure if you don't learn from the first time, to some extent you deserve what's coming next
I’m sure a lot of guys out there can be easily taken. Especially single nerdy dudes.
She wants your number so she can message you when it’s slow. This is how she will try to generate more cash flow - on bad nights.
If you’ve already fucked her - and you didn’t seem weak - then you should make sure she will fuck you if you come to see her again.
Remember - she will only string you along as far as you let her. If she already thinks you are weak (or a pushover) - it’s impossible to change it now. You go to see her again - and she doesn’t fuck you - never go back again.
Point well taken. Precisely why I wrote this post. My cynicsm is present because I’ve read about how strippers string men along. I’m new here and well aware that new ppl are vulnerable. I am presuming you’ve had decades of experience.
Yeah guys who lose sight of their place get their hearts seriously broken.
Yes we did fuck. I will keep your advice in mind about making sure we fuck each time we meet.
Yeah those situations are sad, like the guy who falls in love when the stripper rubs his stiffy.
In my case, I’m well aware it’s an all business attempt to entice a fantasy. What I need to work on is being more assertive when someone tries to have me prepay, ask me for more than agreed upon, etc.
I’ve read hella stuff on here. The hard part is remembering and applying it all in real life, when I’m on the spot and gotta think on my feet.
I’m sure you can find love with a stripper, but I leave that to the pros.
Thanks.