For Many Men Seeing a Sex Worker Isn’t About Sex - It’s About Therapy

People always talk about this. In Australia the women call it "emotional work".

For myself, I am opposed to any and all psychotherapy. But yes, guys need to talk to someone sometimes. But better to just have sex with the girl. Some talking will be there, like for an MSOG or TLN session.

In the order I am building, there will be things very different from psychotherapy to take its place. Psychotherapy is derived from religious confession. It is an Uncle Tom approach to life's injustices. Most of the time it is just more abuse being heaped upon survivors. Those who do therapy on children are usually hired accomplice child abusers, and as they violate mandatory reporting they are committing both state and federal felonies.

SJG

I think the article goes way overboard but I also think there are more emotional components to strip clubs and escorts than we readily admit to ourselves. The article seems to try to compress it into a “need to be understood” box and I think it misses the mark. However, if there wasn’t some kind of emotional high from all our efforts, we could save ourselves a lot of time and money by just staying home and jacking off.

Like most voluntary human activities, our motivations and are perceived benefits are sometimes complex and will vary from person to person and time to time. At the end of the day, I don’t think it’s necessary to decipher either our sex drives or what drives our emotional needs. They’ll both still be there.

^^^^^ Huntsman +5

SJG

I had an extra “are” in there. Sorry.

Psyochtherapy is a big enough mind fuck already. Don't need to waste time and money spent with beautiful hookers to get even more of it.

Seriously, you learn how to talk to the women, you can really make a big impression on them.

SJG

San Jose Guy says: “For myself, I am opposed to any and all psychotherapy.”

You sure as fuck could use some dildo.

^ are you calling him a dildo or saying he could use some dildo?

Bottom line, who cares what each individual's true motivation is? Man or woman customer doesn't matter. We all have needs and like Huntsman said, it's way more complex than any one silly article could ever embrace.

We just want pussy.
Why do people try to overthink everything??

I've heard that busting a nut helps to prevent prostate cancer. So I think it is good therapy.

the blind leading the blind if you're looking for therapy in a SC.

^^ this. Strippers may be better for this than an actual “psychotherapist” though.