Don't go away mad, just go away !

Tell her that you're mad at your buddy's obnoxious dachshund. All girls love dachshunds so that will turn them off.

Next time you see them wear this t-shirt:

Then you can inform them that you've decided that doxies are brilliant after all! They'll fall in love with you and all will be right with the world.

Dachshund system rocks!

This shirt also works for part 2 of my plan:

In fact, I even own the "stubborn dachshund tricks" t-shirt!

I don't have anything creative. I'll usually just go with "I'm having a mellow, hanging-out night." Typically, anything you say that isn't "Yes, I'd love to empty my wallet into your hands", they recognize as an attempt to move them along.

For the most part, they are as wise to our games as we are to theirs.

I've wondered about a more honest approach along the lines of "I promise that I'll spend money on you another time, but I'm in the mood for something different. Any recommendations?"

My gut is that it would only produce a good result perhaps 1 out of 20 times (optimistically...). The vast majority of dancers would (A) remain pissed and/or (B) never recommend a dancer who threatens their income.

But I've wondered, nonetheless.

Tell her your recuperating from VD that should work :)

I say, "I want you to suck my dick for $50." But don't try this at Bogart's.

I don't have any creative or witty answers, but I do have success with being straightforward. An "I'm looking to mix it up a bit today, maybe we can spend some time together next time I'm here" usually has the desired effect.

I also have found that I avoid the situation mostly by texting before I come in when I want to see a particular girl. So she's used to me texting first to make an appointment and assumes if I'm there without an appointment I'm not there to see her. I suppose the fact that I tend to gravitate towards girls who operate on the appointment model might have something to do with it too, since they've probably got an appointment with someone else anyway.

I think you are a little late asking for this advice.

How did you handle it, or are you still stammering over what to say while waiting for a good response?

I think Dolfan’s line is about the best way to go.

We don’t control the emotional reactions of others so, basically, don’t be an asshole about it and you’ll probably be ok. No guarantees how the strippers will react but there never are any assurances about anything anyway.

just tell her I want some strange......the first time I ever heard "can I get some strange" was from a dancer lol

As Ishmael mentioned, these girls know the deal and they know PLs like to play the field - as others posted, best to just be straightforward but polite and just tell them you wanna try some other dancers today - in my case if they persist I tell them I don't like getting with the same girls every time I come to the club - they usually understand my point and they're usually happy to take my $$$ on subsequent visits although sometimes they will stay away from me on a subsequent visit thinking I still don't wanna get with them and I'll have to make the first move but it usually works itself out - you don't wanna set a bad precedent of always saying yes when you really don't want to b/c then you're stuck and your visits shouldn't be about feeling stuck.

I got lucky. One girl was occupied by someone else and didn't see me. The other saw me as I was walking out of VIP. It was easy then as I just said " Oh, I wish I would have seen you earlier, gotta go. "

I use the old standard - “Sorry. I’m tapped out - no cash left.”

^ I'll have to try this one but once a dancer sees you spending on another one, she might avoid you on future visits

jackslash, why not ask. At Bogart's they won't laugh as hard and as long as across the street at The Flight Club.

Lolruned - I’ve found most dancers will come over on future visits - if you let them know you are ready to spend on them.