The pussy is great but how much SS are you willing to put up with to get it? Last week a stripper that has been giving me UHM dances for quite awhile and has a smoking hot body told me that she had been kicked out of her new apartment for lack of money and had slept in her car for the last 2 nights. She asked if I had a GF and if she could move in with me. I told her no GF and changed the subject. Same dancer told me awhile back that she wanted me to cum inside her pussy and make her pregnant. She has also claimed that she worked as a $1,000/night escort but that she doesn't do extras in VIP. I only know one guy that has done VIP with her and he said she would only do CBJ. So far she has not come out and asked me to do VIP with her but constantly tells me what she would do to me in private including OTC.
I had to stop her at 2 dances yesterday. I couldn't stand the SS any longer.
I can roll with a lot but there are certain things that will eventually make the choice to walk easy. ---typically for me it has something to do with wasting my time.
these girls must have awful money management skills. I’d imagine many of the dancers at Follies make lots of money. Follies dancers are so naughty. Man I miss Follies
In hindsight I tolerated way too much SS from my xATF. I would say that I have very little SS tolerance anymore, but don't have a active CF thing going to really know.
My fave doesn't give me SS, and one of the reasons she's the fave. But otherwise if I was a regular with someone, it'd depend on what the SS is. I have low tolerance for desperate for the desperate for money types, so I'd drop the "got kicked out, need money for rent, etc" hustle. Too much of a downer. Same thing with they needy type, I enjoy my freedom.
Upbeat, positive outlook and freedom are the two things I'm looking for the most. Other BS, SS I can work around and as long as I can have fun with I, I can roll with.
@Shadowcat I wrote about one a while back that told me she wanted me to give her a baby, for real, I was gentle with her but I never had sex with her again. I’ve heard too many horror stories to want to have a baby with a stripper and I’m not about to let one of these woman make me their exit strategy. I’d be very careful if I were you.
twentyfive - Not to worry. I know from talking to other dancers and TUSCL members that know her, that she is all talk. I guess she thinks a lot of customers get excited by dirty talk. It's turning me off.
Most SS rolls off my back these days - I kinda expect it - sorta like a dog liking t:o chase cars, it's what they do - actions speak louder than words - as long as they provide to my expectations I will pretty much just ignore the SS - if they give me what I need I give them what they need - if they don't provide what I need I may give them a 2nd perhaps 3rd chance but will move on after that.
It rarely works out well when we let a dancer string us along, we have the $$$ we should call the shots, o/w we often end up getting played
Did her car break down too? Facing repossession on that 500 (or more) a month sports car? Ah poor pretty dancer. I feel so bad for her, I'll probably just start crying right now. Nope, I don't put up with it in other words.
The longer I’ve clubbed, the less attention I pay to the stripper shit. It took me a while to realize this but no one is making me go to a club and it’s my choice how I spend my money. I admit to it taking a while for me to realize I hadn’t gone back to junior high just because I walked into a club. These days, the stripper shit either mildly amuses me or mildly annoys me, depending on my mood. But I try not to let it interfere with my time at a club. If it seems to be interfering with my enjoyment of a club, I move on.
I’m fine with SS in clubs. Clubs are a controlled environment - and the SS can flow like a waterfall. I’ll half listen as I enjoy a beer and hot girls.
When it occurs otc - I will classify the dancer as either flaky or uber-flaky - and I won’t expect her to show for any otc.
If a dancer makes money a major issue - I’ll expect her to be open to everything sexually. If she’s not doing everything I want sexually - then it’s a lie. The more money issues - the hungrier the stripper should be...
If the dancer is living out of her car - and she’s working nightly in the club - then she is horrible with money - and probably has a drug problem. So she should be a full blown extras whore.
I have heard so much SS over the years that it barely registers anymore. However, there is a point at which it just gets so over the top that it does become a turnoff. If I was in shadow's shoes, I would have walked too. Not only because the SS was way too much, but also because she smells like a high octane drama queen with "future trouble" written all over her.
Cashman makes a good point about whether it is in the club or outside the club. I would add that it matters more if It’s in a paying situation of just sitting at the bar while hearing it.
Huntsman - if I go to a club after I’ve gotten a text a certain dancer is eager to earn - and she is either busy or a no show - it can be easy to regroup and find another girl.
If a dancer flakes otc - it’s a challenge to find a local whore of similar quality to fuck. Some hotels frown on horny guys approaching girls in the lobby with their pants around their ankles - lol!
I usually have a low tolerance once its to the point of asking for money outside of for services rendered. I'll listen to their "problems" and offer my 2 cents if they wish, but if they use said problems to solicit a larger tip or money they haven't really earned, I usually will remind her I'm only interested in providing a reasonable fee once a deed is done. If they persist at pushing that envelope after that, I move on.
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I can put up with a lot, but if I heard this, I would never speak to her again.
Upbeat, positive outlook and freedom are the two things I'm looking for the most. Other BS, SS I can work around and as long as I can have fun with I, I can roll with.
It rarely works out well when we let a dancer string us along, we have the $$$ we should call the shots, o/w we often end up getting played
When it occurs otc - I will classify the dancer as either flaky or uber-flaky - and I won’t expect her to show for any otc.
If a dancer makes money a major issue - I’ll expect her to be open to everything sexually. If she’s not doing everything I want sexually - then it’s a lie. The more money issues - the hungrier the stripper should be...
If the dancer is living out of her car - and she’s working nightly in the club - then she is horrible with money - and probably has a drug problem. So she should be a full blown extras whore.
If a dancer flakes otc - it’s a challenge to find a local whore of similar quality to fuck. Some hotels frown on horny guys approaching girls in the lobby with their pants around their ankles - lol!
But the distinction you make about the setting is a very food one, IMO.