Had 2 girls I wanted to try to meet OTC socially, both hot as they come, and got 1 dance with each (I know, too little). 1 was friendly and charged the house rate. Other was bitchy, had her own higher rate that she didn't mention until we were at the dance area, and dug for tips.
2nd visit a week later, I tipped the friendly one on stage and waited for her to drop by.
Wasn't sure if she remembered me but this time, she mentioned her supposed real name, which was easier to say than the stage name. I asked what she was like in VIP and she redirected to offer a multi-dance special normally offered intermittently by the house.
[Question: some girls try to push VIP upon first meeting, some never mention it, this one seemed to be pacing it or avoid it altogether. Do some just don't like VIP?]
Dances were vanilla, some fluffy banter and close proximity eye contact.
When the convo veered toward where we lived, I mentioned I was staying at a long term airbnb nearby (walking distance) with a nice vista point. Said she could stop by to take a look and wouldn't take much of a detour from going to work. End of the session, I asked for contact info. Moment of truth, she says "uhhhhh.... ok", then explains she doesn't text often and not to get mad if she takes a long time to reply, b/c other guys have gotten mad about that. Just prepping me not to expect a response.
I won't be going back anytime soon as this was an experiment. It was a long shot this early but my reference point was the local escort pricing and it didn't make cents to go down a rabbit hole with the wallet despite the long game having potential.
Anyway, just wanted to experiment befriending them as vanilla dances in general are meh. Would like to hear your stories of OTC (not necessarily for extras) within a few visits.
PS - SJG: I tried front room makeout but was shot down. Still working on my approach to that.
For clarification, invited her to see the public viewpoint, not into my place.