How important is Kissing to you ?

34 comments

• Darkblue999

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  6 years ago

  Kissing or you sucking the tits makes your LDK easilyy in 2 to 3 songs If you are not kissing or touching and squeezing the tits and she just mechanically grinds it will take many songs to LDK. When you were young you kissed for hours but you didn't LDK? I was virgin until 30. Never kissed until 30. So I have those dreams of kissing ,hugging,cuddling young 20 something girls.
• BrotherFogHorn

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  6 years ago

  It os very important for you to kiss my ass
• Mate27

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  6 years ago

  ^^^ lol! Preach, Brother!!
• shailynn

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  6 years ago

  Juice lost his virginity at age 9, he just can’t remember if it was to a woman or a man. Lil Fishsticks is now 40 and he’s still waiting for his big day to happen.
• houjack

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  6 years ago

  Not that important to me, the groping of tits and ass is mandatory though. Also, depends on the girl, I don't have the desire to kiss most of them. Finding a girl I want to kiss is rare, of those, finding one that's up for it is also rare. So it's quite a rare experience for me. When I'm up for it and she reciprocates, then yes, it definitely helps with the enjoyment of the whole experience and the LDK.
• Darkblue999

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  6 years ago

  Yes..dancers rarely kiss on the lips.
• georgmicrodong

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  6 years ago

  In a private hotel room, with a freshly showered and mouthwashed girl, it’s very important. Abso-fucking-lutely necessary, in fact. In a club, with a girl who’s probably sucked a half dozen dicks before mine, not so much. Abso-fucking-lutely off limits, in fact.
• Subraman

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  6 years ago

  Love kissing, but like george, I keep it off-limits (or try to) in extras clubs. Since I rarely go to extras clubs, this is an easy rule for me to follow; probably way harder for you guys who are lucky enough to have good extras clubs around, but that's not a bad problem to have. Even in non-extras clubs, with exceptions for CFs, I keep it to LK rather than DFK. LK gives most of the thrill and illusion of intimacy, without the actual spit swapping
• Jascoi

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  6 years ago

  kisses are nice butt not a requirement with me. after all i am 68.
• Jascoi

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  6 years ago

  in this discussion my definition of kisses are lips to lips. body kisses are delightful normal contact in my usual times with a girl. ;)
• shadowcat

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  6 years ago

  When I do VIP with a stripper, I want the GFE and a big part of that is kissing. Especially DFK. So on my first time with a dancer new to me and contemplating a VIP, I ask up front about kissing. A no is usually a deal breaker. I also make sure that I am her first VIP of the day. I've had some dancers tell me they brush between VIPs but I'm not taking their word for it. :)
• theDirkDiggler

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  6 years ago

  Man that would suck if a hot stripper didn't allow me to use my lips (as well as mouth and tongue) anywhere on her body. Kills the "fantasy" right away and makes the experience feel very transactional as well as being frustrating. One and done it is, even at a non extras club. Love kissing the neck, nipples, stomach, inner thighs, all that. I'll literally kiss a dancer's ass if she lets me. What do you call that little hollow right right at the base of a woman's neck between her collar bones? Reference to "The English Patient".
• Papi_Chulo

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  6 years ago

  I like-it but it's not a requirement for me - plus I'm not too gung-ho about kissing sex-workers - IME most dancers do not like-it, some may give pecks on the lips but IME most do not like to kiss - since it's something they are not comfortable with, and neither am I to a certain-extent, it's not often on my when it comes to SCing - if I was into faves and/or OTCing it'd probably be something I'd want or expect more.
• Cashman1234

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  6 years ago

  I’m somewhat indifferent to itc kissing. It depends on the dancer. Some dancers mouths aren’t as kissable as others. I had a fave who was an incredible kisser - and it definitely added to the sensual experience. My atf was a great kisser too - and her body was excellent too - so her dances were amazing! However, I don’t look to kiss all dancers. If there’s a hint of cigarette breath - I’m out. I recently had a dancer lean in - while stroking my cock - and start whispering very filthy things in my ear. That was very arousing. I didn’t expect it to work so well - but it was great!
• warhawks

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  6 years ago

  I like it. Adds to the experience. But many dancers consider it “too intimate.” (But fucking and sucking isn’t. Go figure...) Doesn’t happen very often ITC. But does once in a while. I don’t object if they want to.
• PeterEaster

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  6 years ago

  Kissing, yes, quite important. Ranks right up there with getting walked to the door afterwards. ;-)
• BurlingtonHoFactory

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  6 years ago

  If she's attractive then I'll want to kiss her. And if she's not attractive, then I wouldn't want her on my lap to begin with. Luckily, most dancers seem eager to kiss me. Not because I'm a stud - it's probably because I'm 36 years old. When I'm 80, things will likely be very different. But yes, it's important to me. I wouldn't be a repeat customer with someone who doesn't kiss. And I don't worry too much about whether she's sucked a lot of dicks that day either. After all, a girl who sucks a multitude of dicks probably doesn't care much about her dental hygiene to begin with, so it wouldn't matter if you're her first customer or her last. You just have to sort of go with it.
• san_jose_guy

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  6 years ago

  The place to find out if the girl is going to open up to you is not the dance booth or the VIP room. It is the front room. There you can feed her money and get to know her, but neither party has committed to any fixed length of time or amount of money. Best if you select the girl and approach her yourself. Select the one you would like to be waking up in the mornings with. Let the front room makeout session ensue, then when it is time for your own pants to come down, you invite her to the back room. Then take her home with you can continue seeing her regularly. SJG
• PeterEaster

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  6 years ago

  "a girl who sucks a multitude of dicks probably doesn't care much about her dental hygiene to begin with" Lucky for me, I know my fav sees her dentist regularly.
• JAprufrock

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  6 years ago

  I don’t have a lot of exoerience with strippers other than by two visits to Hong Kong in TJ. A little bit of kissing on lips enhanced the exoerience. I didn’t care how many cocks they had sucked that night. In general, I love DFK. Don’t get the opportunity to do it much at age 53. My first DFK kissing was when I was 17 at a shady Detroit strip club that didn’t check ID if you looked over 16. It was great.
• Caracoge

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  6 years ago

  ^funny moment from tj for me was after getting a bbj from a girl, she leaves the room without brushing and I see her later kissing some guy :)
• galiziabob.sabbatical

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  6 years ago

  Very important to me. Someday I am going to ask my ATF if she is open to kissing. She comes close to me at times like nose to nose, lips brushing my cheeks etc, and I kiss her all over including her neck. It definitely is a must for me, especially because she looks so delicious.
• loper

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  6 years ago

  wish I could get more kissing at strip clubs. Would gladly trade grinding for making out.
• JAprufrock

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  6 years ago

  @Caracoge >> Hopeflly that wasn't me.
• Pyroxl

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  6 years ago

  No kissing in most places is probably why I'm not a SC regular. The few times it was available in my domestic travels, it was VIP and would've cost more than a good escort, so didn't make any cents.
• larryfisherman

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  6 years ago

  I like it, but it’s not the end of the world if I don’t get it.
• GACA

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  6 years ago

  Very necessary for me which is why I'm pretty finicky about which dancers I decide to get a session with.
• Jascoi

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  6 years ago

  ar my advanced age of 68 i consider kissing lip to lip an an absolutely delightful experience...
• Cowboy12

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  6 years ago

  Depends on the dancer, if I am really into her, (if she is CF worthy), then it is important. No kissing at all, then she will never be on my favorites list. Kiss on the lips, just okay....but LFK/DFK is freaking awesome!
• flagooner

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  6 years ago

  For some reason I find that I have the best luck at getting DFK if I can get her as she exits the VIP area.
• skibum609

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  6 years ago

  I have never kissed my atf and that is pretty much the only reason she has been and never will be someone I go to see. If she's there great; if nor great.
• realDougster

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  6 years ago

  “ I have never kissed my atf” Your ATF just moved up another notch in my book
• chessmaster

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  6 years ago

  But did she walk op to the door after?
• rl27

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  6 years ago

  So far only found three dancers who would regularly kiss during the dance. First dancer would only do so in a half hour or longer champagne room dance. Every dance there would start off with 10 minutes of foreplay licking my ears, neck, before finishing up with a lot of kissing while she rubbed my hardon with her hands. Then the next 20 minutes were me seeing how long I would last. Second dancer was also in a half hour. Dance would start off typical lap dance with extras, then once I was done, she liked to kuddle and kiss until I was either ready for round two or our time was up. Third dancer if we were alone in our regular, but secluded area of the private dance room would do a lot of teasing and dirty talk which eventually led to us locking lips followed soon by a sly unzipping action and her hand in my pants to get things going.