Mileage and Intimacy in Strip Clubs

We know that mileage is how much shit you can get away with. What is intimacy? I got 5 dances from a 19 yo stripper yesterday. I never touched her but she was certainly not dick averse and was real close and intimate. Wonder if she would've been down for some front room DFK.

To me they are usually mutually exclusive - mileage is more like a porno-scene, intimacy is more like a romance-novel

My favorite dancers offer intimacy as part of their dances and is why I chose them typically over a girl who only wants to get me off (although they have their place too).

Mileage is what I do. Intimacy is what she does.

Dissociated sex acts are not intimacy, they are just amplifications of your own sexual frustration.

If one wants intimacy, your selected girl to open up to you, then you have to treat her like a civilian.

Avoid buying dances and instead learn to to get a front room makeout session going. Feed her money, as a show of respect.

Then when it is time for your own pants to come down, you invite her to the back room.

SJG

Not necessarily, but it can. I prefer intimacy.

I am so close to blocking Broken Record Guy...

"Mileage is what I do. Intimacy is what she does."

This may be the best definition.

^^^ I have to agree. All depends on if you are the guy or the girl. I feel very intimate when a girl is giving me a HJ. She might not feel the same way.

They are linked but not equal. Intimacy can be a sort of form or way of giving mileage but it is not mileage as a stand alone act. Mileage is anything beyond the norms of a standard lap dance but not as far as an extra.

Stick shifting OTP is a classic example of good mileage. And where intimacy comes into play is how a stripper stick shifts in the process of it. For example an intimate way of stick shifting is for her to be riding you cowgirl with a slow grind as she puts her cheek to yours and lightly moans in your ear whilst also she is stick shifting your hard cock OTP. She may also set her breasts lightly into your chest and caress it with them. And by contrast, this very same good mileage act can also be done in a non intimate way. In this case for example she would be bucking her hips more aggressively and she would be stick shifting more mechanically and do it in more animalistic way than intimate. Intimate is usually more slow and sensual and where it overlaps mileage is when it a mileage act is done with an intimate style.

The best thing for me is intimate high mileage. I have a backup CF that can be intimate but is much less so than my ATF DS. She's more nasty and provides even higher mileage, but even so, her intimacy is a notch lower than my ATF DS's. For example the backup CF gives me an awesome OTP BJ during our dances. She sucks on the head of my hard dick OTP and rubs on my balls in the process. She does it aggressively and looks at me in the process like a nasty slut. OTOH, my ATF DS doesn't really ever put her mouth over my dickhead OTP, but she slowly and sensually rubs her lips and cheeks on my entire hard cock OTP while also more lightly rubbing my balls on occasion. Again with this example the high mileage act of an OTP BJ is the same, but the way it is given can be done more intimately than another. And even though I can technically get the most and nastiest mileage from my backup CF, I still prefer my ATF DS clearly the most because she gives me intimate high mileage.

IDK - as long as payment is involved I doubt the legitimacy of the intimacy

Maybe I am in the minority but I consider intimacy to be an emotional and mental connection that has little to do with physical acts. I don't think I have ever felt an intimate connection with a stripper.

very true chulo and whodey. Even still, feigned intimacy is better than mechanical, going-thru-the-motions routine dancers.

When a dancer tells you to sit on the couch, pulls out your dick and gives you a bj, its mileage. When you immediately embrace start deep soul kissing and she ends up kissing your neck and chest, licking your nipples and running her fingernails along your inner thigh before giving you the bj its intimacy. If you hang out snuggling for 30 minutes after you cum, its too intimate and you post a discussion here because you almost believed.

I stopped reading after a couple of sentences, but Sirlapper seemed to be on the right track.

Papi is always 100% right!

Dancer hugging you in cow girl position and giving sensual dance by moving her hips ry thmically ro the music and you holding her hips or waist. This is the best intimate moment.Not many dancers hug PL in cow girl position.They do if they like you.

^ @Darkblue999 Amen brother. That's how my ATF DS does it and it is a good LDK position and method for me.

Better still is when my shirt is unbuttoned and her all natural DDs are sensually rubbing and pressing into my bare chest. And also as my hands are on her hips to start, eventually they migrate to grabbing her ass close to her pussy and pulling her ass cheeks apart and using the leverage to sensually and "intimately" grind my hard cock back into her at the same pace and rhythm. And then even on top of all this her hands will roam between intimate stick shifting and caressing my bare chest.

And really, @Papi_Chulo it doesn't matter if it is "legitimate" intimacy. That's not the point. It just feels better from a physical standpoint. In other words, a PL can still enjoy it as a fantasy but also realize and not be jaded that it is just a fantasy and not real. Of course it's not! (DUH!)